The first time will always be like rape we understand, after wards she becomes a bitch

Abi no be she them say collect person husband n school?

Celebrity and story line

DIS USELESS YORUBA HOEEE

Was she not the one they said 'snatched' someone else's husband?

Same Foluke Daramola?

MrBrownJay1:


i fully understand the above your wrote but the minute a woman says she was raped, then she has NO REASON to hold back any longer, as the society will look down on you (whether you tell the rapist name or not). so why not tell the full story instead (with actual name of rapist)?!

That's why you don't see them saying it. Out of every 10 that's raped, only 1 manage to say it and it's usually after they have come out of both primary and secondary traumas. The few that opened up usually does when they don't longer give a sh!t about it. If she's hasn't fully come out of it, she may not want to tell you the full gist. Knowing fully well the society is just interested in her sxx story and not to support her.

Different people process the situation differently. There's a reason why they say women are weaker sxx. We must encourage them to speak out! To expect large number of them to speak out without helping and encouraging them in a society that silences women voices in virtually every sphere of life is just not going to happen. This thing we are talking so flippantly is actually very rife and we need to do more to empower women and the girls-child.

Why must every girl in Nigerian claim to lost their virginity via rape
Where guys come the lost their own

Why 90% of Nigerian women lose their virginity through rape ?

siofra:
Watch how these little monkeys on nairaland will come and discredit her story.

Hmmmmmm



I am not discrediting her story but 90% of Nigerian ladies lies about being rape so as to gain sympathy..

They want to be pitied and the best way to cover their shame especially the wayward ones that started having sex from a little age is lying on rape rape rape.

CaptainFM1:
[b]That's why you don't see them saying it. [/b]Out of every 10 that's raped, only 1 manage to say it and it's usually after they have come out of both primary and secondary traumas. The few that opened up usually does when they don't longer give a sh!t about it.

@the above in bold
but that woman already stated that she was raped, so whats the hold up?!?!?

Adebowale89:
what does these rapist enjoy in unpermitted sex, the beauty of sex is the go ahead of the opposite gender. it is just like I give you the authority to ransacked every of my body



I'm very selective, if you úndress and you look so unkempt with rough skin, my dick no go even rise



some men are classless

you sabi finger toto

HaneefahRN:
Was she not the one they said 'snatched' someone else's husband?

na she oooooo. Pretending to be saint

Esther40:


There's nothing enjoyable in it, it's just wickedness

how many men have you slept with

move on cause nobody cares about virginity's safety. not even you the owner

DenreleDave:


I am not discrediting her story but 90% of Nigerian ladies lies about being rape so as to gain sympathy..

They want to be pitied and the best way to cover their shame especially the wayward ones that started having sex from a little age is lying on rape rape rape.


Anyway, rapist should be tried and if found guilty, they should be jailed... Same as false rape accusations

you just did... until it happens to your sister anyway

MrBrownJay1:


@the above in bold
but that woman already stated that she was raped, so whats the hold up?!?!?

The processing is still hers! Rape is just like jokes/pranks. You don't weigh the impact from the point of the person that cracked/made it.

She's the one that is going through the process(es) and only her can weigh the impact of telling her stories to the world.

In this wicked life, where bloggers will jump on people's story and be making money from it whilst still subjecting the person to secondary trauma even if the person cries herself to sleep every night and later self end herself.

Let her process the impact and work with her time inasmuch as the society isn't doing well to encourage and empowers women generally.

be proud of your puna work nor dey find pity,no dey sweet talk am....be proud of ur work @porn Actress

Odewaleadesoye:


VANGUARD

How many times is she going to repeat this. Though it was a horrifying experience, she seem to find it hard to let go of it or perhaps she glories in it or earns favoritism from people over it. Many people (men and women) including OAPs like herself have gone through horrific travails and they've put it behind them.
That she's the victim is no excuse to consistently bring up the occurrence

CaptainFM1:
The processing is still hers! Rape is just like jokes/pranks. You don't weigh the impact from the point of the person that cracked/made it.
She's the one that went through the process(es) and only her can weigh the impact of telling her stories to the world.
In this wicked life, bloggers will jump on people's story and be making money from it whilst still subjecting the person to secondary trauma even if the person cries herself to sleep every night and later self end herself.
Let her process the impact and work with her time inasmuch as the society isn't doing well to encourage and empowers women generally

so you are telling us all that there is sense in saying you were raped (to the whole world) but yet protect the rapist by not saying who did it?!
i guess what you are saying is that, you dont care whether the rapist will continue raping other innocent victims, and instead want to tell a half story so that he does... and no wonder he will.
makes absolutely NO SENSE to me.

Ohh It's a sad world where parents can't close their eyes for two minutes or they risk having their dear kids, mauled by neighbors, siblings, pastors...everyone and anyone could be a prospective rapist. Ask how it happened now and you'd find that she was probably just enjoying time with friends, helping a neighbor, staying with an uncle, attending a church program, walking on the road..just basic living for crying out loud.

Second marriage abi third marriage, some things are better left unsaid...but it's always women granting stupid interview... talking about exes and sex . get a life bimbo!

You knew that the man will be demanding sex everytime ,
but you still went on to marry him.
why are you complaining now?

that is what I'm going to do to my fiancee, I'm going to tell her that I'm going to demand for sexy time.
if you know you won't be able to cope. Quit now.

Is that why you supported Tinubu a.k.a Bala Blu

Even me,, i was raped

All Nigerian girls lost their virginity to rape. Nothing new

Sorry about that sad experience!!!
I knew her first in movie THE PALACE very young, innocent with small things.

Is there any Nigerian woman who didn’t lose hers through rape? My dating experience taught me that every sexually active woman was raped by all her boyfriends. Nobody ever willingly slept with a man. Abeg, forget that scam. Na to visit South Africa. At least the women that way are honest about their sex drive.

MrBrownJay1:


so you are telling us all that there is sense in saying you were raped (to the whole world) but yet protect the rapist by not saying who did it?!
i guess what you are saying is that, you dont care whether the rapist will continue raping other innocent victims, and instead want to tell a half story so that he does... and no wonder he will.
makes absolutely NO SENSE to me.

No, that's not what I'm saying.

Let me say it clearly again........ "The society should encourage and empowers the girls child". Story like that should come out naturally from her and/or usually from the appropriate authorities.

Ideally, unless she tells her story herself or the authorities broke it to sensitize the society (normally after justice has been delivered) neither me nor you should probe into her private matters. The interviewers should have asked if she's willing to talk about it (encourage and empowers).

We can only speak generically and continue to speculate. Only the victim can get into specifics if she wants. The civil authorities can request for specifics but wouldn't publish until thorough investigation and justice has been served. That's how it's done.

We don't stampede people to saying things if we can't encourage or empower them. Sometimes skimming only the summary out could just be very relieving as she had done on TVC. You don't know how she feels by just issuing the snippet. We don't know how she's been processing the whole thing.

That's the summary of all I'm saying. We keep demanding rather than encourage and empowers.

u lost ur virginity through ashewoism madam.

How and Where were you raped? Just stop playing 100% victim card