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Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by ItisWell22(f): 8:44am On Apr 08, 2023 |
Well written. š Going by the arguments being put forward on the 1st page of this post, youāll find out that a lot of us live in delusion, and it hits women the most. Like a friend of mine would say, hard as it may sound, āthe world is rigged against women!ā The ?woke ones may try so hard to argue, but it is what it is. As we try to become more masculine, losing touch with our femininity, we alter nature; and nature would always fight back. 1 simple instance: Check out the ladies who married men below. At 1st they preach and shout ābeing supportiveā Over time, many of them get frustrated. They want to be loved and pampered by a man. It works out for some, no doubt; but whatās the incidence or prevalence? 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by Prettygirl200(f): 8:53am On Apr 08, 2023 |
atheistandproud:That is the role of a man right and that was why there were created, every gender gat their roles to play. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by HellVictorinho6(m): 9:39am On Apr 08, 2023 |
Prettygirl200:are u saying no woman spends on a man? 2 Likes |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by HellVictorinho6(m): 9:43am On Apr 08, 2023 |
ItisWell22:how many women have u met? 1 Like |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by pansophist(m): 9:55am On Apr 08, 2023 |
To be fair to the women, it's not a good deal to carry both the financial burden of the home, and also her own biological burden that can't be transferred to the man (eg pregnancy, breastfeeding, child care, etc) And in most cases, when a woman assumes her biological duty (eg being pregnant), then her earning stops, and a man that earns equally or higher will sustain the lifestyle that she is used to. Bashing high earning women make it seems like it's a punishment for a woman to be successful. And if she is not successful, modern man will see her as a liability. Women are caught between two tight corners. If she makes money, she suffers somehow. If she doesn't makes money she also suffers. If that's the options you have, then it makes sense to suffer while having her own money, because the last time I checked, broke women are not getting married too. In fact more broke women are unmarried than wealthy women. Also, wealthy women can marry tomorrow if they downgrade their standards, but a broke woman is like Ukraine, at the mercy of everyone. That's a sad place to be, and it can only get worse. So please, pity women small. Cut them some slack. Also, many of these women ain't just looking for a man with money. Quite frankly, they have lots of those men. But lots of men thinks having money is enough, and these women wants a husband material as well, not a money material only. Yahoo boys and lots of touts have money, but these women will pass them. It's not just money. It takes more. Anyways, see it from a woman's perspective. These things are not black and white. 27 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by CodeTemplar: 10:02am On Apr 08, 2023 |
atheistandproud:what you just analyzed is a social pattern that is erroneous. The pattern was borne out of error and misconception of what God wants from marriage. Money is indirectly a measure of goods and services. Money received for goods and services can be influenced by negotiating power of the earner, demand-supply pressure on prices of goods and services. Now that a man isn't having more money may be a function of these above stated factors and not because he isn't hardworking or willing to work. What the Bible pattern reveal is one where the wife stays back mostly and do the lesser tasks. The man is to do the harder tasks like tilling the ground, cultivating the crop. The women were part of harvest and milling(processing) of food. All these man must earn above woman rubbish are corruption of biblical patterns. 1 Like |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by Nobody: 10:04am On Apr 08, 2023 |
Post Saved. Welldone OP. You see most of these modern Nigerians ladies are nothing to write home about. I don't really blame them. As usual, I blame the men who lost their prowess to what's in between their thighs. But to be honest i am enjoying this show. Evening newspapers both men and women just full everywhere these daysš 3 Likes |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by Reminderz: 10:04am On Apr 08, 2023 |
pansophist: at the bold, we all know that we have more broke women than successful women... these women live off men... even the so called successful women's wealth were gotten from rich men or through inheritance or born into a rich family... yes broke women are getting unmarried too but the percentage of marriage of broke women to successful women is far greater... when a woman is successful, she feels she doesn't need a man... the mentality of āwhat a man can do a woman can do betterā can be both good and bad at the same time. yes they can marry tomorrow if they downgrade their standard but we all know a successful woman can never downgrade her standard for a broke or unsuccessful man, unless she absolutely have no other options... some will even prefer to adopt kids than live with a broke man. what you said about being at the mercy of others is true because at least some level of independence give someone a sense of security and a boost in self-esteem... and it also increases self-respect.. a woman should focus on building her value through her character and dignity.. anything else is secondary... being a rich woman doesn't translate to being high value to a man unlike how rich men are being perceived by women 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by HellVictorinho6(m): 10:05am On Apr 08, 2023 |
CodeTemplar:the thread is baseless 2 Likes |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by HellVictorinho6(m): 10:08am On Apr 08, 2023 |
Reminderz:marrying a broke guy is not downgrading standards,there are other things he can provide. besides,a broke guy can become rich. 3 Likes |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by Prettygirl200(f): 10:09am On Apr 08, 2023 |
HellVictorinho6:It's not the duty of a woman to spend on a man. Like I said that's the role of a man. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by Reminderz: 10:12am On Apr 08, 2023 |
HellVictorinho6:lol to a man it might not see it as downgrading but to her she's downgrading herself... even if he can provide in some other areas, sooner or later she will start misbehaving, because how can you control someone more powerful than you are? a number one thing a woman expect a masculine man to provide is financial stability followed by sexual prowess... anything else is irrelevant... providing this two is what makes a woman respects a man and makes the union lasts longer 5 Likes |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by HellVictorinho6(m): 10:13am On Apr 08, 2023 |
Prettygirl200:i aint speaking about duty. i mean doing things out of affection or attraction or concern. 1 Like |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by Nobody: 10:13am On Apr 08, 2023 |
Reminderz: They are merciless and brutal when it comes to selection. They don't mince words or give any fvckš Only men usually pity them and marry downwards. Thus most Men are too weak and gullible for my liking. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by Nobody: 10:24am On Apr 08, 2023 |
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Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by HellVictorinho6(m): 10:26am On Apr 08, 2023 |
Reminderz:who says he cant become rich? misbehaving based on being richer shows no affection or attraction. she cannot buy his brain or become the owner of his mind with money. if she trys to oppress him because she is richer, then it means something is wrong between them. he has human rights too. whether u take it or not ,a richer woman will have a family with a man unless there is competition between them stopping it. 2 Likes |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by HellVictorinho6(m): 10:28am On Apr 08, 2023 |
Evolutionlove:men dont pity those they dont like as well 4 Likes |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by Reminderz: 10:29am On Apr 08, 2023 |
HellVictorinho6:don't just read to reply but to understand... women don't or can't wait for a man to get rich, that's if he even get rich because there's no certainty.... they want readymade... it's extremely rare to see a woman wait for a man to get rich or be successful unless she absolutely have no other better options than that man .. 10 Likes |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by HellVictorinho6(m): 10:32am On Apr 08, 2023 |
Evolutionlove:there are hardworking women outside those areas 1 Like |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by HellVictorinho6(m): 10:33am On Apr 08, 2023 |
Reminderz:who are u to speak 4 all women? 2 Likes |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by Reminderz: 10:33am On Apr 08, 2023 |
HellVictorinho6:yeah but it is still only men that can date or marry someone with no educational background, an illiterate, riches or from reputable family... men don't care about a woman's financial status before considering her for long term commitment 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by Nobody: 10:35am On Apr 08, 2023 |
Reminderz: You've seriously got an ample time explaining. |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by Reminderz: 10:36am On Apr 08, 2023 |
HellVictorinho6:it's like you just want to argue... exceptions are not the rule... 1 Like |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by HellVictorinho6(m): 10:36am On Apr 08, 2023 |
Reminderz:how many rich women have you met? 2 Likes |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by Reminderz: 10:37am On Apr 08, 2023 |
Evolutionlove:I won't reply him/her again, the person behind that moniker is a š¤” 3 Likes |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by HellVictorinho6(m): 10:38am On Apr 08, 2023 |
Reminderz:who makes,interpretes and enforces such goddamn rule? 1 Like |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by HellVictorinho6(m): 10:40am On Apr 08, 2023 |
Reminderz:what is ur goddamn aim and who needs ur reply to survive? 2 Likes |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by Prettygirl200(f): 11:03am On Apr 08, 2023 |
HellVictorinho6:maybe, just maybe but in few cases though |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by HellVictorinho6(m): 11:22am On Apr 08, 2023 |
Prettygirl200:alright,pretty girl. |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by Prettygirl200(f): 11:22am On Apr 08, 2023 |
HellVictorinho6:yeah |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by BlackMan6969(m): 11:41am On Apr 08, 2023 |
In this day and age of information, i can't believe some folks are finding this little write-up to be bulky. Some read & didn't understand the point. Others read in part & made conclusions that are alien to the point. And some didn't read it at all. Guys you'll really need to cultivate the act of reading. There is a lot to gain from it. 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Women Have Become The Men That They Want To Marry by Streetmovement(m): 11:47am On Apr 08, 2023 |
Wotoporiously speaking Op, you said it the way it was pose to be said 3 Likes 1 Share |
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