advanceDNA:
Give sex?? I dont always get this phrase...

U guys make women feel sex is a favor they "give"......instead of what both party needs...so all the leverage is on one side, makimg men always technically beg for it..

dchamp234:
It's saddens me anytime I come on social media to make myself happy and end up seeing posts or topics as this, most of these women who deny their husbands sex or give rules before sex in there matrimonial homes where ones into prostitutions and hookups or even a more dengerious sexual episodes the mind can never think of and all of a sudden a man finds you worthy to share his home and wealth and you start acting up and giving conditions before you perform your marital rites. An African man won't accept such, I don't know where these men come from, coming to nairaland to cry like babies, they are fools for allowing such in their homes. Personally i'll frustrate them, make life unbearable for them, i'll employ a maid and sleep with her all time and make sure she knows I'm sleeping with the maid then get her pregnant and finally make her my wife. She can go back to her father's house or the streets where she came from.

Kriss216:
When a single and hórny man always desire for sex, the society will beckon on him to go and get married. The man will obediently go and get married and his wife will start to deprive him of same sex he was getting abundantly as a single man.

The man will now rush to the society to complain of not getting the sex they promised he'll be getting bountifully. The society, being feminine in nature, will tell him ;

-Have a talk with your wife
-Be helping her in doing house chores
-Be washing her pants and bras twice a week
-Always buy her gifts
-Take her for vacation
-Always send her money for no reason
-Make her happy

My questions to the society are;

1. If a man has to do all these before getting sex from his beloved wife, what then is the essence of marriage?

2. What does a man benefit from marriage?

3. What are the things a wife can do that a baby mama cannot do?

Kriss216:
When a single and hórny man always desire for sex, the society will beckon on him to go and get married. The man will obediently go and get married and his wife will start to deprive him of same sex he was getting abundantly as a single man.

The man will now rush to the society to complain of not getting the sex they promised he'll be getting bountifully. The society, being feminine in nature, will tell him ;

-Have a talk with your wife
-Be helping her in doing house chores
-Be washing her pants and bras twice a week
-Always buy her gifts
-Take her for vacation
-Always send her money for no reason
-Make her happy

My questions to the society are;

1. If a man has to do all these before getting sex from his beloved wife, what then is the essence of marriage?

2. What does a man benefit from marriage?

3. What are the things a wife can do that a baby mama cannot do?

honniemail:
You guys did not even give women space on the first page to answer your question.

For me, my husband works 9 - 4 and I wake up as early as 4am, cook, clean the house, prepare my daughter for school and resume work by 7am that is after I dropped my girl in school. All these time daddy will still be in bed cos he resumes by 9am, though he helps alot with cores.

So I called him, and explained that for us to enjoy sex together and it won't be a one sided thing, he should pls come back at most 7pm since he is closing by 4pm, so that we can eat, shower and go to bed by latest 10pm and have a good time, then by 11pm max I can sleep and rest against the next day. He won't listen, the least time he will return is 9pm, then by 2am he will start to touch and my alarm will sound by 4am, and he wants it everyday, the whole thing might even last till my alarm will sound making me not get enough rest and sleep.

The truth is its not possible, person go just die untimely and he won't even wait up to 2 months before getting a replacement.

Fahvvy:
I've said this times without number and I'll say it again...

If my wife haven't properly communicated a VERY GENUINE REASON why she wants to stop having se.x with me, then I'm going outside ANYTIME I get Hot AND I'LL MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS ...

All these talk about women waking up on morning and saying no SE.x to their hubby for no good reason is nonsense ...

And the men who even allow this to continue are WEAK ...

Buharidgeneral:
Some will even tell you Saturday If you miss that Saturday nothing for you again till another Saturday . That's how bad it's

Chris2863:
😂😂😂😂😂😂


You get that guy’s thread for mind🤣🤣


The guy that complained of his wife not cooking, finances and sex

damosky12:


Quite true

Aklee4994:
Lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣you Dey use that guy man play abi.....Na porch line

honniemail:
You guys did not even give women space on the first page to answer your question.

For me, my husband works 9 - 4 and I wake up as early as 4am, cook, clean the house, prepare my daughter for school and resume work by 7am that is after I dropped my girl in school. All these time daddy will still be in bed cos he resumes by 9am, though he helps alot with cores.

So I called him, and explained that for us to enjoy sex together and it won't be a one sided thing, he should pls come back at most 7pm since he is closing by 4pm, so that we can eat, shower and go to bed by latest 10pm and have a good time, then by 11pm max I can sleep and rest against the next day. He won't listen, the least time he will return is 9pm, then by 2am he will start to touch and my alarm will sound by 4am, and he wants it everyday, the whole thing might even last till my alarm will sound making me not get enough rest and sleep.

The truth is its not possible, person go just die untimely and he won't even wait up to 2 months before getting a replacement.

Buharidgeneral:
Some will even tell you Saturday If you miss that Saturday nothing for you again till another Saturday . That's how bad it's

theophorus:
Let's hope the women folks can explain the reason for that action but so far, have not seen any concrete response.

They may claim domestic chores.
They may claim Tired
They may claim stress but fact is deep that they know those are just excuses.

Rokiat:
The best answer you can get is from your own wife. Ask your wife lol how are we supposed to know?

EastAlchemist:
Most don’t marry out of love na
Isn’t it obvious

falcon01:
Sex is not something you give, its something you do out of love, money or just for fun. The question is 'why did you stop having sex with your man'

theophorus:
Let's hope the women folks can explain the reason for that action but so far, have not seen any concrete response.

They may claim domestic chores.
They may claim Tired
They may claim stress but fact is deep that they know those are just excuses.

Jozilinn:
Some men act all alpha they don't even help their wives with anything, they feel it's just about providing and having sex with their wives, anything about the children isn't their business,I don't blame the ones saying baby mamas and wives are doing the same thing...No! Most men pamper their baby mamas and most babymamas would do anything just to please their baby daddies cos of the cash, chances of them separating is high,no grudges compared to marriages.

Some men for example if their wives gives birth to only female kids, they would personally not answer call on the day of delivery... insults wey the wife go get no be here, will a guy keep impregnating his babymama if she is giving birth to females and females,See obavoh that is already sleeping with his wife in just two weeks after child birth.
What of the ones that don't like family planning but can't take care of the kids, wetin you want the woman to do... beating the lady even with pregnancy, causing miscarriage and making her feel she's is weak womb,and she owes him for shelter, locking her away from family and friends.
The latest generation of men that like anal, hardcore, party,even enjoy sleeping with their wives by tying her up and hitting her with belt,See women go through a lot in marriages, endurance is never used for the men, but the women in marriages... Not all women are the same, just as not all men are the same this just brings us to the personality of the couples and their level of communication and understanding which I think is the major key factor of this topic.

Kriss216:
When a single and hórny man always desire for sex, the society will beckon on him to go and get married. The man will obediently go and get married and his wife will start to deprive him of same sex he was getting abundantly as a single man.

The man will now rush to the society to complain of not getting the sex they promised he'll be getting bountifully. The society, being feminine in nature, will tell him ;

-Have a talk with your wife
-Be helping her in doing house chores
-Be washing her pants and bras twice a week
-Always buy her gifts
-Take her for vacation
-Always send her money for no reason
-Make her happy

My questions to the society are;

1. If a man has to do all these before getting sex from his beloved wife, what then is the essence of marriage?

2. What does a man benefit from marriage?

3. What are the things a wife can do that a baby mama cannot do?

honniemail:
You guys did not even give women space on the first page to answer your question.

For me, my husband works 9 - 4 and I wake up as early as 4am, cook, clean the house, prepare my daughter for school and resume work by 7am that is after I dropped my girl in school. All these time daddy will still be in bed cos he resumes by 9am, though he helps alot with cores.

So I called him, and explained that for us to enjoy sex together and it won't be a one sided thing, he should pls come back at most 7pm since he is closing by 4pm, so that we can eat, shower and go to bed by latest 10pm and have a good time, then by 11pm max I can sleep and rest against the next day. He won't listen, the least time he will return is 9pm, then by 2am he will start to touch and my alarm will sound by 4am, and he wants it everyday, the whole thing might even last till my alarm will sound making me not get enough rest and sleep.

The truth is its not possible, person go just die untimely and he won't even wait up to 2 months before getting a replacement.

Kriss216:
When a single and hórny man always desire for sex, the society will beckon on him to go and get married. The man will obediently go and get married and his wife will start to deprive him of same sex he was getting abundantly as a single man.

The man will now rush to the society to complain of not getting the sex they promised he'll be getting bountifully. The society, being feminine in nature, will tell him ;

-Have a talk with your wife
-Be helping her in doing house chores
-Be washing her pants and bras twice a week
-Always buy her gifts
-Take her for vacation
-Always send her money for no reason
-Make her happy

My questions to the society are;

1. If a man has to do all these before getting sex from his beloved wife, what then is the essence of marriage?

2. What does a man benefit from marriage?

3. What are the things a wife can do that a baby mama cannot do?