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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Danisaint112(m): 1:03pm On Apr 15, 2023
The children.

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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by obaidan: 1:04pm On Apr 15, 2023
You do not automatically become next of kin because you have vagina that you are putting to use, you are not a housewife, build your personal wealth and stop having palpitations over another persons wealth. If you divorce him, it should be for ur peace of mind and opportunity to enjoy ur personal wealth in peace, not the one u plan to inherit. Anyone a man trusts should be his next of kin. In these days of paternity fraud, I'd just say be careful. You never die dem dun dey corner ur resources to raise another man pikin, imagine when u die

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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Nobody: 1:04pm On Apr 15, 2023
saphiere:
Please drop your answer with reasons.

For me, I'd say his wife.
My reasons;
1. His wife takes care of his children.
2. He grows old with his wife.
3. His mum might die before him.
4. His wife is always there by him.

Trash. Next please

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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by marvellous2222: 1:05pm On Apr 15, 2023
otuomasirichi:
😎

His wife for sure 💯
werey! So that you can divorce your husband at old age

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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by gigabyte13: 1:05pm On Apr 15, 2023
If no be say, women don dey dash men bastard pikin.... Thanks to DNA
Come still carry olosho lifestyle enter marriage....
Who else to better be your NEXT OF KIN if not your wife.....

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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Odunharry(m): 1:06pm On Apr 15, 2023
ednut1:
Wife or children even tho most women dont make their husbands next of kin
Many don't..

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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by lomprico(m): 1:07pm On Apr 15, 2023
E suppose be wife but women these days eh!

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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by obaidan: 1:07pm On Apr 15, 2023
saphiere:
Please drop your answer with reasons.

For me, I'd say his wife.
My reasons;
1. His wife takes care of his children.
2. He grows old with his wife.
3. His mum might die before him.
4. His wife is always there by him.
When his mum dies, there will be another conversation...
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by thesicilian: 1:07pm On Apr 15, 2023
Your next of kin should be your family member you trust most. And that varies from person to person

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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by blowjohn(m): 1:07pm On Apr 15, 2023
The question Shud be,.....

'who Shud ba a man's next if kin if he suspects his wife is a gold digger?

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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Karleb(m): 1:08pm On Apr 15, 2023
Next of kin don't automatically claim your properties, at least not in Nigeria.

It's the reason people do will.

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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Oblongata: 1:08pm On Apr 15, 2023
saphiere:
Please drop your answer with reasons.

For me, I'd say his wife.
My reasons;
1. His wife takes care of his children.
2. He grows old with his wife.
3. His mum might die before him.
4. His wife is always there by him.
Apparently you don't know the meaning of 'Next of kin'. Mod sef just rush to put this on fp.

Next of kin is the person that should be contacted in the case of an emergency. It is someone that has the most information about you. (E.g Your medical history, your address, etc)

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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Nobody: 1:08pm On Apr 15, 2023
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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by SenatePresdo(m): 1:09pm On Apr 15, 2023
Whoever that has proven to love him unconditionally.

Anybody that can forgive your shortcomings, make the person your next of kin.

Not somebody that wouldn't want anything to do with you because of small fuckup.

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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by spiritedtete: 1:09pm On Apr 15, 2023
Next of kin is the next person on contact in case of emergency... it can be anyone that is very close to you as long as it's an adult. It is different from next of kin to your Will.

But interms of Will your children should be the manager not your wife. However somethings like property and shares should go to your wife.

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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Caaz: 1:09pm On Apr 15, 2023
My kids are my next of kin, whilst I m my husband's next of kin.
It's a perfect balance
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by SunMusk(m): 1:09pm On Apr 15, 2023
In traditional, and biblical sense, I don't think ur wife is your heir or next of kin. Is ur son or a family member but that doesn't mean you will not give your wife anything when divorce happens. I think hakim wife is over greed, too greed. Why asking for more than half of someone property which you have not worked for and a marriage of just two years.

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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by zilon12(m): 1:09pm On Apr 15, 2023
Both of them grin grin grin
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Oche211(m): 1:09pm On Apr 15, 2023
With the rise of these gold diggers and slayqueens, your wife should be your next of kin after maybe 15 or 20 years of marriage.

You can't entrust your hard earned cash to someone who hasn't earned the right to it.

You can use your siblings if they are trusted. If you have a child, transfer your next kin to your children

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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by onuman: 1:10pm On Apr 15, 2023
Wife. But you have given the good reasons. Nothing to add.
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by gammarays1: 1:10pm On Apr 15, 2023
Normally it should be wife.
However with recent happenings and activities of wolves in women skin, it's best to pray you live long so you pass it over to your children.

Mother's can take good care of your children with or without money. After all, everyone loves grandmas. The only disadvantage is that they're older.

The most important is to pray to marry a good wife not these vultures flying around seeking whom to devour.

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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by zilon12(m): 1:10pm On Apr 15, 2023
Even people wey get N5,216.23 for account go dey comment grin grin grin

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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by SenatePresdo(m): 1:11pm On Apr 15, 2023
spiritedtete:
Next of kin is the next person on contact in case of emergency... it can be anyone that is very close to you as long as it's an adult. It is different from next of kin to your Will.

But interms of Will your children should be the manager not your wife. However somethings like property and shares should go to your wife.

Children you have done DNA on and confirm you are their Father.

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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by deavicky(m): 1:11pm On Apr 15, 2023
Normally it should be ur wife.
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Neddyogu(m): 1:11pm On Apr 15, 2023
nabiz:
Reading your mind it seems you don't actually understand the meaning of NEXT OF KING. Your next of King is not thr per to inherit your assets if you are no more. There is different between Will and next of king. Next of king is a person to be contact in case of emergency or who will help you do what you can not do for yourself. While will is some one you authorize to benefit your property in case of your dead. I may be wrong sha

Next of king? shocked

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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by PrinceofSarcasm: 1:12pm On Apr 15, 2023
Odin13:
The son.. if he’s above 15..

The sister .. if the son is below 15

Brother .. of the boy is below 15

Wife .. 25 years after marriage .

Mother .. a big No.

She can’t run her family and mine.


All these ones who beat up their mothers are talking 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Rubbish USELESS comment

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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by concho(m): 1:12pm On Apr 15, 2023
When I found out my woman was sleeping with another man when she said she was going for prayers , she broke up with me immediately and absconded with all my money in her account

When I marry tomorrow, you will advise me to let my wife access to my funds ??

God forbid

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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by obaidan: 1:12pm On Apr 15, 2023
EponObi:
Achraf Hakimi divorce story really touched this one grin
E pain am.....that gender dey fear me. It's all about a man's money or wealth. I can't marry a poor man, why is hakimis mum still controlling him....they are not even talking about Hakimis wife about to be free from the man as they always celebrate, they are all bashing the guy and his mum....these vagina people, na just few of them good.

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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Mamijoh(f): 1:12pm On Apr 15, 2023
Odin13:
The son.. if he’s above 15..

The sister .. if the son is below 15

Brother .. of the boy is below 15

Wife .. 25 years after marriage .

Mother .. a big No.

She can’t run her family and mine.

[sup] kiss
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Rhozabeth(m): 1:13pm On Apr 15, 2023
Your wife should naturally be your next of kin but if u find out that ur wife is trying to strip u of all u have ever acquired in ur youthful and vibrant age, will u continue to make her ur next if kin? Your answer is as good as mine! Many men have gone broke after acquiring so much because of this mistake even though the signs were there!
God save us as men from gold diggers that are always looking for who to finance their extravagant lifestyles!

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