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I need advice on something urgent.

I grew up in a house where I don't get to do much chores. Somehow before. I wake up,all the house duties would be done by someone.
So most of the time,I have been nonchalant about chores and all.

This has affected me in some way. If I live with someone,I'd leave all the chores to that person. I don't know why. Anyone I live with complains about this.
Since,my level 100 in school I have always received complains from my friends that I'm nonchalant about chores and I do not take responsibility. This has also made them to labour me as lazy and I hate it a lot.
Now in my 400level I decided to rent a place and stay alone and learn to be disciplined and take responsibility. It was going fine and good cuz there's literally no one to save me. If I don't cook,I won't eat. If I don't sweep,my house would be dirty. If I don't dispose waste,my house would smell.
So I kind of started getting used to it all.
But there's a problem now. My friend needed an accommodation howbeit temporarily but days have turned to weeks and weeks to almost a month and now I have relapsed again and the whole talk of you're lazy is beginning to resurface.


What do you think??

Lalasticlala
Mynd44

Dunno

get an extra room mate that will annoy your current one till both of them will pack out and you will have your disciplined life again.

yrhuhfy113:
get an extra room mate that will annoy your current one till both of them will pack out and you will have your disciplined life again.

Another one wants to join us but I do not want a repeat of what happened in the past.

If you are this lazy with house chores just make sure you are very strong in earning money then you can live the soft life.

Your brain has been wired to be lazy when it comes to house chores. This does not in anyway imply that you're a lazy person. If I were you, I'd work hard enough to be a boss or billionaire so I can pay people to do things I'm not wired to do. Everything's training in life including talking, eating, singing and dancing.

Rewire your brain.

Op you no get problem at all

One of the reasons I swore not to have a roommate all through my stay in school, I might commit murder because of my temperament......I don't tolerate nonsense.

I will NEVER allow someone like this OP pass the night in my house because we'll have problem, I always make sure my house is tidy 24/7.


There're four categories of people I don't relate with.

1. Dirty

2. Lazy

3. Stingy

4. Talkatives

Bahamas95:
One of the reasons I swore not to have a roommate all through my stay in school, I might commit murder because of my temperament......I don't tolerate nonsense.

I will NEVER allow someone like this OP pass the night in my house because we'll have problem, I always make sure my house is tidy 24/7.


There're four categories of people I don't relate with.

1. Dirty

2. Lazy

3. Stingy

4. Talkatives

You just ended up misfiring and saying what is not relevant!

GeneralKoko:
You just ended up misfiring and saying what is not relevant!

Ogbeni, Shut up and Learn!

In this Day and Age, a Guy MUST know how to Clean his Apartment and even Cook!

If you do not know how to do Domestic chores, You will Embarrass yourself one day.

VinnyBaba:
Ogbeni, Shut up and Learn!

In this Day and Age, a Guy MUST know how to Clean his Apartment and even Cook!

If you do not know how to do Domestic chores, You will Embarrass yourself one day.

If he can't clean his apartment, I wonder how he lives in it

I will never have a maid in my house, never
Na the effects of housemaid be this.

VinnyBaba:
Ogbeni, Shut up and Learn!

In this Day and Age, a Guy MUST know how to Clean his Apartment and even Cook!

If you do not know how to do Domestic chores, You will Embarrass yourself one day.

I didn't say I can't clean my apartment.
You get luck say here na faceless forum.

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