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Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by djon78(m): 3:48am On Apr 18, 2023 |
EriMma1: Op here is the best reply to your post Marrying immature women will be the undoing of many guys. Except for very few 20yrs old women Many of them can't stand the heat in marriage. Marriage no be beans, it's not for small children. If not for the matured woman I married, by now my marriage would have been scattered. There were times I was really behaving like a pric.k, as in. But this woman still stayed by me. It was later my eyes opened that I really messed up big time, I retracted my steps and changed for good. If not for the wonderful matured woman I married, e for done be for me. But many young women can't stand the heat. They will definitely leave. So op brace yourself, pick up and get going. Let God come through for you, make e better for you. It's not easy having a woman around you and next she is gone. Just be strong. You will get over it 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by Kobojunkiee: 3:57am On Apr 18, 2023 |
Gasayi:1. They just leave everything to men or do men choose to sit as head over the woman who submits to them in marriage? You can't have it both ways though. Either you wish to be head of household or you share 50-50 as partners. Pick one! |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by Kobojunkiee: 4:00am On Apr 18, 2023 |
peacefulhome:Why should she be patient? He promised to be head over her, taking care of all her financial needs while she submits to him in return. He failed to meet his end of the bargain as far as she is concerned, something he himself does not refute, even with an additional mouth to feed. |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by Kobojunkiee: 4:02am On Apr 18, 2023 |
victorazy:1. How much does a school teacher in that country earn? Combine that with what OP makes and see how that comes nowhere to fend for a family of 3 in this economy no matter which way you slice and dice it. Now, imagine when OP's share is no longer available... as in he says he lost his job. What do you expect her to do for 3 mouths with what she makes? Magic? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by Kobojunkiee: 4:05am On Apr 18, 2023 |
Johnchrix:LOL.... What in the world convinced you that OP himself married for love and not Konji? He married his wife and even had a child while strapped down by poverty and you think that spells love on his part? Abegi! |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by Kobojunkiee: 4:06am On Apr 18, 2023 |
Akalia:Rubbish! |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by Kobojunkiee: 4:09am On Apr 18, 2023 |
djon78:1. Does OP sound to you like someone who is more mature than the woman he married? 2. Ah, I see! You were immature and married a mature woman who you claim stayed with you. But if that mature woman had abandoned your immature arse, you would have come on to blame her for leaving you, right? Una assessment dey make person wonder which way Nigerians abeg! |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by Gerrard59(m): 4:48am On Apr 18, 2023 |
deathmen12: They will never learn...Ndi, My children should grow with me. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by Roseey0(f): 4:57am On Apr 18, 2023 |
She doesn't understand what marriage entails and the earlier you start teaching her, the better for you 2. Times like this will always come. You both must hold hands together and defeat it. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by greatiyk4u(m): 5:16am On Apr 18, 2023 |
clockwisereport: Majority they say does what again? |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by Umadam: 5:26am On Apr 18, 2023 |
Just let her go, she will never change Fight for ur baby.. |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by clockwisereport: 6:58am On Apr 18, 2023 |
greatiyk4u:how did you arrive at your "majority" ? |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by greatiyk4u(m): 7:34am On Apr 18, 2023 |
clockwisereport: From records in my disposal, from documented divorce cases The clear secret is that certain lifestyle the tolerate is absurd among your nsukka people....let's leave it here |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by clockwisereport: 7:38am On Apr 18, 2023 |
greatiyk4u: nonsense record from your dull brain |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by greatiyk4u(m): 7:41am On Apr 18, 2023 |
clockwisereport: Weldone Mr sharp brain without decorum. |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by clockwisereport: 7:47am On Apr 18, 2023 |
greatiyk4u: you first roped in Nsukka into your post even when OP never made mention of that. you also brought in Mbaise. according to you, your mum is from Owerri. i am sure you , you have never seen Owerri marriages that collapsed. |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by greatiyk4u(m): 7:54am On Apr 18, 2023 |
clockwisereport: You see you are the dull person I asked the op, that I guess he is from nsukka as he noted he is from Enugu state, I equally asked if the wife na Mbaise as he equally reported the state of the wife to be imo I wrote in igbo to avoid sounding slurred ethnically Asserting that it doesn't usually end well based on my personal experience and records on ground...no harm intended, failed marriages knows no boundary bro. |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by clockwisereport: 8:23am On Apr 18, 2023 |
greatiyk4u: wetin bring Nsuuka and Mbaise into your post if you had no ulterior motive? how many Nsukka/Mbaise marriages have you witnessed to arrive at your stupidconclusion? have you not seen failed marriages between people from your town/community? |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by victorazy(m): 8:31am On Apr 18, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: No amount is little, is all about Love, Commitment, Determination, Vision and Dream. When I married my wife we had nothing, we stayed in one room selfcon. As a young architect, my work was seasonal, sometimes I go several months without any income and she was newly graduated with no work. Sometimes when there was no food in the house she'll go to her customer in market and beg for food stuffs for credit which I do pay when I gat the money and she never one day insulted me. There was a time in my compound where we later packed in, ppl were calling her "Uniform" because she used to wear only one cloth BUT today story don dey change. na the same people dey collect the contacts of the telor that is always making her cloths. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by djon78(m): 8:37am On Apr 18, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: Bia Kobo abeg I no get your time Yes I messed up, but the Bible says he that finds a a wife, find a good thing and obtain favour of the Lord I believe that my wife is because of the favour (Grace) I obtained of the Lord Also I learnt that honestly every human being can still allow good to come out of them if they turn towards right thing. I also learnt that there is no marriage that cannot turn around for good except the ones where there is a threat of violence. No marriage is beyond redemption |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by Delightsome2023: 8:40am On Apr 18, 2023 |
Klass99:what does redpill have to do with this thread? Foolish attention seeking wh0re |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by djon78(m): 8:40am On Apr 18, 2023 |
clockwisereport: Oga all this slur is unnecessary Bad marriage can happen from any place |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by clockwisereport: 8:41am On Apr 18, 2023 |
djon78: He started it. OP never made mention of Nsukka and Mbaise but the guy had to bring it into the discussion |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by Delightsome2023: 8:45am On Apr 18, 2023 |
Nice2023: |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by djon78(m): 8:49am On Apr 18, 2023 |
victorazy: You were blessed with one of those Angels from heaven This reminds me of burial I went recently. The man was testifying of his dead wife, that she married him when he had nothing and she came from a very big prominent family in Anambra State. The mega Mansion in the man's compound you won't believe He started that way Although the wife died in her 70s but I saw evidence of true love Some men are fortunate to encounter Angels as wives in marriage |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by djon78(m): 8:51am On Apr 18, 2023 |
clockwisereport: I understand Just let it be oh 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by clockwisereport: 9:25am On Apr 18, 2023 |
djon78: Ok. One love |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by sheffyUTD(m): 11:33am On Apr 18, 2023 |
Softbby123: @the bolded, wrong advice. It will only relief him temporarily because of the peanut salary and render him useless later; big trap and time waster , well except he is a professional, which obviously he is not. Anyway you can sustain yourself for the period of the training and after before you start earning from your skills (it is a good skillset if you master it and network), be diligent and do it. When you're stable, you have choices in women. Just do not for get your child. And, in whatever you do, wise up and starting thinking with your brain not heart, how can you be 'remitting' more than 50% of your earning to your wife, that is insane. The word remit alone tells the story and your orientation, more like you're on her terms and condition. Take good care of your family but don't be a fucking simp. |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by MrFly(m): 11:53am On Apr 18, 2023 |
U are a hero if u were parting with 40k from 75k. She left u cos of greed, u shd be worried of ur daughter and ur future. A gold digger shouldnt be any of ur worries |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by patorial(m): 12:00pm On Apr 18, 2023 |
EriMma1: Op this is the best advice even a God won't hesitate to give you. Right now what you need is focus on your skill to get back to earning a living. As for your wife, just forget about her and work harder to send upkeep money for your daughter. I know you will still rush to her when you get back on your feet, but it's not my worry if you don't learn your lesson that she didn't stay with you in the hard times. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Get My Wife And Kid Back? I Really Love Her So Much by Kobojunkiee: 12:38pm On Apr 18, 2023 |
victorazy:1. Una too dey like drag fairy tale ideals into issues when it sounds convenient. Op tell you say love, commitment, etc., factored into his decision to marry? Abegi! 2. Everybody shouldn't be like you and your wife naw since everybody don't believe the things you and your wife believe in. People are different for good reason. |
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