becky39000:
Empty Headed Simps everywhere

BENEFICIAL12:
QUIETLY RUN FOR YOUR DEAR LIFE DON'T EVEN TRY TO WEAR YOUR SHOE... FLING IT OUT _RUN AND NEVER LOOK BACK

saweide:
Good afternoon dear romancelanders,
My lover girl I met on Facebook just 4 months relationship of knowing each other sent me a shocking message to me on Facebook last night .
She is a single mother of two who lost her husband 3 years ago and when I met her I let her know that won't be a barrier that I will marry her with the 2 children and she agreed. Tho it was a long distance relationship and since we dated have travelled to meet her 9 times while she visited once and when she came she had to drop the children with her elder sister.
Three days ago we had little misunderstanding she cut phone on me I called her back never to try such on me and after that call she never call me for 2 days unlike before she calls regularly and I never call her too and she sent this to me last night what should I do ?

Though have not replied her or call her since that yesterday night.

Please someone with wisdom should advise me what to reply her ..tho I love her and I don't want to loose her ..but she offended me by dropping phone on me and she never say sorry before sending me this screenshot message

I bought easy buy solar for her which we are paying small small and also her phone get screen problems and I collect it to repair for her and I gave her my second phone Samsung to be using and is still with her that was what she meant that I should come and collect all what I did for her in that screenshot mesaage


This is someone that told me she has been going to the mountain to pray for husband that will stay in her life for the past 3 years ooooo

saweide:



Tanks but pls ...how should I react to her
Mesages

saweide:



Tanks but pls ...how should I react to her
Mesages

okerekingsley90:


Honestly you are a very stupid man for this question. Na you make me comment. I didn't want to say anything, but you are just so stupid.

lereinter:



You are a funny man

Leave the solar with her, and man will finance it

When she send you phone send hers

Shikena

maticar:

as a young man i see no reason to marry a single mother who has her own baggage

you can barely provide the 10k she asked for and you still want to wife her and how will you provide for her children and yours too?

leave single mothers for alhaji and chairmen them oooo

lereinter:



You are a funny man

Leave the solar with her, and man will finance it

When she send you phone send hers

Shikena

emmaodet:


Why do you want to marry a single mother of 2 of all people?
Is that how low you are in the sexual market?
Are you that poor with no options?
A single man just starting his life spending his hard earned money to impress not even a single lady, not a single mother of 1 But a single mother of 2
Apooooooorr

Collins4u1:
You're not financially buoyant, and you want to take care of two kid that's not yours.

that woman go show u shege.

what do I know sef, I don't even have a gf

frozen70:


You are not yet stable, you want to add misery to yourself

What makes you think you can survive swimming with out a life jacket

She can't get what she wants from you base on the relationship

I am not talking about money, but you can't fit in

She was polite enough to tell that she is tired

Well I think you can leave those things for her

And move on

If it will work out, you guys will come back

But just respect yourself and end the relationship too

Tell her to sell those things and use the proceed to pay for the solar

If you are still with her phone, go with a friend and drop it for her and say final goodbye

Danisbrosautos:


I will give you my opinion and use myself as an example.

First, you are not mature for bringing this issue to social media. I will never and have never involved a third party in my relationship. If he tire me I move on.. don't have time for such drama.

2. I see you ooze some form of pride bossy. She didn't greet you good morning? As what that you are? Lord and savior? If my woman don't greet me we laugh over it and yab each other. I don't even take note. I don't have such luxury time for such irrelevance. I'm discipline but not with pride.

3. You are petty. Grow up man and face more important things than staying idle arguing with a woman over irrelevant matter. You even shared matter she confided in you about going to mountain? Haba! Your partner secret should die with you.... I feel embarrassed on your behalf.

4. Until you learn how to take excesses of a woman, you are not ready for marriage yet. You both are two different people with different thinking pattern coming together.. it takes maturity and understanding with determined effort to make it work. I may be wrong but I feel whatever you are getting from her is what you are giving her. Garbage in garbage out!

Please don't describe her next time with all the tag of a single mom and if you see yourself as doing her a favor because she is a single mom, I will advise you end it and move on.

The problem is not what she did wrong. The problem is that you are broke and cranky and can't manage being broke! Same way people can't manage wealth is the same way alot of people can't manage tough times.

Not greeting shouldn't be your problem now, making money to be able to stand as a man should be your problem. Women love a manly man and not one who sobs and hold grudges around for days. What's there to tell her on phone why didn't she acknowledge the money sent and move on?

This is Month of May already.. almost half of the year. Buckle up and be "gingered".

I wish you all the best.

saweide:



Tanks but pls ...how should I react to her
Mesages

saweide:


She has no man in her life...she is a beautiful lady but she has nothing and she vividly told me if she want to do olosho or hook up to survive she would av done it since but she decided not to mess around with men ..and sometimes whhen I visit her she took garri with the kids ...she is broke and even wen am with her she does not receive call from any man

saweide:



Tho I have build house and I av a business am doing just that I was broke this period due to can scarcity and election period which adversely affected my work...I I av a lot of investment am looking unto...she was just never patient

saweide:


Am also a single father of two

maticar:

as a young man i see no reason to marry a single mother who has her own baggage

you can barely provide the 10k she asked for and you still want to wife her and how will you provide for her children and yours too?

leave single mothers for alhaji and chairmen them oooo

tesuto1:
How did you visit a lady 9times in a space of 4 months,sorry to ask,are u that jobless??

saweide:


She sent me a message to pay for d solar power for that week and she did not greet to say Good morin .so I ask her why she did not greet me ..that was when she sent the message

Even 3 days before then ..she ask me to send 10k I told her am broke and I manage to send her 3k ..she never say thank u or acknowledge the money till now

saweide:
.
Na wetin I wan go eat wey no make me get sense oooo


I gbadun the way she dey give me her back when I enter from d back.
.

D tin too sweet my brother

I have never enjoy any woman toto in my life the way I enjoy her toto



Tho she was so nice wen am with her and she do behave gently if not for the issue shortly

Dshocker:


Single mother of 2 manipulating you, wahala

Seems you are not man enough.

saweide:
Good afternoon dear romancelanders,
My lover girl I met on Facebook just 4 months relationship of knowing each other sent me a shocking message to me on Facebook last night .
She is a single mother of two who lost her husband 3 years ago and when I met her I let her know that won't be a barrier that I will marry her with the 2 children and she agreed. Tho it was a long distance relationship and since we dated have travelled to meet her 9 times while she visited once and when she came she had to drop the children with her elder sister.
Three days ago we had little misunderstanding she cut phone on me I called her back never to try such on me and after that call she never call me for 2 days unlike before she calls regularly and I never call her too and she sent this to me last night what should I do ?

Though have not replied her or call her since that yesterday night.

Please someone with wisdom should advise me what to reply her ..tho I love her and I don't want to loose her ..but she offended me by dropping phone on me and she never say sorry before sending me this screenshot message

I bought easy buy solar for her which we are paying small small and also her phone get screen problems and I collect it to repair for her and I gave her my second phone Samsung to be using and is still with her that was what she meant that I should come and collect all what I did for her in that screenshot mesaage


This is someone that told me she has been going to the mountain to pray for husband that will stay in her life for the past 3 years ooooo