stormborn28:


Otunegi Oma

Mama gi ASHAWO M
papa gi GATEMAN M

truthCoder:
When she realizes that you are just an ok machine with no interest in fights

OK machine LOL...

onlyboyson:

Mama gi ASHAWO M
papa gi GATEMAN M

Udugbor eleme.

stormborn28:


Udugbor eleme.

Ozu nwulu anwu

onlyboyson:

Ozu nwulu anwu

Odugbo Oma

stormborn28:


Odugbo Oma

Ezi ofia

onlyboyson:

Ezi ofia

Akachi

stormborn28:


Akachi

Otolo gbagboo gi

moadxist2:
Patience is a virtue, and the Bible says "honour thy father and thy mother, that your days might be long on earth". You can't bless her, she can bless you. You choose...

Same Bible says Parents provoke not ur children to anger. Stop using all this one sided emotional blackmail. For this young man sanity my advice is for him to give his mom a space for a period of time, maybe that might reset her actions. Make we dey try balance Scriptures please, this woman is frustrating this young man, understand before using one-sided scripture to blackmail him. Peace.

Ahmed0336:
Be patient with her, one day she will no longer be here. Make good use of the time she's with you and create lovely memories even though I know it's hard considering what you just typed but tryyyyyy.

All this una childish advice dey provoke me, they are better ways to put her Mom in order which is best known to him, than u coming to tell type this. Nor be everything be prayer, there are some physical steps and actions that u will take that will drastically change a long challenging issue. Wisdom is profitable to direct. Wise up

YOUR MOM IS A NARCISSISTS BRO.

She's trying to destroy the relationship between your siblings by usinh a technique called TRIANGULATION.

Pls kindly go to YouTube right now and search for NARCISSISTIC MOTHER, then you will understand who your mother truly is.

Kindly do a research on TRIANGULATION, GASLIGHTING, SILENT TREATMENT, SMEAR CAMPAIGN & GUILT TRIP........These are the tactics she uses in controlling her children.

If you don't stay far away from her, she will destroy your mental health.


I am speaking from experience because my mother is a Narcissist too. She has destroyed the relationship between I and my siblings by using the Triangulation tactic.

whyteteeth:
It's draining dealing with my mom everytime she comes to the city to stay in the same house with me. I live in my elder sister's house but she (my sister) stays abroad with her family. I am the last child and I am not married. I work from home though. My mum visits here once in a while. Anytime she comes around she does a lot of things that spoils my mood. For instance, she doesn't like taking her children's advice no matter how important it is to them. She likes having her way all the time. And when we try to stop her, she guilt trips us and emotionally blackmails us.

I have other siblings who do not live with me but they used to come around with their children anytime mom is around. My father is back home and hardly visits. She doesn't listen to my dad if he advices her.

Mom will first and foremost get someone upset, and when the person complains, she will watch out for one negative word that will slip out from your mouth and use it to emotionally blackmail you. She will cry because of what you said to her until you feel guilty and beg her to forgive you. She also likes reporting her child to another of her child without minding if it would damage their relationship.

She likes making her child feel bad so long as she has her way and she is happy. She pays no attention to the feelings of her children anytime she wants anything. For instance, My mom can make you spend money on something that she already has. Sometimes she will drag for something that she doesn't even need. She feels as a mother all her children must make her happy else they don't like her.

Also, She is terrible with conversations both on phone and physically. If you try to have a one on one talk with her, she will make the conversation very unpleasant because she will keep interrupting, next thing she will cry or she will get up and leave you.

She never sees her fault. Even if she apologies, she would do the same thing again and blame you for making her do it.

If she comes around and everywhere is peaceful, after a short while argument will begin which may lead to a fight.

This is because she likes jamming one person with another person and eventually make them quarel. She enjoys adding words that was never in the conversation when she is reporting somebody to another perosn. Most times those words are very hurting and will lead to a fight. And when the fight begins, she will start crying. Sometimes she would intentionally fall on the ground while trying to separate a fight, just to make sure everybody runs helter-skelter trying to get her up on her feet.

She has blood pressure issues, hence she uses that as a weapon to guilt-trip her children so they can succumb to her demands. For instance, if she says things that are not true about her child to another of her child and the person finds out, once you confront her, she would say " don't query me oh, shey you know my blood pressure would soon go up. I didn't kill my mother, don't kill me oh." Or she will just start crying and say the person hates her and what was said isn't true, and that she never said anything like that. She denies the things she says that are bad soon after she says them.

Gosh, I am just tired of my mom. I feel like packing out of this house, blocking her and not letting her come close to me because of how emotionally draining it is everytime she comes around.

Samantha124:
Your peace of mind is much more important than your mother, cut her off if you have to... Love her from a distance.

A lot of kids nowadays are suffering from depression and some have taken their lives all because of toxic parents.

But at the end of the day, the choice is yours.

I am on this table. I am just recovering from the depression my mother caused me

onlyboyson:
Why will you Avoid your second God who give birth to you

You are ignorant

onlyboyson:

Otolo gbagboo gi

Upkuti nasti iyor kpe nomosi

stormborn28:


Upkuti nasti iyor kpe nomosi

Onwu gboo gi

onlyboyson:

Onwu gboo gi

Ukah oma

I usually tell people that motherhood is a talent that not every woman has.

Some women just decide to have kids simply because the society expects them to, they don't have that motherhood talent within them.

Tomblaize:


I am on this table. I am just recovering from the depression my mother caused me

Samantha124:
I usually tell people that motherhood is a talent that not every woman has.
Some women just decide to have kids simply because the society expects them to, they don't have that motherhood talent within them.

Exactly!

Samantha124:
I usually tell people that motherhood is a talent that not every woman has.

Some women just decide to have kids simply because the society expects them to, they don't have that motherhood talent within them.

Motherhood is not any talent, and so is fatherhood. If chickens can cater to their chicks, why are you ,a human, crying like an amoeba on continuing your duty to proliferate and produce a better progeny?

You're entitled to your own opinion.

kkins25:
Motherhood is not any talent, and so is fatherhood. If chickens can cater to their chicks, why are you ,a human, crying like an amoeba on continuing your duty to proliferate and produce a better progeny?

stormborn28:

Ukah oma

Kitikpa gbagboo gi ebe ahu

Man like Hakimi!!!
But you hate your mother. I wonder at some of y’all’
If you got issues with your own mother, wtf!

onlyboyson:

Kitikpa gbagboo gi ebe ahu

Ukputi natsho uwe

stormborn28:


Ukputi natsho uwe

Ndi be unu Nile nwuo

onlyboyson:

Ndi be unu Nile nwuo

Ukputi Olohe

stormborn28:



Ukputi Olohe

akwuna HIV aids gboo gi

onlyboyson:

akwuna HIV aids gboo gi

gonorrhea sucker

stormborn28:
gonorrhea sucker

l

otu nne gi gbaa ikpuru

onlyboyson:
l

otu nne gi gbaa ikpuru

Ukputi uwue syphilis e bowo

stormborn28:


Ukputi uwue syphilis e bowo

typhoid gboo gi dia

onlyboyson:

typhoid gboo gi dia

Dysentery and cholera lo yu ukputi uwe

stormborn28:

Dysentery and cholera lo yu ukputi uwe

high BP and heart attack gboo gi