1) MONEY
Don't wait for your honeymoon to start before discussing Money Matters.

You should have known how you both intend to manage your money after wedding.

Joint Account?

Surrendering of salary?

Investment plan, savings, bills etc.

Know your partners financial habit and capacity, so you know who will spear head the financial department of your upcoming Home.

2) FAMILY ALTAR
I asked a lady, "your wedding is approaching, what is the plan about your family altar?", she said they've never talked about it, after almost 4 years of relationship. She didn't know they should.

Morning Devotion?

Evening Devotion?

Cooperate Bible study, fasting, prayers, talk about it, plan about it, and start implementing it now. To avoid stories that touch.

3) KIDS
Are we doing family planning?
Do we start multiplying immediately, or we'll wait, save and prepare for it....

How many kids? 2 or 12?

How do we bring them up?

Disciplinary methods?

What kind of kids do we want to bring up? Idiots or Responsible Kingdom minded Citizens.

4) SEX
Don't wait till your wedding night to start arguing about MouthAction and anal sex. Don't assume they share same viewpoint as you do.

Some People, are turned on when they tie you like somebody that they Kidnap and beat you to stupor like armed robber that they caught in Warri.

Some only get aroused when they are choking you, or you're choking them.

Talk about their fantasies, tastes, frequency, etc before somebody will kill you in the name of "we were making love"..

Which kind yeye making love be that?

5) HOUSE CHORES
Don't assume what is on your mind is what is on their mind.. Even twins self don't have that kind of telepathic alignment.

Talk about it.. To avoid "I thought".

Why THOUGHT when you can TALK?

6) IN LAWS & LIVING WITH YOU.
Are In-laws allowed or forbidden from coming over to live (short or long term)?

Not everyone wants People around, while there are those who want crowd.

Before your Partner tells you to send your mother/father that came to visit you back.

How do we deal with problematic In-laws?
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Shawarma and "five alive" no go allow them discuss important things.

Agreed o... But without compatibility, respect, endurance, character and understanding from both parties, all the above listed will easily be flattened. But when both sides have these mentioned qualities, there can always be a way around your list.

The money part is importanta in every relationship, but they shouldn't also forget to check if their haemoglobin genotype is compatible. Respect is also needed.