CSTRR:
As it stands now, the vast majority of guys will marry a woman that has been penetrated before.

There is no escaping it.

Most girls above 18 have already dated and started having sex.

It's only the mileage that will differ based on luck.

OSHODI LAGOS

Fahvvy:
Bakrabas
With all due respect sir, you sound really naive ...

You said "What's good for Tom will also be nice for Jane", going by this logic, broke women should go for broke men ba? But is that always the case? ...

Fact is men and women have things that are considered really important to them...

Women (in general) want men that are more financially stable at the very least whilst men (in general) want women who are chaste and not wh.ores ...

But for some reason, the society have made the wants of women a norm and disdain the wants of men and it's bad that other men support that trash too! ...

Regardless of how broke and wretched a woman is, she will ALWAYS want a man who is more financially capable than she is ...

Is that a case of "good for Jane, good for Tom" too? ... I mean, broke to broke, "prostitute to prostitutes" ba? ...

Well...
I'm not one to condemn a person's choices, if you can be with a woman regardless of her past or as you put it "50-50 weight past", then that's fine - every man with his kah-ya...

However...
A woman's se.xual past is something that I pay serious attention to ...

Nairaland now harbour kids a lot! You type as if it's only men that make money these days or stay with one babe till they get married, try to change your medications sha, it's now affecting how you reason logically.
Most of our men are now gold-diggers when it comes to getting married, some are so lazy that their wives feed them.

If you are a virgin, go for a virgin but if you ain't, type with sense and go for a woman that is like you.

Is only a fool will say her past doesn't matter

The past is everything. Whatever is happening to you now, look back at your past.

History decides today

Omoh........its alryt

EyenIbibio1:
Her past doesn't matter, so long she doesn't go back

this is the most useless and senseless statement I ever read this year...

past ,, 15 abortion, 9 flush and 30 tablet of postinor2

EyenIbibio1:
Her past doesn't matter, so long she doesn't go back

Her past matters. Sometimes, her past will affect her future and the person she marries. Imagine a lady who has done countless abortions and has damaged her womb in the process. How is she supposed to give birth for her husband if she marries later in life?

Sonnobax15:
. You funny well well..you funny die

Let them keep pretending

Bakrabas:
There are some part that should be let go of if you're both once in involved in dirty life.

Do you think it's only women that should be crucified in this?

What about the man that have lost the count on the number of women he has slept with?

Or the one with rape cases that's on the front pages of the newspapers

Or the one caught for stealing and embarrassed at Computer village or Onitsha market or Sabon Geri?

Women too should be concerned on if they should forgive and forget about the past of the men.

What's good for Tom will also be nice for Jane .

As for me, if you tell me your past without hiding anything, if you haven't transgress, I'll think if I should consider you.

Or perhaps, if your past doesn't weigh above mine I'll forget.

Both sides should weigh their past and If it's 50/50 it's okay.

Let the prostitute among Men marry the prostitute among women


Women are the source of life... I want the best among them as wife and as daughters.

The Past matters, both for men and women!

EyenIbibio1:
Her past doesn't matter, so long she doesn't go back

So you dnt know that some of these girls no longer have womb due to their past?? And you said it does not matter?

Your Mama need to draw your ears very well.

Queendera:
There's always a sucker somewhere ready to worship her. So whether you forget her past or not, she'll always get someone.

Maybe not you. Maybe not your brother or father or uncle but someone is always ready

That's the unfortunate simp. I pity such people. How can a grown up man say "her past don't matter?" How foolish are some people? After she has wasted her life, one simp Will believe this nonsense. Them never born Any girl to tell that to any of my bloodline. Not even my far friends. We are too legit to fall for this nonsense

Why saying it doesn't matter. It matters if am aware ooo. She's a gooner

The past actually matters.
It is easy to fall back in.
Nah I am going to want to know your past and if I am not okay with it then I have to move on.

As long as a lady go reason my future me sef go reason her past

Bakrabas:



Why didn't you pay attention to men sexual past too?

I'm not in support of any useless woman.

Like what you made mentioned up there...if a whor, use and dumped lady is looking for a rich guy to settle down with, If the guy past weigh below the woman I'll suggest the guy should raise his Red Card for such.

You see that past I'm interested in it, tell me everything and I'll decide if it's yellow card or Red card. There are some past that are still considerable. Such like the case of decent girl gang rape and the video spread viral as if the girl was a pornsta. Behind the camera, someone was holding a gun and the girl was coerce to concur to any style.

Such a girl is not LovePeddler , it depends on you to accept such past but to me such a past is considerable.

You doge the fact that I said Men too do have horrible pasts.

You've slept with hundreds of women and when you're ready to settle down you're looking for untouched woman, who do you expect to marry the one you have digged.

The funniest is that, while some guys are doing such for someone future partners same thing or equivalent is going on the other side of their future wife... joking though.lollll


And that's why I usually say...


Women are the source of life and I pray for the best among them as wife and as daughters

Ask a woman if she will date or be with a virgin man, her answer is no! Women want men who are exoerienced, men want women with no experience. Men and women are not the same. Sex is a difficult commodity to get, women hold access to sex, thet can give it anytime, on the other hand, men have to put in alot of work to get sex, so anyman who can get sex is a high value man in hos right, any woman who can give sex easily is a LovePeddler.

Queendera:
There's always a sucker somewhere ready to worship her. So whether you forget her past or not, she'll always get someone.

Maybe not you. Maybe not your brother or father or uncle but someone is always ready

Just like my Ex, I always doubt if she can see husband marry,i Bleep that babe well well,before meeting me she had more than15 body count ,when me the guy at the age of 29 just had 3 body counts.

I know it cant work, I try to be a good man to see the positive in her but the problem with her is the babe is too loose, anything that makes a man invite her to his house just knows already the man will surely knack her

But to my surprise she got engaged to a guy in Abuja last month,o said if this vuy know this babe past he wont marry her but love is above that sha

josielewa:
So many kids here. Some of you are married to brothel hoes and you will never know.. Hoes get married every Saturday... Dey play.. Just pray God gives you wife wey get sense.. I just dey laugh.. I can say 50-60 percent of naija ladies are full time or part time olosho. It's still your sons, uncles, brothers etc that will end up marrying them... Just pray for the one wey the glory still dey connect 4g, make you no go marry d one wey the network dey on gprs...

na for people wey no fit spot runs girls

And times some past are better left unsaid to new partners ooo. Let sleeping Dog lies

And times some past are better left unsaid to new partners ooo. Let sleeping Dog lies ...

EyenIbibio1:
Her past doesn't matter, so long she doesn't go back

Dumb take, what if she has one or two medical condition because of her careless past? You want me to stay with that?

whattt!!! first 3some and foursome I bu idiot..

EyenIbibio1:
Her past doesn't matter, so long she doesn't go back

Leopards never change their spots. Do they?

kyber:
This Is The Kind Of Past Women Want You To Forget(Pictures)

Never !!!

Past is important oh
Many past will always come back to hurt the individuals, and you don't want to be caught in the line of fire..

Why is rubbish post thriving on nairaland this days.
Seun should see to this.

kalufelix:
If you forget the past...then you have no future..

I stand with you on this...

Sniper101:
I was (once upon a time) having an affair with a married lady who had affairs with so many other guys/men before me; upto 60 body counts (she once said) including females.
Females whom she still brings right down to her husband's house when Dude is offshore.

Worse of it all is that Dude knew she was into sexual relationships with fellow females before he married her.
PS: after their wedding she told him she has left that bisexual lifestyle to be her past.

Now, would the marriage continue if Dude finds out that the mother of his four little kids is highly promiscuous and that she is still indulging in her bisexual lifestyle?

I just dey pity the husband sha
I dey always sorry for am

those wey say "a woman's past doesn't matter"
make una DEY PLAY

If you want to live long and not die untimely and prematurely
If you want a peaceful and happy life
If you don't want men to sleep with your own wife
If you don't want your mother to be cheating on your father
If you don't want your sisters to be messing around with different men even after marriage
WHY SHOULD YOU BE SLEEPING WITH A MARRIED WOMAN?
Many of you are the reason for your mysteries and hardship in life, YOU DISH OUT WHAT YOU WON'T LIKE TO BE SERVED TO YOU AND IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE.

Just know that in this life, you can't get away with anything.

Maynmann:

celeb marriage lasts?
If you don’t want to mention names then don’t bring it up.

And are you not defending your own gender to the extent of forming up narratives to defend them?

Men just want to get off, men know who they really love..
Men are the real romantic people, women don’t love unconditional, they are not even capable of even loving.

That’s why bible said, men “love” your wife, women “respect” your husband.

I have heard you sir , seeing is believing, you'll definitely see things yourself, no need for argument.

EyenIbibio1:
Her past doesn't matter, so long she doesn't go back

Her past is very very important.... Her past determines who she is now and who she will be later... What is the guarantee she won't go back? Dey play

jaxxy:


Her past is her past. If we see ur past with all ur ashewo girls nobody go marry u sef.

live and let live

Funny thing is that it is bad boys screaming they can't forget about her past. who's past is really hunting them.

Girls are thrilled by men who has sexual experience. Girl only care if the man will be a responsible Husband that can meet her needs. That is all

kyber:
This Is The Kind Of Past Women Want You To Forget(Pictures)

Never !!!

It matters o
Bad habits die hard