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Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by GoodCane: 3:18pm On May 12, 2023 |
[s] Mom007:[/s] Noticed how you avoided the question the op asked and started writing long stupid episodes like a hyena on her heat period? 2 Likes |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by CarlosTheJackal: 3:18pm On May 12, 2023 |
Mom007:I pity the husband that kept you at home for you are worst than a Billy |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by Nobody: 3:34pm On May 12, 2023 |
bukatyne:Someone once called me a feminist on this forum and I laughed 😄 😂😂 what do I need to drag superiority for when I have never felt inferior in my life Some things I read on this forum make me wonder if I'm in a different world than I realize most commenters are Igbos or people of other tribes, especially the very active ones. The Nigerian girls are lazy and the materialistic chorus is always strange to me. Guys complaining of women being liabilities lol and I wonder if they aren't the same guys women struggle with offline. She can though, if she meets a sensible guy or marry one of these igbo guys complaining of billings. Lol Yes oooo, but mom told Alaga iduro not to return her daughter's dowry. So it was given to dad and was later given back to sis but papa collect am first and it wasn't returned |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by Nobody: 3:35pm On May 12, 2023 |
Sweetvie: |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by Shokoloko(f): 3:35pm On May 12, 2023 |
CarlosTheJackal:If you calm down and read what he is stating, it makes a lot of sense. What he is saying is "choose well. Don't go picking a girl who wants to be kept and complain that she is not contributing". There are girls that require every single expense to be paid for by the man- they do not hide their desire. Some girls will do 50/50 and some will pay the man to marry them. Carefully choose according to what you want. If you don't want to contribute at all, go for the older, independent ladies - she may not submit. If you want 50/50 go for a woman who wants a partner - she may not submit. If you contribute all - she will likely submit because you are paying for her submission. Calm down and understand his point. Why Kobojunkie's posts look strange to most Nigerians is because Kobojunkie has not lived in Nigeria for a long time. Thinks like those people in diaspora. 2 Likes |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by Sweetvie: 3:36pm On May 12, 2023 |
Persephone1:Seriously? I don't know this abt Yoruba people. |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by Sweetvie: 3:37pm On May 12, 2023 |
Persephone1:Lol |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by Nobody: 3:47pm On May 12, 2023 |
Sweetvie:Are you not Yoruba? I used to think you are. Yes, it's bride family that carries the wedding ceremony. Others come as support. |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by Xylon: 3:55pm On May 12, 2023 |
lalalista:Your talk just show sey you no get sense!!! |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by Albertone(m): 3:58pm On May 12, 2023 |
Persephone1: I don't think that should in any way bother you. You keep saying this all the time while neglecting the question being asked. That was how you dodged the question of what women have to offer with your gaslighting. I'm not bothered btw. 1 Like |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by AderonkeOlaniyi(f): 3:59pm On May 12, 2023 |
Exmilitant: A kid spotted 1 Like |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by Mom007(f): 4:00pm On May 12, 2023 |
CarlosTheJackal:Pity yourself and your generation that cannot man up but are looking for women to bankroll weddings for you. Silly children. |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by Nobody: 4:00pm On May 12, 2023 |
Albertone:Yawn... You are not bothered but you made sure to give a mention Albertone be kiaful |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by Sweetvie: 4:01pm On May 12, 2023 |
Persephone1:I am🤧 but I don't know anything about Yoruba apart from Àsà ìkíni 🤦 |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by Nobody: 4:05pm On May 12, 2023 |
Sweetvie: Incredible May I ask how/ why if I'm not being intrusive. 1 Like |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by Albertone(m): 4:07pm On May 12, 2023 |
Persephone1: I'm not bothered at all. I only responded on behalf of Nairaland men. I scrolled down and saw your already given response. God saved you. |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by hardam003: 4:15pm On May 12, 2023 |
For me and to the best of my knowledge, the bride's family are the ones in charge when it comes to marriage planning/financing. Supports can then come from other quarters like the groom. But as a result of the high poverty level around, a whole lot of things have changed thereby creating that wrong impression that some people have nowadays of it being a major responsibility of the groom. |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 4:24pm On May 12, 2023 |
Nothing. 1 Like |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by Silentgroper(m): 4:52pm On May 12, 2023 |
Persephone1: answer the gaddem question or stfu.. it's that easy... |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by ProtonX: 4:55pm On May 12, 2023 |
Surprised is an understatement |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by nony43(m): 4:58pm On May 12, 2023 |
CuriousStudent: You never ready to marry. |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by Kobojunkie: 4:58pm On May 12, 2023 |
davillian:Story, story! You seem to be high on your own fumes! |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by Kobojunkie: 4:59pm On May 12, 2023 |
CarlosTheJackal:I see you are one of the imbe_ciles I pointed out. |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by Silentgroper(m): 5:00pm On May 12, 2023 |
Persephone1: gossiped ?? it's a public forum FFS!! 😒😒😒 |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by ProphetM0hammad: 5:06pm On May 12, 2023 |
Persephone1: Since when has Nigerian women developed the boldness to talk about romance in a forum? You want a women to come here and tell us how they got pregnant outside and pinned it on their husband's Or put up a topic on the best brand of dildos and vibrators to buy Or better still share a sexcapade with two brothers 1 Like |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by Sweetvie: 5:06pm On May 12, 2023 |
Persephone1:Lol... Why? I don't stay around much |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by Freemasonry: 5:31pm On May 12, 2023 |
This culture of women praying for a husband, and then describing the kind of elaborate wedding they want without wanting to contribute to it is horrible. If your husband is loaded and willing to throw a lavish event, fine and good, but you have absolutely no right to impose, unless you are willing to defray part of the expenses. It's unfair to pile pressure on a man simply because he came to answer the prayer you've been saying for ages. Sadly, most of the women who make this crazy demands are either from very humble backgrounds. Moreover, they would never allow their own brother indulge in such wastefulness; but they would have no qualms letting someone else's son pay through the nose for their dream wedding. Sometimes, while the man has liquidated himself and ran into debt, you'll be shocked to know that wifey has a couple of millions sitting pretty in her bank account. To her, that's her insurance. Just in case. A wedding is just one day, but marriage is for a lifetime, and that's what the focus should be on. |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by davillian(m): 5:34pm On May 12, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Lmao women are the least of my problem I get them when ever I want them. |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by Silentgroper(m): 5:37pm On May 12, 2023 |
Mom007: crap0l to be candid madam, your initial write-up is full of crap no offense |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by Kobojunkie: 5:39pm On May 12, 2023 |
Shokoloko:Far from it, I actually grew up in the same Nigeria with these ninnies who are incapable of engaging their own brains to save their own lives. So, I know them well. It is wisdom that is the last thing on their minds . 1 Like |
Re: As A Woman How Much Are You Willing To Contribute To Your Wedding? by Kobojunkie: 5:40pm On May 12, 2023 |
davillian:Storyland! |
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