Mom007:
Foolish and godless generation. The more you fight against the will and mandate of God concerning marriage, the more diminished you become and the more you struggle yet you will not use your tongue to count your teeth. Just like esau you sell your headship and birthright as a husband and provider for a days meal and then you suffer for the rest of your marriage. You don't need to tell a good woman to support her husband in financial matters but for a man to stretch his hands and be counting on the income of the woman is morally and spiritually wrong. It hinders you spiritually but you children will not hear. Where is it written in the bible that a woman will be an equal partner or even earn income for the husband to share? Even Muslims do not propagate this kind of thinking but you see my "Christian' brethren that don't seem to know their left from their right these days and don't know that this world is first of All a spiritual place, its their mouth you will continually hear this rubbish. Marry a good woman, and her presence alone in your life will attract blessings but no, you will marry slay queen with big features and then be asking her what she will bring to your shaky legged table! Most of you are bad anyway, and you don't even carry the grace to attract a good woman so carry your crosses. After defiling countless number of sisters you complain that there are no more good ladies out there... Marry them like that! As you lay your beds, lie in them.

Mom007:


A jackal like you would be very intimate and familiar with the body workings of a hyena since you are both wild animals but sorry, I cannot relate. If you cannot see the connection between the topic and my answer, then clearly there is no point in pursuing conversation with you any further.

bukatyne:


Someone once opined that is the reason why more Igbo women are inclined towards feminism.

All the things feminism supposedly gives, a Yoruba woman has it. She can (must) work, she is not educationally discriminated against, she has autonomy over her funds, she inherits from her family, she has a say in the family, single motherhood is not particularly discriminated against and to a large extent is in charge of herself. All these is at a cost though: there is no 'oriaku' system so she generally must be willing to hold the forte financially and domestically.

As a result, it is difficult for an average Yoruba woman to rest in her feminine. She always has to be in charge and control everything. 🙄

You know that most fathers return the bride price because they are not selling their daughters

Someone once called me a feminist on this forum and I laughed 😄 😂😂 what do I need to drag superiority for when I have never felt inferior in my life Some things I read on this forum make me wonder if I'm in a different world than I realize most commenters are Igbos or people of other tribes, especially the very active ones. The Nigerian girls are lazy and the materialistic chorus is always strange to me. Guys complaining of women being liabilities lol and I wonder if they aren't the same guys women struggle with offline.

She can though, if she meets a sensible guy or marry one of these igbo guys complaining of billings. Lol

Yes oooo, but mom told Alaga iduro not to return her daughter's dowry. So it was given to dad and was later given back to sis but papa collect am first and it wasn't returned

Sweetvie:
Wow
Which state?

CarlosTheJackal:
You always talk like a toddler left by the road side

Persephone1:
Culture differs and may influence opinions. Where I'm from, [/b]the bride's family shoulders the major responsibility when it comes to the wedding ceremony[b]. The bride's parent carries most, and the couple supports them. Due to the economic situation, both the groom, the bride, and the bride's parents share the bills while the groom's parents support them.

Most brides consider what happens after the wedding so they hardly ever allow a man to go too extra. Yeah. You will see the color, the glamour, the flamboyant owambe but believe me behind it all is combine deliberations and calculations from both couple and parents. Nobody wants their daughter to end up soaking gaarri after wedding. It is very rare for wedding to be fully sponsored by the groom, that's a slap on Yoruba parents .

Persephone1:

Sweetvie:
Seriously?
I don't know this abt Yoruba people.

Are you not Yoruba? I used to think you are.

Yes, it's bride family that carries the wedding ceremony. Others come as support.

lalalista:
YOU OUGHT TO BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF. SHAME ON YOU. STINGY ASS HUSBAND. YOUR WIFE IS NOT A HAPPY WOMAN DEEP DOWN

Persephone1:
The consistency with which you all sit and come up with write ups and topics that centers on women all the time should be studied in uni. Sadly you don't maintain this energy in researching how to make your lives and country better.
Tsk tsk tsk

Exmilitant:
But a real niggar should foot all marriage expenses alone if he is to claim the title of head of the house.

CarlosTheJackal:
I pity the husband that kept you at home for you are worst than a Billy

Albertone:


I don't think that should in any way bother you. You keep saying this all the time while neglecting the question being asked.
That was how you dodged the question of what women have to offer with your gaslighting.

I'm not bothered btw.

Yawn...

You are not bothered but you made sure to give a mention

Albertone be kiaful

Persephone1:
Are you not Yoruba? I used to think you are.

Yes, it's bride family that carries the wedding ceremony. Others come as support.

Sweetvie:
I am🤧 but I don't know anything about Yoruba apart from Àsà ìkíni 🤦

Incredible

May I ask how/ why if I'm not being intrusive.

Persephone1:
Yawn...

You are not bothered but you made sure to give a mention

Albertone be kiaful

Persephone1:
The consistency with which you all sit and come up with write ups and topics that centers on women all the time should be studied in uni. Sadly you don't maintain this energy in researching how to make your lives and country better.
Tsk tsk tsk

CuriousStudent:
then they should remain single. The very thought of marrying Nigerian men that look like Godzilla is hard luck. So you should pay. Except I am cripple or physically disadvantaged I will not pay a dime for a wedding to a Nigerian man.
Men that suggest this are broke and should be avoided

davillian:
I'm 100% sure you a woman. To me I put those kind of girls in their place. Even if I'm nice to them as a friend I don't cross the line and I don't allow them cross their lines..... I know how they hunt me like bounties but Bleep it im not available for Broke ass bitchess take your fat ass outta here....

CarlosTheJackal:
■ You always talk like a toddler left by the road side

Persephone1:
A pastor diversify into different topics and aspects of life. From preaching on marriage to spiritual growth, business, relationship talks, prosperity, and kingdom evangelism to prayer, crusades, revival, and health shows. In churches, there are varieties of Sundays, old-school Sundays, traditional wear Sundays, Jersey Sundays, etc. Why do you think pastors do this? To avoid repetition, to encourage fellowship.

This is the romance section but not the women's section where women are discussed and gossiped



about every breathing second. Shouldn't it bother any deep person why only a single gender is motivated to talk about the other gender every time? 🤷

Persephone1:
A pastor diversify into different topics and aspects of life. From preaching on marriage to spiritual growth, business, relationship talks, prosperity, and kingdom evangelism to prayer, crusades, revival, and health shows. In churches, there are varieties of Sundays, old-school Sundays, traditional wear Sundays, Jersey Sundays, etc. Why do you think pastors do this? To avoid repetition, to encourage fellowship.

This is the romance section but not the women's section where women are discussed and gossiped about every breathing second. Shouldn't it bother any deep person why only a single gender is motivated to talk about the other gender every time? 🤷

Persephone1:

Incredible

May I ask how/ why if I'm not being intrusive.

Kobojunkie:
Story, story! You seem to be high on your own fumes!

Mom007:


A jackal like you would be very intimate and familiar with the body workings of a hyena since you are both wild animals but sorry, I cannot relate. If you cannot see the connection between the topic and my answer,
lthen clearly there is no point in pursuing conversation with you any further.

Shokoloko:
■ Why Kobojunkie's posts look strange to most Nigerians is because Kobojunkie has not lived in Nigeria for a long time. Thinks like those people in diaspora.

davillian:
Lmao women are the least of my problem I get them when ever I want them.