m-ployer:

The Bible said [b]" Houses and wealth are inheritance from fathers but a prudent wife is a gift from God"[/b   When I read that part of the scripture I stopped searching. Beleive me it simply worked!

Goldieluks:

For your info people who allow the direction of God into their relationship,can nevr go wrong,mind you.I don't know why some people acts as if they know it all,where as they remain blind to the glaring light. You
don't know it all bro, and quit referring to such people as failures,because God himselfd created relationship right from the beginning,therefore we mere humans cannot over ride what has been written before we were created,just because we happen to maybe acquire education or live abroad.

Who I find in my life has nothing to do with God. I just feel that I will find someone when my heart [and finances] are good and ready.

Seconded!!!

MRbrownJAY:

may i ask what are these DIRECTIONS you are talking about?! there is a HUGE difference between doing whats right by the bible AND expecting a "sign from God" to decide if your r/ship is right or wrong.
i will say it ONE MORE TIME: if ANYONE needS a sign from God to DECIDE  if it's right or wrong to stay with a man that shows all the required abilities, has been beating you to a pulp every night, cheating on you etc then i am sorry to say that you need MUCH MORE than God in your life.

God will put the tools in your hand (aka a brain to know right from wrong) but YOU will have to decide whether you want to act on it or not. sadly many like yourself who were waiting for signs are 6feet under by now.

if you were clever then READING your bible would give you all the "signs" you require and you wouldn't need any others to USE YOUR BRAIN AND ACT RIGHT.

m-ployer:

The Bible said [b]" Houses and wealth are inheritance from fathers but a prudent wife is a gift from God"[/b   When I read that part of the scripture I stopped searching. Beleive me it simply worked!

upendo 98:

Yes a prudent wife comes from God but she aint manna. Gos is not in the biz of bringing women to men's doorstep cz he wants them to be men who put his words to action.
Activate the search engines (eyes,legs,mouth,brains) he naturally gave you and stop behaving like spirits.
Look the same God says 'whoever 'finds' a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour.Seek and ye shall find.[b]Delight yourself in Him and he shall give you your heart's desires.[/b]so how does all this seeking/delighting and finding go?

Do not be lazy and give God unnecessary work cz he wont do the search for you.Not after hes blessed you with brains.
And rem anytime you pick one line of scripture and build your life around it, you mess up good.

Now,even the most faithful make mistakes cz allowing God to guide your relationship is not immunity to failure.
And I will tell you why.He allows us to fail so that we stop boasting. Failures humble us and make us recognise the place of God.So if you ask me,its often the most faithful who fail and make the biggest mistakes.

Relationships are natural things.God only helps us to make decisions in line with His word but we are not immune to failure like everybody else just cz we use Him as shield. Stop applying natural principles and behave like a spirit then you see how that relationship will come tumbling down.

Now back to topic. Well am not a believer in first sight stuff.I got to know and feel you first before my mind can adjust to you being a future partner.

bhusayor:

^^well put

bhusayor:

You need me to expatiate on wats already in details?

Been following this thread and my observation is that anyone that has a contrary view isn't really on the same page wv you and you end up thinking they are taking it personally, whereas they are just stating facts and talking reality.

In order not to sound like a broken record, I share CalientMii, MrBrownJay n upendo's views.

promire2004:

lmao. Why on earth would you say dat?

iice:

Na lie?