Thebadpolitican:


I go fear lady when nor ask for money unless I know she doing something or her parents is supportive

Giving a lady money or not doesn't make a lady a good person

Thebadpolitican:



Life is balance that way, most times at age our mothers are the ones taking care of our old fathers because they are younger and men at age tend to fall ill faster than the women

At an old age the man is not bothered who controls the house anymore. It will leave everything for his wife. The children will still be tipping him some cash too for his own pocket

See in this world when it comes to family women are more favored, it's nothing we can fight even agrees to it, by men dying early than their wives

Offwarp:


Funny enough she fit no fine at all because E b like say most girls wey no too fine dey always get sense pass the one wey fine..... For Africa......Fine girls = empty brain.

UyaiIncomparabl:


LMAO. . You been wan dey form good girl.

Jokes apart, it’s very orgasmic to have a man that understand your needs, is intuitive, knows when to do things without being asked , understands your pain points and provides optimally to the minutest, has no penchants for drama or its ilks, and is still committed. Tell me, Poco, what else can a woman ask for? Make I see woman wey wan snatch am na.

It’s why I resorted to leaving these dusty and young boys who do nothing but wail and complain everyday like a goat in labour. At least, the old ones won’t stress me. Had enough of these adolescents in adults bodies. The older the berry, the better. My fellow enjoyment woman, I sight you. 🫱🏽‍🫲🏾

iInjureHerYansh:
Told this girl I have been seeing lately to stop asking me for money if she really care about me and I haven't heard from her since then Where are the people that say women can date if money isn't involved?
Well not all women are after money but majority of our girls are doing this dating thing for survival.

Relationship has to be transactional or she moves. The earlier you realize all the sweet name calling and things she's been doing for you is cos you have money to give her the earlier you will know how to stand.


I always see every lady as someone who doesn't love me for me but for my assets, until she proves otherwise. It has saved me a lot.
This lady I just talked about is another point of reference.

You can also try it with the girl you are seeing now and see for yourself if you doubt me.

iInjureHerYansh:
Seems like comprehension is a really difficult thing for you or you are the hasty type that don't pay attention but just jump into conclusion. Where did I generalize?
Is majority same as all?
Sounding like you are dating one of those nairaland evening newspapers. Trying to defend women unnecessarily to impress her?
lol

razible5384:
what if ur man does all these an still cheat...are u cool with it?

Reminderz:

she knows if you get married to her, you'll still spend naa.. a lady not asking you money before marriage is just playing the game until she has your commitment...

emmanuelewumi:




The average lifespan of a Nigerian man is about 55 years.


E get why


Most can't handle the shock that awaits them in their 50s, when income are stagnant, expenses are increasing and no tangible Investment in their names, who wife who used to respect them because of his role as a provider starts challenging their authority, children will rather obey the mother instead of the father because power has changed.


Na depression dey most Nigerian men at that age



Reason why you should invest for your old age, there is a relationship between longevity of a Nigerian man and making adequate plans for old age.


By age the unprepared Alpha Nigerian male, will become a simp because he had nothing to fall back on.


In the marriage business of a thing, women know how to play it better than most men

Thebadpolitican:



You're trying to preach the theory of alpha male to me... Nah am Anti against that

Maybe that's what happens in your culture or your state definitely not mine

Men are biological faced with life threatening illness compare to women, it's start from birth infant death occurs predominantly in male than female infant, women have no hands in it, that's why men made it a culture over many centuries to marry younger women and not just their age mate, someone who can take of them when they are old

lilyheaven:
Wahala ooo 😁
It means you will be scared of me, if you’ve known me in person .
I see that as an insult to my personality.
Anyways, I think some people are experts, when it comes to begging. While some don’t know how to ask.
Secondly, when you don’t ask or complain... people tend to think you have it all .

emmanuelewumi:





That doesn't negate the importance having Investments to fall back on at old age, most men got to know this very late and go into depression or untimely death.

Hoping that a young wife will take care of one at old age as the main plan is akin to living in a fools paradise.


In life, we are expected to pray for the best, plan for the worst and prepare for the unexpected

UyaiIncomparabl:


Never been with a cheater, so I can’t answer this question.

razible5384:
don't be so shaw about this dear, he's just responsible enough not to smear it on your face. But what if you find out he cheats on you?

UyaiIncomparabl:


I said I have never dated one, you are telling me something else. No matter how smart you think you are, I’ll catch you.

Thebadpolitican:



Oga if you like pack all the money give your papa, men will stil die younger than wonen

My uncle who was a bank Manger is dead and his wife and kids are still living

Try drop your alpha ego and accept fact that nature didn't favour men with longevity

vickydevoka:

Lol. I am still waiting for your wedding pics. I promise you 100k anytime you are ready for your wedding whether traditional, court or church wedding

razible5384:
calm down, no be fight, is just a question. What if you realized this ur prince charming is hiddenly cheating on you, will you end things with him?

UyaiIncomparabl:


Yes. It’s a dealbreaker and not amongst my value system.

frozen70:


Lol 😂

pocohantas:
Every woman loves a provider male. This includes women that work so hard to pay their own bills.

The only woman that thinks she doesn't love or want a provider is one who hasn't tasted a provider male. A man in touch with his masculinity. A man that knows what to do and when to do it. You don't need to ask him or talk too much. The day she experiences one, she would know independent woman dey suffer.

You can't be hyped about a non-provider.
It is what it is...

You were making sense till the part that says
Independent woman dey suffer
Abeg
What in the faaaauuuqq is that

What are doing?
What is this ?

What kind of suffer is that

Providing for what they want
For their own needs

I no get am at all

iInjureHerYansh:
Told this girl I have been seeing lately to stop asking me for money if she really care about me and I haven't heard from her since then Where are the people that say women can date if money isn't involved?
Well not all women are after money but majority of our girls are doing this dating thing for survival.

Relationship has to be transactional or she moves. The earlier you realize all the sweet name calling and things she's been doing for you is cos you have money to give her the earlier you will know how to stand.


I always see every lady as someone who doesn't love me for me but for my assets, until she proves otherwise. It has saved me a lot.
This lady I just talked about is another point of reference.

You can also try it with the girl you are seeing now and see for yourself if you doubt me.

Laurene:
Are you not ashamed at your age you're still banging and kicking then out. You're up to 40,when would you settle down?

vickydevoka:

Why are you stressing on this nyash thing. Ok!! I'm sorry it also hit you in the wrong place

descarado:

Why did you think it did hit me?
Or you think everybody commenting here is your mate.
Dear, at my age, its retirement money I'm chasing after. All others done and dusted.

People like me come here to feel the naija vibes from grassroot.

Sometimes my posts are for correctional purposes only. Pray to reach my age, you will start viewing things through my lens.

It might help you to learn how to communicate with class. Class will differentiate you every where both online and offline and take you where you never dreamt you will be. It has no age barrier but the earlier the better. Take care

emmanuelewumi:




The average lifespan of a Nigerian man is about 55 years.


E get why


Most can't handle the shock that awaits them in their 50s, when income are stagnant, expenses are increasing and no tangible Investment in their names, who wife who used to respect them because of his role as a provider starts challenging their authority, children will rather obey the mother instead of the father because power has changed.


Na depression dey most Nigerian men at that age



Reason why you should invest for your old age, there is a relationship between longevity of a Nigerian man and making adequate plans for old age.


By age the unprepared Alpha Nigerian male, will become a simp because he had nothing to fall back on.


In the marriage business of a thing, women know how to play it better than most men

Evolutionlove:


When they say make you go school, You no gree go school. Now see as you are embarrassing yourself and lineage on a public forum.

How are Women the Source of Life?

riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
This is the reason why I date only married women.

I don't have the time for stress from single ladies

AllDModsAreMaad:

I used to think all ladies are after money until I met my current gf(who I am making plans of marrying early next year).

This babe has never asked me for money, me sef never give her money directly except indirectly and she is not even showing any anger, instead na she still dey do things to make me happy.

I promise to spoil her with money asap because she deserve it and more.