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Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by hustla(m): 10:54pm On Oct 08, 2023 |
kwakudtraveller: Na construction work na |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by JBoy9(m): 3:55am On Oct 09, 2023 |
MonkeySee: Chaii. God bless you boss |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Hamof: 6:36am On Oct 09, 2023 |
Good morning everyone, I got into the uk (Hull) on Saturday and Iāve been trying to download eybuses so I can be able to move around without success. Is there anything am doing wrong here?
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Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by kaybee3(m): 6:50am On Oct 09, 2023 |
Hamof: Youāve to change your Apple Store location to ukā¦ you can check on google how to do thatā¦ 2 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by BeckyB1(f): 8:21am On Oct 09, 2023 |
I wish home office can change the 20 hours a week rule for those whose sponsors do not have any shift to give. A sponsor brought people in with an offer letter of 40 hours a week shift but ended up having no job to offer. She even told this people to pay her Ā£150 for an online care certificate training link. Many care homes and agencies that have jobs are not willing to give more than 20 hours a week shift to those who are on Tier 2 sponsorship. Taal17: |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by giselle237: 9:28am On Oct 09, 2023 |
BeckyB1:They brought themselves in after paying for COS. |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by pretty1986: 9:30am On Oct 09, 2023 |
BeckyB1:Good morning,pls does all these affect Nurses too?. |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by donplus1: 10:24am On Oct 09, 2023 |
Good morning everyone Please I need a reliable IPTV provider or anyone who can point me into the right direction. Thanks. |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by kode12: 10:30am On Oct 09, 2023 |
BeckyB1:When you paid for COS you knew you were taking a risk. It's an unfortunate situation, but no one in such situation can play the victim. 1 Like |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Nobody: 10:45am On Oct 09, 2023 |
BeckyB1: Paying for COS warps the incentive structure, because people are no longer looking for staff to work, but are trading the COS as the commodity itself to desperate people willing to do anything to get it. I wonāt be surprised if many people now set up businesses in the health and care sector just for the purpose of monetizing their sponsorship license. Itās unfortunate but as others have said, thatās what cutting corners often abi always results in. |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by PalestianIsrael: 11:45am On Oct 09, 2023 |
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Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Nobody: 11:59am On Oct 09, 2023 |
PalestianIsrael: Sorry about this. Have you both considered seeking marital counseling? If you are religious, you can seek the intervention of elders in your religious community as well. Might also be time to involve your parents on both sides. Normally Iād say that should be a last resort but I guess that line has been reached now. Reconciliation aside, it might also be wise to stay apart for some time while these interventions are happening. If knives are getting involved in your dispute itās time to deescalate drastically and reduce the chance of an unfortunate action driven by anger and/or carelessness in the course of a fight. 1 Like |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by dustydee: 12:03pm On Oct 09, 2023 |
PalestianIsrael:First, there should be no shame in a failed marriage. You are very lucky that a child is not involved yet. It is better you separate physically than for one of you to murder the other. I suggest you save up and find a place to stay. And if you two are unable to figure things out, file for a divorce. Both of you deserve to be happy. If she feels you are not making her happy by being on your own, try and change and if you can't or are unwilling to, leave her. Last last, you two will be ok. You do not want "Nigerian immigrant murders wife/husband during a fight" 6 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Poanan: 12:14pm On Oct 09, 2023 |
PalestianIsrael: She is new and still basking in the euphoria of being in a country where she has so much power. Since you are the main applicant better pack out and get a place to stay before your dbs becomes ruined. Better save yoir neck this is not Nigeria. 4 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by Luchiano54: 12:41pm On Oct 09, 2023 |
*Nigerian Passport Intervention Exercise* *Location:* Avenue Nigerian Community House, Greater Manchester , 23 Platt Lane M14 5 NE *Date:* 16th to 20th October, 2023. Time 9:00 prompt The Nigeria High Commission in London in collaboration with NIDO UKS is pleased to announce passport intervention programme as scheduled above. All applicants from January 2023 till date can take advantage of the above opportunity to have their passport processed on those days if they are yet to do so. As a reminder, please see various requirements below: *Instruction: Kindly check the requirements and come along with the ones that apply to you* *Applicants for passport renewal* -A copy of National Identification Number (NIN) slip. Please note your NIN MUST be validated before passport processing. -completed passport online application form, payment slip and acknowledgment slip. -Most recent physical Nigerian passport. -A prepaid special delivery envelope. -Ā£20 postal order payable to the Nigeria High Commission. *Applicants for first issue passport (adults, 18 years and above)* -A copy of National Identification Number (NIN) slip. Please note your NIN MUST be validated before passport processing. -completed passport online application form, payment slip and acknowledgment slip. -A prepaid special delivery envelope. -Ā£20 postal order payable to the Nigeria High Commission. -Original and photocopy of full birth certificate showing the names of both parents. -Photocopy of a non-Nigerian passport if dual nationality. -Photocopy of Nigerian passport of at least one of the parents. *Applicants for first issue passport (Minors, under 18years)* -A copy of National Identification Number (NIN) slip. Please note your NIN MUST be validated before passport processing. -completed passport online application form, payment slip and acknowledgment slip. -A prepaid special delivery envelope. -Ā£20 postal order payable to the Nigeria High Commission. -Original and photocopy of full birth certificate showing the names of both parents. -Photocopy of a non-Nigerian passport if dual nationality. -Photocopies of both parents passports, one of which must be a Nigerian. -Consent letter signed by both parents. In the absence of consent from either of the parents, a court order (not solicitorās letter) must be presented. *Applicants for change of surname due to marital status or Divorce* (please note: applicants for any other change of data should go to London) -A copy of National Identification Number (NIN) slip, which must carry the new surname. Please note your NIN MUST be validated before passport processing. -completed passport online application form, payment slip and acknowledgment slip. -Most recent physical Nigerian passport. -A prepaid special delivery envelope. -Ā£20 postal order payable to the Nigeria High Commission. -In the case of marriage, please present signed consent letter from your husband, original and photocopy of marriage certificate, photocopy of husbandās passport -In the case of divorce, please provide photocopy and original of decree absolute or final divorce order from the court and please show evidence of maiden name. If you would like to take advantage of this please send an email to Generalsecretary@nidouksouth.org with the following details. 1. Date of application 2. Application ID 3. Payment confirmation 4. Appointment slip. Thank you. *NIDO UKS Executive Committee* *For The* *Nigeria High Commission* This was forwarded to a group I belong to. Don't know how true but it might benefit someone. |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by amanze54: 12:43pm On Oct 09, 2023 |
2021 UK arrival set that did Cyber Security, how easy it is getting jobs, I observed Job in that field require high experience. I am planning to move over to software engineering |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by AgentXxx(m): 12:51pm On Oct 09, 2023 |
Do you have any skills or experience at all? Just as any job they are always entry roles. So depending on your skills you can opt for entry roles but having some basic skills will be very helpful depending on the aspect of cybersecurity you are interested in, I may be able to help to guide to some skills needed. amanze54: |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by hustla(m): 1:27pm On Oct 09, 2023 |
amanze54: What happens when you see that software engineering requires experience too? Did you have prior Cybersecurity experience in Nigeria or take internships while in the UK? |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by RalphJean: 1:55pm On Oct 09, 2023 |
PalestianIsrael: Dear PalestianIsrael, 1. To come on this forum to seek for help means you are not happy with the status quo. 2. Kindly note that a lot of folks on this thread who do not know anything, whatsoever about you (or your wife) will jump on your post to write different stuff, informed 100% only by your own (one-sided) story. 3. Whereas you have presented your side of the story, I hope you do know (and appreciate) that there is a second side to every story. 4. Again, I hope you appreciate that weāre your wife to create a fake name, on a faceless forum to state her side of the same story, it may not necessarily be the same as yours. 5. Kindly remember that Nobody, absolutely NOBODY writes his/her story and portrays himself/herself as the villain. That means your narrative is only 1 side. 6. Before you take any advice/suggestions/recommendations from total strangers (like myself), first ask yourself: What do you really want? Do you want the marriage/relationship to end? Or you would absolutely wish to Love your wife as the woman you knew & Loved before? 7. Have you considered that you are probably too engrossed in your phone & laptop that you have neglected your wife? 8. Can you (hand-on-heart) say that the phone/laptop activities that irks her are vital activities? Do you spend hours and hours scrolling and chatting on Nairaland (for example) while your wife is right there, seeking physical/emotional attention ? Etcā¦ 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by abuhusna1: 1:55pm On Oct 09, 2023 |
PalestianIsrael:Your evidence is meaningless if you have cut a woman. Better talk to her heart to heart iron out your differences no perfect marriage just learn to compromise and accommodate her. The day you call it quit is the day she will plot your downfall in the uk and call police on you for domestic violence |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by BorisJohnson(f): 2:01pm On Oct 09, 2023 |
Poanan: What a truckload of utter tosh! She is new? Really? And him? He is old in the country? Seriously, is male chauvinism & toxic masculinity this bad? Sad! Did you read the part that HE (the man) is the visa holder while She (the woman) is a dependant? And you simply concluded that na because man carry her come UK she don come ātear eyeā. Abi the eye tearing dey only happen to women alone ni? 1 Like |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by rinzylee(m): 2:04pm On Oct 09, 2023 |
I dey go Gaza tomorrow, who wan join? |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by sconp: 2:08pm On Oct 09, 2023 |
abuhusna1:Just curious, can he not call the police on her and report the matter first? 1 Like |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by justwise(m): 2:10pm On Oct 09, 2023 |
abuhusna1: His evidence matters when there is violence on both sides. Not only women suffer violence in this country, men do as well but too ashamed to speak out. 9 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by justwise(m): 2:11pm On Oct 09, 2023 |
PalestianIsrael: You need to move out first befor somebody is killed. Both of you can still work things out but you have to do this from afar. 8 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by justwise(m): 2:13pm On Oct 09, 2023 |
sconp: He can. 3 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by PalestianIsrael: 2:18pm On Oct 09, 2023 |
abuhusna1: . |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by abuhusna1: 2:23pm On Oct 09, 2023 |
PalestianIsrael:I can tell you for free she won't go home as she maybe be granted stay if she claim threat to life and you may be sent to prison before being sent home. This country na woman country and they can bring you down for free just iron out your differences and live a peaceful life. Forget dependant visa and concentrate on your peace of mind. If she no calm down after heart to heart talk start gathering video evidence as it may go a long way than to explain tire |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by abuhusna1: 2:26pm On Oct 09, 2023 |
sconp:This is another good point 4 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by BorisJohnson(f): 2:31pm On Oct 09, 2023 |
PalestianIsrael: Have you considered that you were probably starving her of emotional support? Someone above asked to imply why you seem to be more āmarriedā to your phone and laptop than you are, to her. Have you even considered that you are/were in the wrong on some occasions? Please, see if you can find a way of solving issues. 3 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by BorisJohnson(f): 2:32pm On Oct 09, 2023 |
sconp: No be who first call police dey win case. 5 Likes |
Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 3) by jedisco(m): 2:41pm On Oct 09, 2023 |
BeckyB1: They change it from time to time. During covid, it was relaxed. Later brought back and relaxed again until end of August. Paying for COS is not advisable but from an economic standpoint, I hardly see the difference between that and loads of people who pay much more for an obscure masters and then end up working in or paying for another COS in the care sector. Most Nigerians who pay huge sums for masters do that for the sole purpose of migration. From most, the direct care route would be a better option. What you could do is try and target NHS HCA/support roles in acute or mental health Trusts that ere eligible for sponsorship. Also, might be worth checking if your original sponsor can second you to another agency with vacancies. The second agency then pays you through your sponsor. Also see if you can use your free time to learn some trade that you could do as a side job for your 20hrs when you get an NHS sponsored role. In the end, you'd be allright. 5 Likes |
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