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Re: Is This Selfishness Or Not by diogo23: 9:35am On May 24, 2023 |
IkeIgboNiile:It's better to endure your biological kids than bastard |
Re: Is This Selfishness Or Not by diogo23: 9:36am On May 24, 2023 |
Skyview01:You can compare it with blood/lineage |
Re: Is This Selfishness Or Not by IkeIgboNiile(m): 9:55am On May 24, 2023 |
diogo23 It's better to endure your biological kids than bastard. Well i can't change your thinking but my point is that Africans have their own form of adoption. |
Re: Is This Selfishness Or Not by MechanicMike: 12:23pm On May 24, 2023 |
Victoria938: Who advise u to advise advice...do u have a man or do u need man & are u lightskin? |
Re: Is This Selfishness Or Not by elmagnifico411(m): 1:03pm On May 24, 2023 |
God bless u real good for this. Aonkuuse: |
Re: Is This Selfishness Or Not by Kobojunkie: 1:13pm On May 24, 2023 |
Hathor5:Selfish then! |
Re: Is This Selfishness Or Not by Kobojunkie: 1:15pm On May 24, 2023 |
DrDunamis:So prior to the installment of benefits, and the social enlightenment in the west, adoption was frowned upon too? |
Re: Is This Selfishness Or Not by trumpcoat(m): 7:28pm On May 24, 2023 |
Same as when a man cannot father another person's child and some women cannot mother another person's child too this is someone child they claimed they love the father of mother talk more of loving a strange child else whom they don't even know the parents |
Re: Is This Selfishness Or Not by DrDunamis(m): 9:33pm On May 24, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: You've got your answer already |
Re: Is This Selfishness Or Not by Hathor5(f): 4:59am On May 25, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: How many have you adopted? |
Re: Is This Selfishness Or Not by Kobojunkie: 5:00am On May 25, 2023 |
Hathor5:So, you will only adopt if I adopt? Is that it? |
Re: Is This Selfishness Or Not by Hathor5(f): 8:35pm On May 25, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: No, not at all. I will NOT adopt either way. I would just like to know how many of you who scream "you people are selfish" are better than those you are judging and have adopted already or are about to. |
Re: Is This Selfishness Or Not by Kobojunkie: 8:42pm On May 25, 2023 |
Hathor5:I am not screaming selfish, just submitting to the fact that it is indeed selfish. That is all. This should be objective and not subjective in anyway. |
Re: Is This Selfishness Or Not by Hathor5(f): 8:54pm On May 25, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Be not only objective but also fair and ask yourself if you can do what you expect of others. That`s all. |
Re: Is This Selfishness Or Not by Kobojunkie: 8:55pm On May 25, 2023 |
Hathor5:Whether I do it or not does not change the fact that this is selfish though So, I don't understand why you continue to think it all depends on what I or the next person does. The choice to bring children into this world when there are millions of children already here and in desperate need of a home is selfishness. Yes, we try to color-coat or even sugar-coat it in such a way as to make it seem like what it isn't but the fact of it remains that it is a selfish act on our part. |
Re: Is This Selfishness Or Not by finallybusy: 10:24pm On May 25, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:“Life is Short. Make Sure You Spend As Much Time As Possible on the Internet Arguing with Strangers.” |
Re: Is This Selfishness Or Not by Nobody: 10:26pm On May 25, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: I totally agree with you. The bottom line is we do not have capacity to love someone who is not our blood despite the level of religiosity in the country and we often hide under "our culture". looking at the level of decay and lawlessness in Nigeria, it is safe to conclude our culture has failed us and needs to be re-evaluated. You need to see what some individuals do to their maids. |
Re: Is This Selfishness Or Not by Kobojunkie: 2:38pm On May 26, 2023 |
Skyview01:You won't get any argument from me there. Our culture has indeed failed us across the board and the only way forward is to begin to abandon the old ways in order to adopt new and better ways. 1 Like |
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