Caseless:
Don't you know how to read to deduce the lesson in what he wrote that you're still asking?

Deduce nonexistent lessons? Are you for real?

OP it seems like you were among the last UNICAL matriculants Anyways welcome to calabar where self contain apartment is not self contain. I would advise you start keeping your #50 and #20 change for water

GoWithGood:
Some is not actually sense of entitlement, but show of kindness. Like he said, how can a family member be sick and need help and you have the capacity to help but refuses to. If eventually the same person dies, you will come and shed fake tears. Please try and separate entitlement from "doing good".

And how do you know he has the “capacity to help”?
Because he has “a big hotel”? Do you if or how much he owes the bank? Or staff? Or suppliers?!

Again, with the ingrained Nigerian Culture of Entitlement…
If someone tells you they can’t help, take it in GOOD FAITH. And if they can, be APPRECIATIVE!

Do not assume you are entitled to another person’s assistance…
Whatever you may believe (correctly or erroneously) is their “capacity to help”! It’s NOT your right.
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mariahAngel:


Sukkot, come read an example of what I was trying to make you understand the other day about help.
Anybody can give/receive help to/from anybody, regardless.
One would never know what they might need in life.

from reading the story i dont see where it disagrees with what i said. dude is simply saying it may not be the richest person who would help you and also nowhere in the story is there a poor helpless person trying to help someone doing better. two different things lol

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