I’m finding it very difficult to live with someone after living alone for years even when I was In school and after I graduated. Likewise I can’t accommodate anyone either. It’s as if they are intruding my privacy.

This includes babes wey dey come my side, after 1-2days, I don tire.


Is this normal?

It's more noble to live with mosquitoes than to live with a Nigerian girl.

You need to get use to it, except you want to live all your life alone.

Start by inviting your young cousins or siblings (5-10yrs), for few days, if you have any, they will teach you tolerance.

Gottiii:
I’m finding it very difficult to live with someone after living alone for years even when I was In school and after I graduated. Likewise I can’t accommodate anyone either. It’s as if they are intruding my privacy.

This includes babes wey dey come my side, after 1-2days, I don tire.


Is this normal?

Over time you will learn to accommodate people and live with them because when you marry that's where you will understand properly what it means to live with another person

Zonefree:
It's more noble to live with mosquitoes than to live with a Nigerian girl.

guy, this one loud. Where una Dey see all these punchlines.

Gottiii:
I’m finding it very difficult to live with someone after living alone for years even when I was In school and after I graduated. Likewise I can’t accommodate anyone either. It’s as if they are intruding my privacy.

This includes babes wey dey come my side, after 1-2days, I don tire.


Is this normal?

Theres nothing wrong with you...some of us are like that..we just like our space.

And if any babe should stress me in any form I discard them.

Rayban25:


Theres nothing wrong with you...some of us are like that..we just like our space.

And if any babe should stress me in any form I discard them.

💯

Nothing wrong with you.
Having your own space is cool, it's like a sanctuary and once you get used to it, it might initially be difficult to accommodate others..

Even the LORD God said "it is not good that man should be alone."
So, stop convincing yourself that it is normal.
It is not. Especially when you've come of age.
Do something about it!

Rayban25:


Theres nothing wrong with you...some of us are like that..we just like our space.

And if any babe should stress me in any form I discard them.

Keep on discarding, you hear?
Until the world moves on without you, and you're left alone!

mariahAngel:


Keep on discarding, you hear?
Until the world moves on without you, and you're left alone!

The world never revolved around me before so you've not made any point

Rayban25:


The world never revolved around me before so you've not made any point

When you get to that point in your life, you will get my point.
God is not man that He should lie.

mariahAngel:


When you get to that point, you will get my point.
God is not man that He should lie.

Why is my decision paining you so much?

frozen70:

Over time you will learn to accommodate people and live with them because when you marry that's where you will understand properly what it means to live with another person

What if he doesn't want to get married? 🙄

FalseProphet1:

What if he doesn't want to get married? 🙄

Leave am..when you tell women you don't want to get married e dey always pain them

Rayban25:


Why is my decision paining you so much?

Paining me ke?

It appears nairaland (more like delusionland ) is where you all come to lie to yourselves/believe each other's lies to escape reality, but reality must dawn on everyone.

mariahAngel:


Paining me ke?

It appears nairaland (more like delusionland ) is where you all come to lie to yourselves/believe each other's lies to escape reality, but reality must dawn on everyone.

E dey pain you becaus i don't see why you need to quote scripture over my decision.

And since you know bible very well I'm sure you know God dosent force anyone to marry...paul the apostle wasnt married

Rayban25:


E dey pain you becaus i don't see why you need to quote scripture over my decision.

And since you know bible very well I'm sure you know God dosent force anyone to marry...paul the apostle wasnt married

I had to make you see the truth.

Paul wasn't discarding women.

mariahAngel:


I had to make you see the truth.

Paul wasn't discarding women.

If you read my post very well I said i discard women who stress me.

Why your body dey itch you over my decision abi you wan marry me? ...anyway I would even discard you too cause from this small back and forth you've given me headache and you sound like trouble.

If you no like my decision..go to court!!

mariahAngel:


I had to make you see the truth.

Paul wasn't discarding women.

What truth? And where does he say he discards women? He says he doesn't like people (both men and women) invading his privacy, thus his post doesn't pertain to women alone. And no, there's absolutely nothing wrong with him for valuing his privacy and space. Many people are like that, myself included. He's even trying by allowing them to stay over 1-2 days but if he chooses not to allow their staying over his place, that's his call to make. With regards to women, the Bible itself doesn't condone cohabitation (living together) before marriage, so if you're going to quote scripture at least understand what you're quoting.

You better learn how to live with people so you can find wife.

No woman will marry you with this attitude.

FalseProphet1:

What if he doesn't want to get married? 🙄

Dey play, no be bye force to get married now

That kind life is dangerous.. Adapt, and quickly.

Gottiii:
I’m finding it very difficult to live with someone after living alone for years even when I was In school and after I graduated. Likewise I can’t accommodate anyone either. It’s as if they are intruding my privacy.

This includes babes wey dey come my side, after 1-2days, I don tire. Is this normal?

If this is who you are at this point In time then it is who you are at this point in time. That's just what it means.

Kobojunkie:
If this is who you are at this point In time then it is who you are at this point in time. That's just what it means.

I think he’s very normal ma’am

1Sharon:
You better learn how to live with people so you can find wife.

No woman will marry you with this attitude.

See as you dey talk like say na women dey hold the marriage cards. Dey play

Rayban25:


See as you dey talk like say na women dey hold the marriage cards. Dey play

Men decide who gets married. But the other party still has to agree.

There is no biggie leaving alone.

U enjoy ur space

Wetin u wan use the babes do sef wen they are not ur wife!

Gottiii:
I’m finding it very difficult to live with someone after living alone for years even when I was In school and after I graduated. Likewise I can’t accommodate anyone either. It’s as if they are intruding my privacy.

This includes babes wey dey come my side, after 1-2days, I don tire.


Is this normal?

..lol..na so I be..I don give my sister number to one of neighbor.any day wey I sleep I no wake..make he call am

Gottiii:
I’m finding it very difficult to live with someone after living alone for years even when I was In school and after I graduated. Likewise I can’t accommodate anyone either. It’s as if they are intruding my privacy.

This includes babes wey dey come my side, after 1-2days, I don tire.


Is this normal?

It's blissful living alone.

You need to learn to adapt, it's not the best!

Gottiii:
I’m finding it very difficult to live with someone after living alone for years even when I was In school and after I graduated. Likewise I can’t accommodate anyone either. It’s as if they are intruding my privacy.

This includes babes wey dey come my side, after 1-2days, I don tire.


Is this normal?