Pelumitimi:
■ Thank God I have been discharged but even till now he has not called or messaged to say he said anything about me being sick. I feel hurt...that somebody I loved with all my life could actually do this to me....even tho I endured so many maltreatment from him.....yet my life meant nothing to him. I just feel I can revenge cos I feel really bad and I feel cheated

Kobojunkie:
The sad truth is this... you chose, of your own volition to endure bullsheet from him. So, first thing first, accept the fact that you allowed yourself to be played by him. Once you do that, you will not only get over that pesky need for revenge, but you will also get your head in a head where you can make meaningful changes in your life to ensure no such eejit can cause you to stoop that low ever again. Additionally, you will also be well on your way to getting the best revenge ever, which is proving to him and others like him by way of self-development and success, that their level of manipulative intelligence is beneath you. That is the best kind of revenge there is.

Pelumitimi:
I met this guy sometimes last year....it took me 6mnths before I finally accepted to date him....at first I was not really in love but gradually I began to love him beyond measure....truth is I never asked him for anything instead I was the one spending for him...despite how he treated me I still endured..most times I go on my knees for hours begging before he finally forgives me for wat I don't even kno I did wrong.....
He makes sure 3rd parties are involved in our relationship...he lies against me just to be called the right one,all this I endured until one day I was rushed to the hospital unconscious and it took God's intervention before I regained consciousness...he was called only for him to tell my family he traveled.....meanwhile he was the last person I chatted with that same day before I was rushed to d hospital...later a friend of mine called him asking him why he is still not at the hospital but his reply was "don't she have parents" why not call them.. he told my friend he can't come for any reason and even told my friend that he lied about travelling...little did he kno that my parents were listening to his conversation with my friend...
Thank God I have been discharged but even till now he has not called or messaged to say he said anything about me being sick



I feel hurt...that somebody I loved with all my life could actually do this to me....even tho I endured so many maltreatment from him.....yet my life meant nothing to him


I just feel I can revenge cos I feel really bad and I feel cheated

Pelumitimi:
I met this guy sometimes last year....it took me 6mnths before I finally accepted to date him....at first I was not really in love but gradually I began to love him beyond measure....truth is I never asked him for anything instead I was the one spending for him...despite how he treated me I still endured..most times I go on my knees for hours begging before he finally forgives me for wat I don't even kno I did wrong.....
He makes sure 3rd parties are involved in our relationship...he lies against me just to be called the right one,all this I endured until one day I was rushed to the hospital unconscious and it took God's intervention before I regained consciousness...he was called only for him to tell my family he traveled.....meanwhile he was the last person I chatted with that same day before I was rushed to d hospital...later a friend of mine called him asking him why he is still not at the hospital but his reply was "don't she have parents" why not call them.. he told my friend he can't come for any reason and even told my friend that he lied about travelling...little did he kno that my parents were listening to his conversation with my friend...
Thank God I have been discharged but even till now he has not called or messaged to say he said anything about me being sick



I feel hurt...that somebody I loved with all my life could actually do this to me....even tho I endured so many maltreatment from him.....yet my life meant nothing to him


I just feel I can revenge cos I feel really bad and I feel cheated

Pelumitimi:
I met this guy sometimes last year....it took me 6mnths before I finally accepted to date him....at first I was not really in love but gradually I began to love him beyond measure....truth is I never asked him for anything instead I was the one spending for him...despite how he treated me I still endured..most times I go on my knees for hours begging before he finally forgives me for wat I don't even kno I did wrong.....
He makes sure 3rd parties are involved in our relationship...he lies against me just to be called the right one,all this I endured until one day I was rushed to the hospital unconscious and it took God's intervention before I regained consciousness...he was called only for him to tell my family he traveled.....meanwhile he was the last person I chatted with that same day before I was rushed to d hospital...later a friend of mine called him asking him why he is still not at the hospital but his reply was "don't she have parents" why not call them.. he told my friend he can't come for any reason and even told my friend that he lied about travelling...little did he kno that my parents were listening to his conversation with my friend...
Thank God I have been discharged but even till now he has not called or messaged to say he said anything about me being sick



I feel hurt...that somebody I loved with all my life could actually do this to me....even tho I endured so many maltreatment from him.....yet my life meant nothing to him


I just feel I can revenge cos I feel really bad and I feel cheated

zed7:
Beware of stories you hear from women. A woman who is practically a devil always has a fantastic story to tell when reporting an issue.

Until I hear from the accused or a third party, I always take their stories with a pinch of salt.

I remember the case of a woman who claimed her boyfriend beat her up, until it was proven to be a lie by a bystander. Instead of her to apologise for lying , she went ahead and accused the boyfriend of threatening to beat her. So why lie that you were beaten? She said she lied so that we will get angry and get the boyfriend beaten.

This and many more experiences has made that adage, "fear women" very true for me.

Pelumitimi:




I don't pray wat happened to me should happen to any of ur sisters or relative .....
Cos that's wen u will understand better....I only shortened the whole tin.....not to waste peoples time.....

Pelumitimi:
I met this guy sometimes last year....it took me 6mnths before I finally accepted to date him....at first I was not really in love but gradually I began to love him beyond measure....truth is I never asked him for anything instead I was the one spending for him...despite how he treated me I still endured..most times I go on my knees for hours begging before he finally forgives me for wat I don't even kno I did wrong.....
He makes sure 3rd parties are involved in our relationship...he lies against me just to be called the right one,all this I endured until one day I was rushed to the hospital unconscious and it took God's intervention before I regained consciousness...he was called only for him to tell my family he traveled.....meanwhile he was the last person I chatted with that same day before I was rushed to d hospital...later a friend of mine called him asking him why he is still not at the hospital but his reply was "don't she have parents" why not call them.. he told my friend he can't come for any reason and even told my friend that he lied about travelling...little did he kno that my parents were listening to his conversation with my friend...
Thank God I have been discharged but even till now he has not called or messaged to say he said anything about me being sick



I feel hurt...that somebody I loved with all my life could actually do this to me....even tho I endured so many maltreatment from him.....yet my life meant nothing to him


I just feel I can revenge cos I feel really bad and I feel cheated

Yugoslavia247:


After 6 months. Then he tasted you and he felt he wasted his time chasing. Nothing as painful as chasing a woman you hold in high esteem only to discover she is not sweet in bed or in character.

The value drops from 100 to negative. Whatever the case is the guy is no longer interested.

Again, sometimes letting guys chase for too long has direct opposite effect on the mental state when you finally accept. If you don't tally with his expectations they feel cheated and useless for chasing for far too long.

For instance a guy I know refuses to entertain a girl to his house because she is only beautiful but down there she is as dry as roasted pomo. Her presence disgusts him. Imagine chasing such gal for 6 months. Brrr. Na vex u go use pursue am.

Pelumitimi:

I met this guy sometimes last year....it took me 6mnths before I finally accepted to date him.

I feel hurt...that somebody I loved with all my life could actually do this to me.

I just feel I can revenge cos I feel really bad and I feel cheated

zed7:
Beware of stories you hear from women. A woman who is practically a devil always has a fantastic story to tell when reporting an issue.

Until I hear from the accused or a third party, I always take their stories with a pinch of salt.

I remember the case of a woman who claimed her boyfriend beat her up, until it was proven to be a lie by a bystander. Instead of her to apologise for lying , she went ahead and accused the boyfriend of threatening to beat her. So why lie that you were beaten? She said she lied so that we will get angry and get the boyfriend beaten.

This and many more experiences has made that adage, "fear women" very true for me.