Dear Naija ladies,

Relationship no be secret cult, post your partner...

Their Men are hoes and uglees.
And maybe into fraudulent,so you see Nigerian ladies are trying to save their assess from EFCC.

Make them post person papa?

Why would any lady be advertising a relationship if she's not sure it would lead to marriage?

Kobicove:
Why would any lady be advertising a relationship if she's not sure it would lead to marriage?

Why will any lady continue to be in a relationship if she is sure it won't lead to marriage, BTW is it compulsory that every relationship must end in marriage?

You don't expect a person who is in multiple relationships like our girls to advertise one of them, which one is she going to advertise?

The reason is they don’t want thier exes, friends, flings, followers, family, hookups, guys/girls theyre keeping in contact with or even future potential partners from seeing thier current partner; plain and simple.

Early into the relationshop sure, but 5 months of constant contact? Theres an issue and its with the relationship.

When you have something nice, you show it off. That includes a nice bf/gf or relationship.

Theres even a name for this and its called “Pocketing” your partner keeping anyone else from seeing them.

Its a huge red flag and theres no justification for it. Business and themed profiles are irrelevent.

We desprately need less liars in the world.

Could be many reasons, with the top few being,

1.They want to look single, they are the main point of their social media even if it says they are taken. (More compliments from guys, more chances of guys hitting them up to ask if they are single to fuel their goodness)

2. Often times boyfriends does not want to show up in their social media for whatever reasons.

3. They may have multiple boyfriends. This way it is easier to avoid suspicion.

4. Lastly, She wants to hide her bf in fears of other girls knowing where he is. If he has money, good looks, somewhat popularity. The outer circle of girls may hop on once she notice the usual boy-girl together pics are no longer there.

If I were a woman, I will hardly post my bf pics. Why should I? Unless my husband, but bf? fork no.

If the relationship didn't lead to marriage, then I am just another girl people know as having numerous bf. If in three years' time, I dated three guys, so I should post them all abi?

And maybe the guy that will actually come and take me seriously was surveying me from afar, and wondering why I am changing men like clothes. Hell no.

mbaise1000:


Why will any lady continue to be in a relationship if she is sure it won't lead to marriage, BTW is it compulsory that every relationship must end in marriage?

If it's not compulsory that the relationship must end in marriage why then do you want her to be flaunting you on social media?

Hoes are constantly searching for higher value men even while married and dating..they only get to expose their mugu when they are about to dump him..

Kobicove:
Why would any lady be advertising a relationship if she's not sure it would lead to marriage?

Typical

I don't like people posting me, I don't post myself either.

Social media freaks

QuinModah:
The reason is they don’t want thier exes, friends, flings, followers, family, hookups, guys/girls theyre keeping in contact with or even future potential partners from seeing thier current partner ; plain and simple.

Which one is future potential? LMAO The current one is useless? Sounds like Nigerian girls are cheating on their potential future suitor.

Kobicove:


If it's not compulsory that the relationship must end in marriage why then do you want her to be flaunting you on social media?

If you are Ashamed or afraid of flaunting a person anywhere, you have no right to expect that person as a husband or as a wife, I think that if a person is not good enough to be PROUD of and flaunted, you go look for the one that you will PROUDLY flaunt, because everyone has someone they will proudly flaunt around, whether they will marry them or not, then it's very wrong to expect every relationship to end in marriage.

I would not advise such.

What purpose does it serve? A relationship should be between a man and a woman and not between a man, a woman, and the world. Besides, society will harshly judge and not forgive a woman easily, so it is of the essence for women to be very selfish with their decisions about love and relationships. And that means, giving certain benefits to people who have taken a step further to solidify what you have.

As Pansophist said, something is wrong with your morals if you keep changing men like clothes and even worse, post these people. People may never tell you this to your face, but they will never take you seriously.

mbaise1000:


Why will any lady continue to be in a relationship if she is sure it won't lead to marriage, BTW is it compulsory that every relationship must end in marriage?

These things aren't cast in stone. That means you can not tell people's intentions for you unless they tell you. I mean, I could promise my unwavering loyalty and undying love for you and tell you that you're for me, but deep within me, it may not be true. Humans can't be trusted. A man holds the key to marriage after all. So, a woman should try to be twice as wise.

Now, must every relationship end in marriage? NO. But, while we are at it, can we love ourselves and let the media out of our business? What's with people’s obsession with posting or not posting?

Them no wan spoil market...them still dey receive Weekly allowance from like 20 guys

The last time I checked, it was Nigerian men complaining that their partners want to post everything about their lives while they want to remain hidden.

marvelck:
Dear Naija ladies,

Relationship no be secret cult, post your partner...

Do you want other magas guys on her list to stop giving her money?

You sef reason am na

Lol.. which of the boyfriends should they post? Most of them date multiple partners at the same time and posting one won't work so they rather not

Isa long story

mbaise1000:


If you are Ashamed or afraid of flaunting a person anywhere, you have no right to expect that person as a husband or as a wife, I think that if a person is not good enough to be PROUD of and flaunted, you go look for the one that you will PROUDLY flaunt, because everyone has someone they will proudly flaunt around, whether they will marry them or not, then it's very wrong to expect every relationship to end in marriage.

You're missing the point...

This has nothing with being proud or ashamed of the person.

If a lady dated 4 guys before meeting her Mr Right it does not make any sense to have pics of her with her 4 ex-boyfriends floating all over social media?!

marvelck:
Dear Naija ladies,

Relationship no be secret cult, post your partner...

i wouldn't use the word scared,rather they want an open relationship, they know what they are doing

PerfectStranger:
Make them post person papa?

Kobicove:


You're missing the point...

This has nothing with being proud or ashamed of the person.

If a lady dated 4 guys before meeting her Mr Right it does not make any sense to have pics of her with her 4 ex-boyfriends floating all over social media?!

No I don't think I am missing the point, we have to change certain things on this out nigerian fake lifestyles, we don't have to pretend we are pure when we are not, the person you are going to end up marrying is still going to know you are not a virgin, my point is if we are ashamed of being seen as associating with a certain person we should not be associating with them at all, if we want to remain free until we are ready to marry which is the Best, we should do that, if we are not sure of the person we are moving with, we leave them, not being in one relationship and hoping and believing that it will crash

This is similar to asking me to post the pics of all the ladies I have fúcked.

I will never do it

Skiborobo:
Isa long story

Are you the one in that pic on your profile?

You want to destroy their other source of income