So I met this guy on Facebook and we got talking. Did video call and chatted. He sounds so intelligent and his voice is so sweet. I kind of like him a lot. He's very learned and career driven. Now we desire to meet one on one and he invited me to his house. I feel so disappointed because I didn't expect that from someone as enlightened as him. I expected him to invite me to somewhere public for the first time for us to meet, sit and talk. Even though I've agreed to go, I have changed my mind and I plan on telling him that I'm no more coming. What do you think?

graceilina:
So I met this guy on Facebook and we got talking. Did video call and chatted. He sounds so intelligent and his voice is so sweet. I kind of like him a lot. He's very learned and career driven. Now we desire to meet one on one and he invited me to his house. I feel so disappointed because I didn't expect that from someone as enlightened as him. I expected him to invite me to somewhere public for the first time for us to meet, sit and talk. Even though I've agreed to go, I have changed my mind and I plan on telling him that I'm no more coming. What do you think?

Come to my own house instead

graceilina:
So I met this guy on Facebook and we got talking. Did video call and chatted. He sounds so intelligent and his voice is so sweet. I kind of like him a lot. He's very learned and career driven. Now we desire to meet one on one and he invited me to his house. I feel so disappointed because I didn't expect that from someone as enlightened as him. I expected him to invite me to somewhere public for the first time for us to meet, sit and talk. Even though I've agreed to go, I have changed my mind and I plan on telling him that I'm no more coming. What do you think?

You'll still go

graceilina:
So I met this guy on Facebook and we got talking. Did video call and chatted. He sounds so intelligent and his voice is so sweet. I kind of like him a lot. He's very learned and career driven. Now we desire to meet one on one and he invited me to his house. I feel so disappointed because I didn't expect that from someone as enlightened as him. I expected him to invite me to somewhere public for the first time for us to meet, sit and talk. Even though I've agreed to go, I have changed my mind and I plan on telling him that I'm no more coming. What do you think?

I nor think anything.

You feel so disappointed cos he invited you to his house? Sometimes I wonder what gets into the head of some ladies... You just told us how you kind of like him, now, you're disappointed! Really?

Few weeks from now, I'll marry my beautiful princess. We met on Facebook 2yrs ago. After chatting for weeks, I invited her over to my place. It was a wonderful experience and today we're at the last phase of the marriage rite

If you don't like the idea of him inviting you over, why not discuss it with him? What's special about the public outing? If you feel you're not safe going to his house, that means you've noticed a red flag already. If not, you can as well take a friend along, or better still, invite him over to your place. Not everyone loves public outing

Op, why agree to come and later you are changing your mind? Is not every guy you go to his house will ask you for sex, if you are not interested. No be by force to go, you can call him and tell him what is I'm your mind.

graceilina:
So I met this guy on Facebook and we got talking. Did video call and chatted. He sounds so intelligent and his voice is so sweet. I kind of like him a lot. He's very learned and career driven. Now we desire to meet one on one and he invited me to his house. I feel so disappointed because I didn't expect that from someone as enlightened as him. I expected him to invite me to somewhere public for the first time for us to meet, sit and talk. Even though I've agreed to go, I have changed my mind and I plan on telling him that I'm no more coming. What do you think?

Look at it from the angle of what u will u gain, lose or avoid if u go or not...

Gain: nothing significant....he might cook indomie for you, or still take u out...no big deal

Lose: start a potentially great relationship with a great guy that u are already into

Avoid: a potential rapist, serial kíller or ritualist

Risk 101: Better to change ur mind........unless u are already imagining doing kinky things with him but u are just forming

graceilina:
So I met this guy on Facebook and we got talking. Did video call and chatted. He sounds so intelligent and his voice is so sweet. I kind of like him a lot. He's very learned and career driven. Now we desire to meet one on one and he invited me to his house. I feel so disappointed because I didn't expect that from someone as enlightened as him. I expected him to invite me to somewhere public for the first time for us to meet, sit and talk. Even though I've agreed to go, I have changed my mind and I plan on telling him that I'm no more coming. What do you think?

Relationship is not for children but for matured mind. Matured mind uses their head (Wisdom, love and experience) to think while children deploy their heart (love) to think. If to say you mature, u for not accept to go his house in the first place judging from multiple unpleasant stories we have read over and over and over.

I don typed RIP for the past few days and not willing to do same soon. A word is enough for the wise

Last last na u go go he house before we go know wetin de happen u don enter bed, u de ask us wetin we think as if ur brain nor de function.

. Wise girl . U excape 🛌 exercise. Well,u are free to met @ any eatery there.To avoid story that TOUGH not TOUCH,pls go with ur own cash/ATM just in case. Dnt go chop fried 🍗/ grilled 🐠 wey 🍖go hook u for throat.Avoid fancy ice cream,U can buy gala plus Fan yogurt 8. May u not see evil

Should we tell her how it will END?!

Akuko siri

.we will soon hear that popular sentence. "one thing led to another.........

Whether you wait after one year to go to his house, the truth is if he's a serial killer, he will still kill you the day you visit! Our prayers is not to meet the wrong person at all.

udeh3:
You feel so disappointed cos he invited to his house? Sometimes I wonder what gets into the head of some ladies... You just told us what how you kind of like him, now, you're disappointed! Really?

Few weeks from now, I'll be marry my beautiful princess. We met on Facebook 2yrs ago. After chatting for weeks, I invited her over to my place. It was a wonderful experience and today we're at the last phase of the marriage rite

If you don't like the idea of him inviting you over, why not discuss it with him? What's special about the public outing? If you feel you're not safe going to his house, that means you've noticed a red flag already. If not, you can as well take a friend along, or better still, invite him over to your place. Not everyone loves public outing

You know the world has set a global standard now for dating. Just do as they say. No thoughts. No tacts.


@op, you cannot define a serious man by how much or the extent to which he complies to a set of tactless and baseless rules. And by the way, when it comes to complying to a set of rules, nobody can beat radical players and f**kboys. They know the rules better.

Note that my views are no justifications for you to visit a "ritualist" in his house. For safety reasons ONLY, yes, you should by all means meet in a public space. But for someone you already like, someone you know and talk to via video calls, it doesn't seem like you're worried about safety. But you just want a date anyways because a Hollywood script writer said that, for a relationship to begin or work, you have to start from the basis. Tactless.

U want to fall for another 12k falling of hands ??

Most of the ladies asking to meet in a public place are looking for opportunity to feed their stomachs

I remember when I was single, a lady requested for us to meet in a public place and I demanded we meet in her church but she declined.

Na to chop dem dey find..

Somewhere public like a church or eatery?
If you are meeting in an eatery, will you pay the bills? Why don’t you invite him instead if you feel disappointed?

Those encouraging you to meet someone you are meeting for the first time won't tell their daughters or sisters to go.
They are just deliberately setting you up for sex and wishing they were the ones you would visit.
You people should know the type of details you put out for people with no stake in your lives to determine your direction. I won't be surprised if it's teenagers or barely out of teens are the ones matured folks would take their advise. Those ones on cruise just catching fun online.
Meet wherever you feel safe and comfortable to assess and gauge him to see how comfortable you feel around him. You should also rather confide your movement to someone real and close all the time.

So because he's intelligent and sounds sweet on phone calls....And also enlightened, he's not supposed to invite you to his house...?


What of he's trying to build trust, what if he's serious and doesn't have time to waste?


What if he's not the sitting out type. What of he's not financially stable and doesn't want to be disappointed or will you foot the bills of sitting in a private place?


Women eh.... Una Wahala too much.


If he has evil intentions, you wouldn't know. Just pray he's not a ritualist.....

graceilina:
Even though I've agreed to go, I have changed my mind and I plan on telling him that I'm no more coming. What do you think?

When you change your mind, do you think the fact you agreed to go even matters?


Man, I hate women’s logic.

Na you agree, na you change your mind.
Kilo Kan mi.


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graceilina:
So I met this guy on Facebook and we got talking. Did video call and chatted. He sounds so intelligent and his voice is so sweet. I kind of like him a lot. He's very learned and career driven. Now we desire to meet one on one and he invited me to his house. I feel so disappointed because I didn't expect that from someone as enlightened as him. I expected him to invite me to somewhere public for the first time for us to meet, sit and talk. Even though I've agreed to go, I have changed my mind and I plan on telling him that I'm no more coming. What do you think?

Later na, u will be going to prayer houses and be disturbing our pastors

If you ain't going, stay back. Going or not, your safety matters first.

Well since you haven't physically met him, i won't adyou to meet him at his house. Just call him and change the location of your meeting.

Till you get to know him better always insist on meeting him in public places.

Hungry girl spotted. You are ranting because he didn't take you to an eatry where you will order shawarma, hollandia youghurt, fried rice and turkey with ice cream. Did Nigerian girls have a definition of a public place apart from eatry.?

The only public place for a date most Nigeria girls/ladies knows is eatery.. The real public places to meet for a date should be Museum's,Amusement Park's, Zoo's, Live theatre's and stadium's this re places where ladies should pick for a first time outing with a guy for the first time meeting him face to face not eatery...

How and what do they enjoy @ eatery if not to just eat and drink cause most of them re just so hungry and all they re interested in is the foods,meats,drinks , ice cream e.t.c not to meet the guy and know more about him and see if he is their kind of guy or not ..

The bad part of their thinking is any guy who take them to eatery for a date is a nice , cute gentle, and caring guy that loves them ...and the guy who pick's other public places re the real bad guys

Skyfornia:
Most of the ladies asking to meet in a public place are looking for opportunity to feed their stomachs

I remember when I was single, a lady requested for us to meet in a public place and I demanded we meet in her church but she declined.

Na to chop dem dey find..

U were expecting a porch restaurant so u can devour UpTo 12k food🤣🤣🤣🤣🤔

With 3k you can have a decent meal in most eateries. Not necessarily fancy restaurants.
So because someone collecting pocket money is over money conscious, the lady should compromise her safety or dignity!
I'm out of here.

Skyfornia:
Most of the ladies asking to meet in a public place are looking for opportunity to feed their stomachs

I remember when I was single, a lady requested for us to meet in a public place and I demanded we meet in her church but she declined.

Na to chop dem dey find..

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