horny4u:

I agree with rich and with opportunity being the action word here, I will say opportunity is the culprit not your husband what you need to do is remove opportunity.
No better way to do that then put the kids in  a private school, move into a bigger house, stand with a project expand the big house, Once there is no money for frivolities and so much on his hand , opportunity will be erased.
Also please be many women , it works for most roving eyes, when he comes back from work and you are felicia the ashawo  (wig + sluttty make up), tommorow you are  Maureen the secretary (Nerd glasses and mini black skirt), next tommorow you are cat the dominatrix (french stockings and whip with commanding tone) , he will not know what to expect since you will be changing hair and make up, You can google this roles remember na only of una no one needs to know say na u spoil finish just u and him.
I am sure you are good at BJ butterfly flick , hover etc, You got him emotionally thats why he married you but we women tend to relent in our bedmatics forgetting that there better be no slluuttt like a wifey.
Even if it is once a week  dash the kids to your mum for that day you are organising this yeye charade for him, just humour him after all he is biggest resource, and NO OTHER WOMAN MUST TOUCH.

i forgot to add that you need to keep your eye on the money , when surplus come frivolities, make sure he is investing that money on your kids and their furture , he is your resource not theirs.

horny4u:
I agree with rich and with opportunity being the action word here, I will say opportunity is the culprit not your husband what you need to do is remove opportunity.

No better way to do that then put the kids in a private school, move into a bigger house, stand with a project expand the big house, Once there is no money for frivolities and so much on his hand , opportunity will be erased.

Also please be many women , it works for most roving eyes, when he comes back from work and you are felicia the ashawo (wig + sluttty make up), tommorow you are Maureen the secretary (Nerd glasses and mini black skirt), next tommorow you are cat the dominatrix (french stockings and whip with commanding tone) , he will not know what to expect since you will be changing hair and make up, You can google this roles remember na only of una no one needs to know say na u spoil finish just u and him.

I am sure you are good at BJ butterfly flick , hover etc, You got him emotionally thats why he married you but we women tend to relent in our bedmatics forgetting that there better be no slluuttt like a wifey.

Even if it is once a week dash the kids to your mum for that day you are organising this yeye charade for him, just humour him after all he is biggest resource, and NO OTHER WOMAN MUST TOUCH.

i forgot to add that you need to keep your eye on the money , when surplus come frivolities, make sure he is investing that money on your kids and their furture , he is your resource not theirs.

You couldn't have chosen a better username and you got the names of the wifey in the different roles right. . .WOW

Best advice I've read on Nairaland

semid4lyfe:

You couldn't have chosen a better username and you got the names of the wifey in the different roles right. . .WOW

Best advice I've read on Nairaland

yogun:



Divorce is not the solution too. It won't solve the problem. It cld be that God is trying to show you some things in d marriage.
Wish you ɑ̈ safe delivery darling.

pDude:

Another mod-inspired thread to discuss.

Oga seun, out of the almost 1million nairaland users, how many of them are really people?

arsenefc:

Maybe two hundred. Why? make Seun no chop?

pm05337:

I totally disagree with the guy saying all men cheat, Women please don't mind him because I reckon he needs to give his life to Christ, I for one don't believe in having GF outside my marriage, Am happily married- going to 4yrs
and by His grace don't intend to cheat on my darling wife.

arsenefc:

4 yrs is too short a time to know if you'd cheat or not

Come back after you are 5 yrs into your marriage, after your wife might have had her first va/g/i/n/a/l delivery, with her punnnyy all messed up and ugly and wide open like the entrance of pyramid of giza, not to talk of all those fats and what not.  You have no idea. Only an impotent man would not cheat on her wife during pregnancy or/and after her first pregnancy. A woman's punnny is only good for 4 yrs and thats before giving birth. After her first v/a/g/i/n/a/l delivery, the rate of depreciation is directly proportional to the square of each passing hour.  Its ugly and gory down there for 'em.

Thank your stars you are man.

pDude:

@arsenefc-  abeg is that true? Ewwwww. Thank God I'm not a woman.

2tek:

let d truth b told.Getting a man who is rich (even poor) dat hasn't cheated on his wife after 5yrs of marriage is like getting a woman who is still a virgin at 30.pls don't misunderstand me cos ther ar still very decent married men out there. d fact is after delivery, their womanliness wl no longer b d same.dis is one fact that men find difficult 2 accept especially men who crave for a tight kitty.

bhusayor:

*sighs* is marriage just about sacrifice from the women? Why are the men here being so insensitive? This same woman is giving your union kids and cheating is what she gets in return? And some even went ahead to say she should pray her hubby doesn't kip just one gf??To say I'm irked by some comments here is an understatement. Do you do women favour by marrying them? Cheating isn't justified at all, but a man who cheats but is repentant is still forgivable, at least the couple can work on the union and adjust the lapses, but an unrepentant cheat even at the detriment of your family? YOUR kids? God bless my dad!

pm05337:

the only solution to a man not cheating is to have genuine " fear of God" and he is keen to make Heaven,

Whitehorse:

@teslim,
Will u still keep doing all those things by the time u r old and withered away? The way some people think they will live for ever and remain young for ever would have been so funny if it was not tragic,
Keep living in the here and now OK,

tEsLim:

If I can get the constant bj and role playing thing going in the house and good weekends that looks like boyfriend & girlfriend and no kids bumping and hitting on the door! Even when you know my mums house is just 10mins drive away and kids always welcome there for the weekend.  That would be awesome and no need to escape for drinks at lounges where you will meet olosho tight jeans girls. And for once she can keep up the swag like i do! How the hell i still look fit and you are fat now? And boring sex too? I didn't bargain for that. African magic downstairs even when there is a tv in the master-room up too "I hate africanmagic!"and you wait till ,  poo you know I sleep early self damn. Housewives are useless are just good for cooking and taking care of kids,  similar to house helps ,  I guess that's why she doesn't want an house maid in the house to take her place. Now I'm glued to work and internet ,  yeah my bedroom fridge got all sorts of vodka that helps me sleep -- By the way I wanna tell you girls today men can expel without heavenly feeling/CLIMAX. There is quality precipitate! And there is just what we call release.

Hope I didn't sound off topic. Why wont the guy up there cheat?