kyber:
My morning erection sometimes comes and sometimes doesn’t, and when it comes it is semi hard.

So I have tried to have sex with girls, whenever I’m being excited I get hard, But after putting on a condom and inserting my male organ into the vagina, it’s becomes soft after 2 or 3 thrust.

It takes minutes for me to get hard after some caressing by the lady and when I put it in it goes soft again.

Mind you I do masturbate but I stopped a month ago. Those were the period these things happened. I haven’t had sex since I stopped masturbation for fear of the repetition.

The girls I had left cause I couldn’t satisfy them, the love they had for me vanished after I couldn’t even perform well like their ex, making them miss their exes .

I haven’t tried raw sex yet to confirm if I can sustain my erection when I feel the inner walls of the vagina and it’s sweetness, because some of the articles I have read here on Nairaland talked about my male organ getting used to my left hand (cause that’s what i use) thereby making it loose sensitivity to the point where my male organ becomes insensitive inside the condom.

Is my condition a critical one or one that can be fixed easily by following few steps of instructions?

What can I do to get this fixed and get my male organ back to its full potential?

Check your blood pressure. I can almost bet that it is elevated. It is the number one cause of this issue.
Secondly, check your blood sugar.
I don't know your age but in case you are young, don't think you are too young to have the above issues. I know what I'm saying.
Eliminate these before thinking of any other cause.
Masturbation can't cause this issue, even though I don't encourage it. There are actually some advantages of masturbation related to this issue but I won't go into that.
Your psychology is important. Your mindset towards premarital sex, your mindset towards condoms. Also, the fact that you have registered it in your mind that you have a sexual problem is enough to further reinforce the manifestation of that problem.

Ebymyk:
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kyber:



Wow
That new

Please explain better

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kyber:
My morning erection sometimes comes and sometimes doesn’t, and when it comes it is semi hard.

So I have tried to have sex with girls, whenever I’m being excited I get hard, But after putting on a condom and inserting my male organ into the vagina, it’s becomes soft after 2 or 3 thrust.

It takes minutes for me to get hard after some caressing by the lady and when I put it in it goes soft again.

Mind you I do masturbate but I stopped a month ago. Those were the period these things happened. I haven’t had sex since I stopped masturbation for fear of the repetition.

The girls I had left cause I couldn’t satisfy them, the love they had for me vanished after I couldn’t even perform well like their ex, making them miss their exes .

I haven’t tried raw sex yet to confirm if I can sustain my erection when I feel the inner walls of the vagina and it’s sweetness, because some of the articles I have read here on Nairaland talked about my male organ getting used to my left hand (cause that’s what i use) thereby making it loose sensitivity to the point where my male organ becomes insensitive inside the condom.

Is my condition a critical one or one that can be fixed easily by following few steps of instructions?

What can I do to get this fixed and get my male organ back to its full potential?

My guy I have a thread on the solutions to your problem since 2019. Try and read up..


https://www.nairaland.com/5587103/porn-induced-erectile-dysfunction-piedhttps://www.nairaland.com/5587103/porn-induced-erectile-dysfunction-pied


Dear Nairalanders, I write this to help anyone suffering from Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction. Because there’s a growing trend of healthy young men using medications like Viagra, Jedi, opaeyin, akeko, Ponkriyon, somboton, ori maalu, Oko oloyin and others. These are drugs intended for older men and those with health-related erectile dysfunction (ED).
Many of these young men (unknowingly?) use these drugs to treat a condition that is psychological rather than physiological: porn-induced erectile dysfunction (PIED).

Up until the last 2 decades, rates of ED were low in sexually active men under 40, and did not begin to rise steeply until thereafter. A major cross-sectional study reported erectile dysfunction in 5%, and low sexual desire in 5% of sexually active men, ages 18 to 59, and a meta-analysis of erectile-dysfunction studies reported consistent rates of 2% in men under 40 (except for the preceding study). These data were gathered before Internet “porn tube sites” like pornhub and xvideos, which have enabled wide access to sexually explicit content with no subscription required. The first of these “tube sites” appeared in September 2006 .
In contrast, recent studies on ED and low sexual desire document a sharp increase in prevalence of such dysfunctions in men under 40.


If you are suffering from these condition. I will advise you to read the below questions and answers session carefully and also incase you need counseling or help you can contact me on my number displayed below my profile.



Q: Can excessive porn consumption really cause a man to experience erectile dysfunction?


A: Yes, watching hardcore porn excessively, especially pornography with deviant and violent behavior can cause mental changes that may result in erectile dysfunction.


Q: What happens in a man’s brain when he is exposed to extreme sexual stimuli (such as hardcore pornography) and how does this relate to ED?


A: Hardcore pornography is often graphic and generally displays deviant, violent, and abnormally kinky behavior. This is not typical for the average sexual encounter and it can create unrealistic mental perceptions of how a man should engage in sexual activity. Furthermore, a man may initially get a thrill from watching what he believes is an exotic encounter, but over time excessive porn watching desensitizes men to intense sexual stimuli and even sexual violence which sometimes occurs in the porn that is being viewed, thereby lowering the ability to engage in true intimacy.
Pornography, in general, causes intense mental stimulation that changes the way the brain views sexual activity and sexual violence in pornography exaggerates the
alterations in the brain .
This phenomenon is similar to becoming more tolerant to a certain drug after prolonged use; meaning you eventually need higher and higher doses to experience the same feelings of euphoria. Repeatedly watching hard-core porn can have a similar effect on sexual performance. In other words, watching excessive porn changes the way the brain processes sexual arousal and activity, often leading to desensitization that lowers libido and causes psychological erectile dysfunction.

Q:Some say that men who watch too much porn can develop performance anxiety. Why does anxiety affect the ability to get and maintain an erection?

A:In addition, because a man’s brain has now become accustomed to getting stimulated at the sight of intense pornographic images, an ordinary encounter will cause the man to wonder if he will be able to perform at a similar level (e.g., for extended periods) as what has been observed in a pornographic video. Therefore, the performance anxiety is still related to the changes that occur in the brain and wondering if he can satisfy his partner in the manner that the brain has become used to. In other words, the anxiety is a direct result of worrying about being able to re-enact the sexual scenes in porn; this unrealistic goal can lead to performance anxiety. Subsequently, a man may get an erection, but after beginning to worry about whether he can perform like the actors in porn, the erection may soften or stop altogether.

Q: Does porn-induced erectile dysfunction cure itself if the man stops watching porn?


A: Discontinuing pornographic viewing does not automatically cure PIED. Furthermore, drugs such as Viagra or Cialis target the physical aspect of erectile dysfunction, not the psychological aspect. This means that a man will become completely dependent upon such drugs until the brain restores its ability to initiate an erection under ordinary sexual circumstances. A healthy relationship (e.g., marriage) with a patient partner can help a man overcome PIED over time.


Q: What form of treatment would you recommend a man who suffers from PIED?

A: Beneficial treatment would be in the form of individualized therapy, which may vary in time (e.g., weeks, months) depending on the individual and the degree of PIED. As PIED is often the result of an addiction to pornography, this form of treatment should be viewed as the first step to addiction recovery.
The purpose of therapy is to begin to desensitize the brain to the pornographic images and to address some of the reasons that the addiction to porn more than likely started. Men are also encouraged to reconnect intimately with their partners in order to help the brain restore its ability to initiate sexual arousal during ordinary sexual encounters. Overall, a man must be willing to give himself time to gradually overcome PIED



Please let's make this thread interactive... I will like to read about u and ur struggles with Porn induced Erectile Dysfunction.

Bro, calm down, take a tab of vega every few days, to force the blood vessels there back open, do exercises more of aerobics really maybe 30 minutes a day but pace byourself, get your heart rate up and blood flowing... you should be back to normal in a month or so... It seems you don't lead a particularly vigorous life style

larryeffizy1:
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Bro 80% of such is cause by anxiety and depression. How will he knows if his blood is not circulating. Asking him to go take supplement is unprofessional. quote author=DolbyDigital post=124010326]

OP, don't mind people that are asking you to reduce your anxiety, and and do things that are way out of control. Majority of them just read what they say on the internet and trust me, most things we read on the internet are not from professionals and they know so little about it. It's usually from written by everyday person, given a topic and tasked to come up with a content with a short timeframe, then they do a little bit of research, read other bloggers work, take a little bit of this, and a little bit of that, then use their essay writing skill to echo the same thing. You should go to a professional or take advice from someone who overcame similar experience.

This is just my opinion based on my experience, I am NOT an expert. Many years ago, I faced the same problem, I tried many things that most folks suggested in other comments but it doesn't work. The main reason for this problem is usually blood circulation and age. Focus on yourself, pay attention to what you are doing or eating, are you doing anything that is hindering blood flow all over your body? Start exercising, work out, eat well and pretty much do anything that will help your blood circulation. Don't expect quick changes from anything though, most methods usual take 2 months for you to start seeing any obvious changes. To recover from your problem as quickly as possible, take supplements that help your blood circulation, main focus should be on Vitamin D3, don't take too much, take the minimum prescribed by the manufa

akojifred:
Bro 80% of such is cause by anxiety and depression. How will he knows if his blood is not circulating. Asking him to go take supplement is unprofessional.

Did you read my post or you just skim through it?

I never claimed to be a professional and I stressed that I am not an expert.

I also stressed that taking professional advice for specialist is the best option.

Yes, I recommended supplements to support him on the advice he sought for but not without disclaimer. I told him to take it as an input rather than a solution. And my advice is based on my personal experience and journey toward curing my erectile dysfunction.

And lastly, are you a professional? What do you do? Are you an xpert in this matter? Hence, how did you come up with the statement about anxiety and depression being 80% reason for erectile dysfunction?

P.S

Read similar input below.

row2ray:
Bro, calm down, take a tab of vega every few days, to force the blood vessels there back open, do exercises more of aerobics really maybe 30 minutes a day but pace byourself, get your heart rate up and blood flowing... you should be back to normal in a month or so... It seems you don't lead a particularly vigorous life style

Exactly..

did you find any solution yet?

SAYEDADAMADAMS:


Reduce intake of man -made sugar, eat at least one bitter Kola per day, eat water melon and lastly, do much exercise.
You may also try this harmless capsule (DARAVIT FORTE)but you will have to eat a lot before and after taking the capsule. NB: whenever you kickoff the match just play it slowly at the beginning.

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kyber:
My morning erection sometimes comes and sometimes doesn’t, and when it comes it is semi hard.

So I have tried to have sex with girls, whenever I’m being excited I get hard, But after putting on a condom and inserting my male organ into the vagina, it’s becomes soft after 2 or 3 thrust.

It takes minutes for me to get hard after some caressing by the lady and when I put it in it goes soft again.

Mind you I do masturbate but I stopped a month ago. Those were the period these things happened. I haven’t had sex since I stopped masturbation for fear of the repetition.

The girls I had left cause I couldn’t satisfy them, the love they had for me vanished after I couldn’t even perform well like their ex, making them miss their exes .

I haven’t tried raw sex yet to confirm if I can sustain my erection when I feel the inner walls of the vagina and it’s sweetness, because some of the articles I have read here on Nairaland talked about my male organ getting used to my left hand (cause that’s what i use) thereby making it loose sensitivity to the point where my male organ becomes insensitive inside the condom.

Is my condition a critical one or one that can be fixed easily by following few steps of instructions?

What can I do to get this fixed and get my male organ back to its full potential?

Any update on the cure for this sir?

Please I only get Erection when i am laying down, i loose it Immediately i stand up.

Please any one suffering/recovered from this?
Please help me 🙏

maduxs:
you are suffering from Varicocele. Varicoceles are believed to be caused by defective valves in the veins within the scrotum, just above the testicles. Normally, these valves regulate the flow of blood to and from the testicles. When normal flow doesn't occur, the blood backs up, causing the veins to dilate (enlarge). You need surgery and you should stop. Masturbating and alcohol. There is chances that you are infertile too. Contact me me

Please how long does it take to recover from varicoceloctomy.

I still have the pain in my testicles a week after the surgery. My surgeon says it takes weeks before I fully recover