finegirl233:

I'm your silent follower since i joined nairaland. Some comments are very annoying for sure but just let it slide. You are bigger than this ma

Capernum:


Then I guess I have things to learn from you. Meanwhile, I don't argue with grace.

I came from a family exactly as yours, but my wife is from a complex family setting.

She's a good woman though. But think about this. I introduced her to her mum for the first time. She was never with her. I met her mum before her, I orchestrated their union. It was my first Marital assignment.

lavylilly:
Ki Olorun ran yin lowo

Skyview01:


Is your name Abidemi Enitan? just asking for a friend!

Juanmike:
I felt doubt in your response.

bummyla:
Will you marry me?

lavylilly:
Do you have money?

Skyview01:


Love is enough na, what do you need money for? lol

Psoul:


Many have come to me to seek for marital advice. Even our church Head nominated me even without me knowing it, to be among the council in which he is at the head. This council will be incharge of finding a way to settling marital issues in the church.

There's is one thing I always try to tell fellow men. You are called the groom in your wedding day while your wife is called the bride. As the groom, it's your responsibility to groom your bride(wife) into what you want her to be. If you fail to do that, your marriage will suffer.

So many men have failed in this assignment. Women are what you allowed them to grow into.

Also in marriage, don't bother about how ppl outside that your marriage will see you when you're doing everything to make your marriage work. So many families are in disarray cos the couples are trying to please ppl outside the marriage rather than making the marriage work. If you come to Nairaland, you'll see those forming Alpha men and the Feminists doing our saying things cos they want to be hailed.

Alpha men will tell you that they don't say sorry. And they see things getting out of place, their ego will not let them say sorry and get over the issue. They'll will be thinking of how their guys will look at him if they says sorry. They will tell them simps.

My dear, your marriage is between you and your wife. Until you understands this, you'll keep having issues in yours.

ChybuzzDD:


I hope you're not trying to push people into saying sorry/apologizing even when they're wronged?

isabi2lof:
Well I'm not yet married but I still thank God say , I no marry the time wey I dey mumu , Maybe dem for don show me shege pro max

DonroxyII:
I follow You Thank God, Amen !

IconicR:
Get married already, stop wasting your sexual prowess on young single ladies.

Strafudeen:
Wowwww.

I can't believe i read all thirteen pages of this thread, and not once did I gear someone mention nyash, breast, fine face, curvy, pretty, ...ahhhhh!
I shock oo

So finally it is true that looks are overrated??

Wowww

DonroxyII:
... !
Where do I know u from ... U know even know nothing about me

IconicR:
Just take my advise seriously.

lavylilly:
are you married

DonroxyII:
... !
Where do I know u from ... U know even know nothing about me

IconicR:
It's a small world, you are not so anonymous, just take my advise 😂

Oracleee:


This is my biggest fear about getting married. My fiancee come still clingy and like lovey lovey. I'm so scared I won't be able to take the risks I take again financialwise and other aspect. Mehn I'm so scared of loosing myself.


Btw my fiancee is abroad and she's the type that can call 10 times in a day Double on a Sunday.

Absuchat:
Yes... I will marry my spouse over and over again.

Although I've not met her

jameso88:
No....presently am researching on causes, effects of divorce. Especially on my kids