Still in uni with at least 2 years to go (computer engineering)
I don't have friends, only son
Still a virgin
Still lives with parents
Dealing with massive trauma, both school and childhood.
I am very close to kms, thinking about it 10 times a day, each day feels like hell to me

Make sure you learn a trade skill.... Anything you have passion for

There is a lady you like, ask her out on a date her life waits for nobody, if she declines move to the next

Don't keep friends, keep aqiutance , network of people who can help you

Your mental health is very important, get a psychologist... Ordinary 5k would get you a session and you can talk and get mental help

Counseling works and it's not a crime to talk to someone, nothing to be ashamed of..... Celebrities do it, Politicians do it



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Purvan:



I'm into programming but I'm just doing it as a hobby atm


No matured nor intelligent girl again

All girls in my area just wanna eat sharwama and bill boys like me

Lol

I understand... They just want money.

However you need to search right now for the one you can tolerate some of her bullshit and build alliance

If you can build up with a lady at 23 , you might be very how you can make and build her to your taste

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What school do yo attend ? And do u have any physical disabilities?? Even if You’re better than Millions of people, so I just need to realize it and get your life back on track. You’re still very Young and full of life

1.Try as much as possible to come out with a 2.1.

2.Start working on IT certifications while still in school.

3. Do not engage in uproductive friendships or relationships.

3. Enroll in an M.sc after yor degree if possible.

Purvan:
Still in uni with at least 2 years to go (computer engineering)
I don't have friends, only son
Still a virgin
Still lives with parents
Dealing with massive trauma, both school and childhood.
I am very close to kms, thinking about it 10 times a day, each day feels like hell to me

What's the bolded.

Purvan:
Still in uni with at least 2 years to go (computer engineering)
I don't have friends, only son
Still a virgin
Still lives with parents
Dealing with massive trauma, both school and childhood.
I am very close to kms, thinking about it 10 times a day, each day feels like hell to me

I'm sorry u're going through such a difficult time.
However, It's important to seek help immediately if u're experiencing suicidal thoughts or ideation.

U can reach out to a helpline or a mental health professional for support. This u can easily find in ur university.

Turning your life around may involve taking small steps towards improving your mental health and well-being.

I can provide some suggestions:

- Seek therapy or counseling to address the trauma u have experienced. This can help u process ur experiences and develop coping skills.

- Focus on ur studies and try to make the most of ur time at university. Consider joining a club or group related to ur interests to meet new people and build connections.

- Consider reaching out to old friends or family members to reconnect with them.

- If you're interested in starting a romantic relationship, try dating apps or joining social activities to meet new people.

- You can also consider moving out of ur parents' house if u feel like it's holding u back.
Look into renting a room or finding a roommate to share an apartment with.

- Start or improve ur relationship with Jesus. I can’t emphasize the kind of relative peace u’ll will experience. The relationship can be enhanced by studying and meditating on His Word and of course attend a Bible believing Church. And forget to PRAY

Friend, kindly remember that life is full of ups and downs, and it's okay to ask for help when u're struggling.

It takes time and effort to make changes, but taking small steps towards improving ur well-being can make a big difference in ur life in the long run.

All the best

Meerahbel:
What's the bolded.

Killing himself*

@OP, focus on getting skills, find out your purpose, write it down and work towards achieving it, graduate with good grades, use social media to your advantage rather than comparing yourself with people on it and getting depressed. There are girls like you out there. Girls shouldn't be your problem at the moment. I am guessing you have sponsors, if you were fending for yourself, you won't have idle time to be unproductive.

Ki

Purvan:
Still in uni with at least 2 years to go (computer engineering)
I don't have friends, only son
Still a virgin
Still lives with parents
Dealing with massive trauma, both school and childhood.
I am very close to kms, thinking about it 10 times a day, each day feels like hell to me

Seek God, and everything you'll ever need in life will find you.
What you need now above everything is inner peace, and only God through Jesus Christ can give you that.
Everything else will fall into place with ease, way beyond your expectations.

Don't break your parent's hearts.

mariahAngel:



Seek God, and everything you'll ever need in life will find you.
What you need now above everything is inner peace, and only God through Jesus Christ can give you that.
Everything else will fall into place with ease, way beyond your expectations.

Don't break your parent's hearts.

Which kin advice be this ??

Purvan:




Which kin advice be this ??

The one that can permanently stop you from wanting to kill yourself.

Are you an introvert?

.........

Lol

Purvan:
Still in uni with at least 2 years to go (computer engineering)
I don't have friends, only son
Still a virgin
Still lives with parents
Dealing with massive trauma, both school and childhood.
I am very close to kms, thinking about it 10 times a day, each day feels like hell to me

You need to Start fuvvking fr.
Let me know if you need girls

Purvan:




Which kin advice be this ??

Don't mind them.

Computer Engineering in which school?.. If it's Uni of first choice and nation's pride, your efforts won't ever be in vain.
University life is like that especially the Engineering courses where you have everything pre-requisite.. if care is not taken, you'll spend 12yrs for a 5yr programme. When your mates in Education, Social sciences,/Theatre Arts etc. are there rounding up their PhD, you're there not sure of ever getting a Bachelors degree in Engineering.
Whenever I remember the years of Engineering Mathematics and Advanced Engineering Mathematics with all the vectors, integral and differential calculus, not to talk of the thermodynamics, fluid mechanics, plant design principles, process control etc.. I doff hat for myself. Anybody wey think say E easy, make he go do am. Olu Ogboja na man wey sabi.

doggedfighter:


Don't mind them.

Start by minding your business.

Purvan:




Which kin advice be this ??

That's actually the best advice!!
One reason there are depressions , so called mental breakdowns and what not is humans don't seek for their manufacturer's manual.. U were created and d creator sure has an intention of creating u. FIND IT!
Whatever the case sha don't k.y.s. I can assure you that what you have faced is nothing compared to what your parents have faced in their lives and they are still there for u!!
Kid be a strong man! Dont allow all those pathetic mindsets to disturb u.
But best you find and alígn with your creator now.

Purvan:
Still in uni with at least 2 years to go (computer engineering)
I don't have friends, only son
Still a virgin
Still lives with parents
Dealing with massive trauma, both school and childhood.
I am very close to kms, thinking about it 10 times a day, each day feels like hell to me

Where are you based?

Can you pls tell us more about this " massive trauma"?

Chioma4eva:
Can you pls tell us more about this " massive trauma"?

Was sexually abused as a child by my nanny
Bullied in junior secondary by my seniors every night they wake me up and flog me because I wet the bed
I was made fun of in uni because I was still a virgin

boldx:

Where are you based?

Mbasa island

Purvan:


Was sexually abused as a child by my nanny
Bullied in junior secondary by my seniors every night they wake me up and flog me because I wet the bed
I was made fun of in uni because I was still a virgin

Sorry dear.

Purvan:


Was sexually abused as a child by my nanny
Bullied in junior secondary by my seniors every night they wake me up and flog me because I wet the bed
I was made fun of in uni because I was still a virgin

Wow I'm really sorry you had to go through all this. Have you tried talking to a psychologist to get professional help? If you haven't, can I help pay for one? I'm really sorry once again that you went thru all this.

Chioma4eva:
Wow I'm really sorry you had to go through all this. Have you tried talking to a psychologist to get professional help? If you haven't, can I help pay for one? I'm really sorry once again that you went thru all this.

I don't think I need a psychologist


My hobbies are my newfound therapies

They do intend to relive me from traumas I've experienced

Purvan:


I don't think I need a psychologist


My hobbies are my newfound therapies

They do intend to relive me from traumas I've experienced

What is your passion?
As in, what are you skillful at?
what gets you excited to do?
What wouldn't you mind doing for free, at any time (as a trial), just to prove you're good at it?
Have you discovered what that is?