Chronosvineberg:
Let me just lie my own lie

I was 3

wumi2017:
17years

Mrtaye:

Wooow so how old are you now

Danisaint112:


Na God brother. When I remember the story of great men that have died or fallen because of what's under the skirt everything active in my body will fall immediately

Plus the thought of the act still disgusts me. I am the kind of the person that easily get irritated. I actually don't find sex cool and would only be engaging in it in the future because I have to have an heir and make a woman (my wife) happy.

Battlefield2:
I was 16
She was 15

12 years down the line, we are still very much together
I disvirgined her and we presently have a 4year old boy together
It's been a hell of a ride
But we loved each other and we still do

Juanmike:
What of your happiness?

Danisaint112:


It's hard to believe right? Na God. I made a convenant with God that I will remain a virgin till marriage so he will give me a virgin that wouldn't make life hell on Earth for me.Hope this explains it?

On the other hand having a woman in your life when ain't ready for marriage is you entangling yourself with distraction. The reason 99% have girlfriend is because they want someone that would readily satisfy their sexual urge when aroused. Let be honest that's it.

If you can control your sexual urge and be patient to avoid distractions you will definitely though my path.

Merry100:

You are a bit lucky that you are a guy. My advice for you is not to wait for God's will but to find someone whom you love and appreciate and who also genuinely loves you. After you have found your potential partner, take her to God in prayer.

When I was a teenager I also had the wrong mentality, I was waiting for God's will, instead of accepting one of those amazing guys that genuinely loved me. I only befriended Church guys that were presented to me as God's will. With time, I realised that some guys that are extremely religious are narcissists. I consider my relationship with those Church guys mere friendship. Though, they were extremely religious but their personality was off. They were cocky, rude and unapologetic. I felt so restricted and suffocated. I experienced my worst relationship moments with them.

I started realizing what I have been missing now in my twenties as I started experiencing what it is like to actually date. I was made to feel so beautiful, loved, valued, and appreciated. I have a lot of beautiful and memorable moments. Relationship should be fun, when you are ready for marriage find someone that you can enjoy every moment with.

Danisaint112:
Hi

I find happiness in video games and mobile games. it's one of the things that make me happy. Or simply come to Nairaland and engage in banters (advice and educate them In a harsh way) with tribal bigots whonhavebrefusednto have sense. Whenever the urge becomes too much I get busy immediately.

Jennyclay:
I was 19 years old - first and last boyfriend

kernniejay:
My wife is my one and only Girlfriend up till now. We started dating 13 years ago, we are happily married now.

Merry100:
How old were you when you had your first bf/gf?

wumi2017:

🤣 That's personal

Jennyclay:
I was 19 years old - first and last boyfriend

Danisaint112:


Hmm thanks for the advice. But I'm not the over religious type. Why should anybody even wait for God to provide them a spouse. We put in the work and finish the rest with prayers.

The thing is I just have certain believes about women that decided to remain chaste.

Trust is important in marriage and driving force for a long lasting marriage so for me to actually love and marry her she must possess qualities that must make me trust her completely. I'm aware of this as regards to my parents marriage.

But I get your point though and really do appreciate the advice. 👍

Emperormartin:
20 yrs...
And the first time I saw a vagina was when I was 24yrs

AnonymousMike:


Omo, your case give me hope bro........as i think say Na only me for dis Nigeria wey neva see vagina at 22 years...........but anyways making plans towards having Seggs very soon sha with my gf, but I wan make e be something wey she go do with full consent, make nobody come hold me in the future say Na rape..........women can be unpredictable at times...
It's well. Just be using contraceptives and finally try and fall in love with your sense fully intact

Juanmike:
You said you would fulfill your obligations to make your wife happy, and I ask, what of your happiness?
Do you have sexual feelings too?

Emperormartin:
20 yrs...
And the first time I saw a vagina was when I was 24yrs

Danisaint112:
Never had a girlfriend. Still single. Probably the reason I don't understand what heartbreak or setback by women is. Progressing fine and steadily.

Some have assumed I am a gay. Funny.

I understood at a very young age that as a man if you can control your sexual urge and stay way from women over 77% of your problem is solved.

Goalnaldo:
I'm about to have one for the first time and I'm less than a month of 31 but women get problem walai. I dey fear for my mental health.

Adewale1603:
Am 29, still never had a girlfriend. Let me come and read lies here. Some people don't really know the concept of boyfriend/girlfriend. You'll see them mentioning 15yrs, 16yrs of age, while still in secondary schools, whereas dating starts when you've been matured psychologically and reach the age of consent which is 18

DonroxyII:
My Nigga ... mine was 23yo ... First time Seeing an Adult Vagina Physically .... I still Rep Her sha till tomorrow as Woman Wey Help Me Break Record ....

E be like Trophy for my Mind sha till Date.. I'm mid 30s ... Pvssy is Simply Pvssy the Bearer na ihm make the Difference & The Psychological Wahala Upstairs !

DonroxyII:
Whatever That Happen sha Because You are Long into the Game & Your Body would have been adapted to Your Own Solitary World ....

Nevertheless, Woman is a must for a Sane Man thus Endurance, Tolerance, Intelligence Smart With Problem Solving Skills(Mental & Financial) & Ultimately Manliness With Good Dickology is the Answer to Any Most Women's Problems !

kay29000:


How old were you when you met?

Danisaint112:


May God bless your union and eliminate anything that will foster separation in your marriage.

kernniejay:

Amen, thank you Danisaint. God bless you and bless everything that concerns you too, amen.