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Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by NoToPile: 9:07pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Filmdirect: Very apt. |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Dbestbrest: 9:15pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Any man that love his wife, trust his wife and care for his wife must learn how to do things together with that woman. I pray nothing happens to the man, if the man dies, it is members of his family that will send the woman parking from her husband house because of property. None will think that she gave birth to 3 boys for the man. For future and security sake, the man didn't do well by buying land with his name only. I built 2 properties with my name and that of my wife. This breeds trust and love. When the Man's family sees that he does things together with his wife, they know that they can't try any funny things with the woman even after his death. We've been hearing of stories of family members chasing away women from their matrimonial homes because of property. Let the man go and make amends. You are on course madam [ 1 Like |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by calabardick(m): 9:22pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma: I don't think you should bother over that except you have an ill-motive. Your greatest concern should be to fight for your marriage/children, not some kinda selfish interest. 1 Like |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Lovelyn451(f): 9:24pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
You shouldn't have asked o, he'll Start looking at you one kain one kain and even hiding things from you. 1 Like |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by calabardick(m): 9:25pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Filmdirect: Wait a minute, are you saying you know the woman more than her husband? That man has his reasons for that, inasmuch as we haven't heard from the man this your sermon isn't necessary. Women are manipulative, they're expert in gathering pity party, I refuse to fall for their manipulative acts. |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Emanodimo(m): 9:27pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
frozen70: With below comment, your first opinion contradict your further statement Both of you don't usually communicate as couple and discuss together on family issues thats why he didn't care to ask you what name to put on the land and you didn't ask him what name is he putting there If only she has met the first condition To be honest, if the money he use in buying the land is his money only, he has the right to write any ones name, he can even choose to put his mother's name as he so wishes |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by frozen70(f): 9:32pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Emanodimo: We have couples who leave together yet don't discuss issues like this for reasons best known to them So many couples are not relating as expected yet the ma still carry out his responsibilitys at home but both if them knows that there is no synergy The main issue here is that the man bought a land which he informed her about it So since he didn't include her name Did he give her the documents to keep Did he keep the documents at home If yes then no issues If no, then e get as e bi But so far the man is still living they both owns it 1 Like |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by malcom1X: 9:38pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
CLATHRIN: What are you saying? His will... Will be read after he's dead. That is when he is gone. Read your message again then read this my answer. 1 Like |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Coolgent(m): 9:38pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma: Madam how much did you contributed in buying the said properties? All my properties including the car i bought for my wife bears only my name. I |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by fijiano202(m): 9:40pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma:too much Nollywood and negative thoughts have destroyed most of you......theres nothing bad in what he did ...the fact that you take it as big deal shows you need Help .... He informed you himself ....he didn't hide anything 2 Likes |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Mayflowa(m): 9:40pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Tfinal: No room for regret. You cannot be sorry for your kindness. It is he that needs to sorry for his greed. If you are not happy. Leave him. Many women make the mistake of never finding someone else because they have children or older. Men don't really care about that now. The world has matured. That doesn't stop you from loving your children. Take your land. You can leave the supermarket for him. Start afresh and be happy. Never live in regrets. Life is too short! 2 Likes |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by valencia25(m): 9:43pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma: THIEF!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by ozo13(m): 9:50pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma:this ur reply alone says alot Abt you.Sha dey calm down 1 Like |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Diligent1(f): 9:54pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
bonnyhope:Same applies to him |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Jman06(m): 10:08pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
How much did you contribute to deserve having your name included in the receipt |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by sharone21(f): 10:17pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
As u are legally married to your husband with 3 boys, you have nothing to worry about.... My mum legally married with 5 girls initially, was NEVER worried even at this initial stage. I am appalled with the reasoning of Nairaland boys: Must she contribute financially for her to have a say in her home? She has already contributed in kind to her man and home, abi if the man wanted to pay a surrogate to give birth to 3 boys, u can imagine how much he will pay apart from other things.... That is why when things are somehow in the home, divorce cases makes the woman sue the man in millions because of all she has contributed in the life of the man as the man would have one way or the other incapacitated her all the while she carried pregnancies and delivered. For those in SS/SE we all know that your wife is your Obiageli when she is married, so I don't understand all this strange, immature question to her. The insult on women on this forum is too much. If your husband is trustworthy and has only one family, u have nothing to worry because even if anything happens, a Letter of Administration etc covers it all.... U are the Legal wife....2nd wife will only benefit more if there is a will covering her and her kids..... Sometimes, will can work for/ against you. |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Lama70(m): 10:18pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma: You are not wrong. But there is a good reason for writing his name alone. He should have explained to you very well. For example, it is always very difficult to process land documents with two names as Mr and Mrs if you want to authenticate ownership. It's one reason those who know about the intricacies will tell you to use one name. Don't be scared. Na you and him get am with the children. You hear God bless you. 1 Like |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by LastProphet: 10:26pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Hello, pls did you contribute money to the land? What an audacity, it's not your fault, it's dumb Nigerian men that caused this. He deserves it, must have promised you heaven and earth before you 'pitied' him and married him, moronic husband |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by isabi2lof: 11:01pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Vex buy your own land ,even if it's in the village. They've been singing it since , that a wife is not their family member ... You better start saving your money to better your life , this man will shock you with a 2nd wife soonest.. 1 Like |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Celepope: 11:09pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
I have a friend who lives abroad and did similar thing and his wife dragged him all over the place for it. Because the guy is well to do, he sold the land and gave her the money. Guess what? Few weeks later this same Lady bought another land in Abuja without the husband’s name and the husband not even being aware. From this my friend’s experience, I have come to learn that women always want to look out for themselves, their children and their family and don’t even consider their husband that work hard to get this money. This same lady have been living in their big house in Abuja without my friend’s two kid sisters or parents knowing where their elder brother and son’s home is located because she can’t stand seeing them. Madam your husband must have seen something that made him take the decision to exclude you from the land purchase. |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by pepigeorge(m): 11:29pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Somebody should ask her if her money was included in the purchase of the land |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Nobody: 11:31pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Don't twist my comment oh. If she contributed part of the money for the purchase, it will be unfair if her name is committed then she can worry but if she didn't contribute anything she shouldn't worry afterall what belongs to her husband is equally hers |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Kobojunkie: 11:32pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
FrancisDiote:So she has to contribute her fair share in order to be entitled to the proceeds hence it is a business agreement, right? |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Emanodimo(m): 11:34pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Well, marriage isn't a business partnership. By your notion of marital property but not extended to be a contributing partner for an asset to be jointly owned, much that you have distinguish an asset from phone sub. So, on what ground does the share entitlement stands on? Even a dormant partner is oblige to contribute its quota, bound by the action of an active partner. The grace factor here is the loophole in law, that aim to balance issues but rather shift the pole as it is being fine tune to suit.
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Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Kobojunkie: 11:39pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Emanodimo:■ I don't follow at all! This is not a court session but a discussion on a forum. The property in question was purchased during the marriage and so is considered marital property. Full stop! 2 abegi! |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Nobody: 11:46pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:You can interpret the way you like |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Kobojunkie: 11:49pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
FrancisDiote:Interprete ke? You keep insisting that for her to be entitled to marital property she has to at least have contributed financially to the acquisition of the property meaning you believe marriage is a business agreement. If she can only benefit only if she made some considerable contribution then what else can it be ? This is economics 101 stuff here. |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Emanodimo(m): 11:59pm On Jul 18, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Marriage is a form of partnership that couples agreed to that what a spouse bring or receive are often unequal yet they come together to build or contribute to their marital success in every form. |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by phemmyfour: 12:03am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma:You're overreacting. Stop being petty, referring to your hubby as "this man" shows the kind of woman you are. Why the unnecessary worries, except you have skeleton in your cupboard and you ve be taking advice from those that will turn your home upside down |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Kobojunkie: 12:04am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Emanodimo:Interesting! So you do see marriage as a business agreement then! And you do agree that both partner contribute their fair share as agreed by the couple, so what are you now saying? |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Emanodimo(m): 12:06am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: 🙂🙂🙂....I quite agreed to the coined *marital property*, when the woman has contributed towards same asset... |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Kobojunkie: 12:08am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Emanodimo:The law does not add need for special contributions since the marriage agreement is what establishes marital property. |
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