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Re: Family Regrets Selling House And Borrowing Money To Relocate Abroad,Now Stranded by Nobody: 12:20am On Aug 02, 2023 |
yewit37486: Don’t mind that individual. You’re right. I know people who get paid 1million pounds per day in the UK working just 2hrs in a warehouse |
Re: Family Regrets Selling House And Borrowing Money To Relocate Abroad,Now Stranded by megastu(m): 3:00am On Aug 02, 2023 |
oh boy if this is true, na suffer people dey suffer for Canada. Tinyemeka: |
Re: Family Regrets Selling House And Borrowing Money To Relocate Abroad,Now Stranded by DesireFarms(m): 5:15am On Aug 02, 2023 |
Ur Sarcasm is irrelevant. This is an open forum and you need to be open to learn new things. Some people earn more than 600£ a day. Though most of the job are contracted and might jst last for few months or weeks, But it’s very possible. Don’t just sit down in the Corner of your room and think everybody is earning the bare minimum . Even people earning minimum wages are doing fine,I’m still part of the minimum wage crew. Relocated with student visa with 2kids now on Tier 2 and I’m doing relatively fine. Relocating to the Uk should be a personal conviction. If you believe you need it. Do it and don’t look back. It might /always be tough/rough at the beginning but with time,You can/may have achieved what you haven’t achieved in Nigeria for years. UK is not a Bed of Roses ,but the system works, to make life easier for you ,always try and upgrade and acquire relevant skills and you don’t need to know anybody here to get a job unlike the other side,Just have the right skills. quote author=Right005 post=124818869] Don’t mind that individual. You’re right. I know people who get paid 1million pounds per day in the UK working just 2hrs in a warehouse [/quote] 1 Like |
Re: Family Regrets Selling House And Borrowing Money To Relocate Abroad,Now Stranded by Lilimax(f): 5:49am On Aug 02, 2023 |
Right005:Make Sarcasm no finish you there. Continue yarning opata |
Re: Family Regrets Selling House And Borrowing Money To Relocate Abroad,Now Stranded by TheUnsure: 6:09am On Aug 02, 2023 |
Tinyemeka: I guess relocating as a single-income household is not the best idea… |
Re: Family Regrets Selling House And Borrowing Money To Relocate Abroad,Now Stranded by Tinyemeka(m): 6:41am On Aug 02, 2023 |
TheUnsure: Definitely a very bad idea. There will always be jobs available for both parents. Jobs that can pay them each at least £1,800 - £2,300 per month after tax, without any working experience. After settling in, they can eventually expand contacts/network and search for better paying jobs. The biggest challenge is managing childcare, if there are kids that are still quite young. |
Re: Family Regrets Selling House And Borrowing Money To Relocate Abroad,Now Stranded by TheUnsure: 6:48am On Aug 02, 2023 |
Tinyemeka: A single mum in this case...Kids are 7 and 10. They are not so little but also not old enough you stay at home unattended... |
Re: Family Regrets Selling House And Borrowing Money To Relocate Abroad,Now Stranded by Tinyemeka(m): 6:58am On Aug 02, 2023 |
DesireFarms: My dear. Ignore those you can ignore. I still cannot comprehend trying to compare living in Nigeria with the UK. I'll give just one example: Yesterday I saw the video of the small plane that crashed on a busy road in Lagos and then another video of some non-uniformed young men, supposedly pulling out pieces of the plane from the ground, while a crowd was gathered around them filming the whole thing. Now tell me, if there should be an investigation to inspect the wreckage and find out reasons for the crash, how the heck will that be possible, when unknown elements have absolutely destroyed the evidence? There was absolutely no form of police presence or any security agency on ground to cordon off the area and preserve the wreckage. At the end of the day all I read from comments being posted were "chai, hope nobody died?". That right there is one of the evil mentality and systems in place that made me happy about leaving Nigeria. That complete lack of organisation, failed systems, corruption (I'm not saying that the UK is blameless), abuse of power, poverty and seeming helplessness by the people. It's just too much. |
Re: Family Regrets Selling House And Borrowing Money To Relocate Abroad,Now Stranded by Tinyemeka(m): 7:15am On Aug 02, 2023 |
TheUnsure: Would be quite difficult honestly. What would happen if mum needs to work night shifts? People here tend to mind their own business but they take childcare very seriously. If your neighbour happens to suspect that the kids are being left alone, don't be surprised when the neighbour reports the matter to the county council and then Welfare Services will just come and knock on the door one day. They take kids away from the parent if there is reason to suspect that there is insufficient support at home to take care of the kids. During the day, who will bring them back from school, take them home and feed them? Can you do all that within 1 hour of your break time? I'm sorry I don't want it to sound like I'm advising you, but if I were to chip in, I could suggest maybe having the kids stay with a grandparent or someone who can care for them for about 4 - 5 months, travel alone first, settle down, get the job and start earning, rent a house good enough for the kids and see what arrangements can be made for them when they arrive. It's much easier to raise N1m post-expense savings in the UK than in Nigeria. So you'll actually be in a better position to plan and take care of everyone while they are still in Nigeria, than if the whole squad landed at once. |
Re: Family Regrets Selling House And Borrowing Money To Relocate Abroad,Now Stranded by Tinyemeka(m): 7:18am On Aug 02, 2023 |
TheUnsure: Is it on a work or study visa if you don't mind me asking please? |
Re: Family Regrets Selling House And Borrowing Money To Relocate Abroad,Now Stranded by TheUnsure: 7:36am On Aug 02, 2023 |
Tinyemeka: Through work visa |
Re: Family Regrets Selling House And Borrowing Money To Relocate Abroad,Now Stranded by Tinyemeka(m): 8:31am On Aug 02, 2023 |
TheUnsure: Perfect. It might be a good idea to consider going first, settling down and finishing arrangements before bringing the kids on Work Visa - Dependent Child. P.S. It is much easier to live in the UK as couples than as single parents. |
Re: Family Regrets Selling House And Borrowing Money To Relocate Abroad,Now Stranded by yewit37486: 9:28am On Aug 02, 2023 |
Right005: It's your choice to continue to live at your current level of knowledge, or rather ignorance. Not my problem. |
Re: Family Regrets Selling House And Borrowing Money To Relocate Abroad,Now Stranded by Zahra29: 10:51am On Aug 02, 2023 |
Tinyemeka: While I agree with the majority of your comments, I would caution against statements like the bolded which can lead to unrealistic expectations. £2300 is approx £28,000 pa gross. A recent immigrant without experience or the requisite qualifications will struggle to obtain this level of pay, especially in the north where costs of living may be lower, but so also is the average wage. If they worked a lot of overtime shifts per week, it might be possible, but not as a starting basic salary. |
Re: Family Regrets Selling House And Borrowing Money To Relocate Abroad,Now Stranded by omonla10(m): 11:50am On Aug 02, 2023 |
hosemujica:Google amazon uk.. Nite duty.. 4days a week and 2extra days overtime.. Making 6 days work.. It's difficult, but we dey do am for naija with no issues |
Re: Family Regrets Selling House And Borrowing Money To Relocate Abroad,Now Stranded by Tinyemeka(m): 2:57pm On Aug 02, 2023 |
Zahra29: I apologize if my statement may have created such a situation. By zero experience, I meant HCA roles for which many homes recruit people with no experience on 48 hrs/week contract. Minimum wage is £10.42/hr or 26,000/annum based on that contract. And this is if the person didn't pick a single OT shift for the whole year. With OT, it's definitely in the 2,300 range and much more than that. 1 Like |
Re: Family Regrets Selling House And Borrowing Money To Relocate Abroad,Now Stranded by Vad123: 8:50pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
Love800:lol study route. Feel free to ask any question please |
Re: Family Regrets Selling House And Borrowing Money To Relocate Abroad,Now Stranded by Love800(m): 1:34am On Aug 04, 2023 |
But u work only for few hours. Or have they add more hours. I thouht as a student, ur working range is limited? Vad123: |
Re: Family Regrets Selling House And Borrowing Money To Relocate Abroad,Now Stranded by Vad123: 4:22am On Aug 04, 2023 |
Love800:I'm a dependent. My wife is the student |
Re: Family Regrets Selling House And Borrowing Money To Relocate Abroad,Now Stranded by Love800(m): 8:29am On Aug 06, 2023 |
How did ur wife gain admission into the sch? I ave been wanting to know how one can apply to study in a sch abroad Vad123: |
Re: Family Regrets Selling House And Borrowing Money To Relocate Abroad,Now Stranded by StudentsNG: 1:24pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
"Getting" and "Paying-off" ain't the same. The moment you get a mortgage, the house is yours. So it doesn't take 20yrs to get a house abroad, it takes as soon as you have a good job and credit required to qualify. armyofone: |
Re: Family Regrets Selling House And Borrowing Money To Relocate Abroad,Now Stranded by PARADIZEPRIEST: 6:07pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP.ALL THAT GLITTER ARE NOT GOLD. INVESTIGATE BEFORE YOU MOVE,DONT BE A YOUNG FOOOL. Once we correct the mistrust in nigeria everybody will enjoy. E.g If you collect loan to run business ,try and pay back as agreed,so that trust can grow If you are a student and collect loan to study,work hard to pay as you can If you agree to do a legit deal with someone secure your trust by not double crossing etc.Live sane life lets begin to trust ourselves for mutual benefits.Abroad is not for everybody,no dey follow ,follow. |
Re: Family Regrets Selling House And Borrowing Money To Relocate Abroad,Now Stranded by grandstar(m): 10:49am On Oct 04, 2023 |
This is what happens what you have an unrealistic view about life overseas. I am asked all the time: "O boy, why don't you travel? What are you still doing in Nigeria? If I were you, I would have japa'd tete" Before jetting out, really , really do your homework and not get there and start regretting |
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