It's not easy to be in a relationship, if you truly don't know why you want to be in it. If the relationship is helping you, the fact you want change, you can cause change, but if not you don't need to wait for a right time, because there was never a right time for y'all's relationship, don't live your life in fear or regrets, please.

kanny1:

the answer to every challenge and progress in any relationship lies btw the two involved. you only seek opinion/advice when u boost your confidence in the decision u want to tak. Does d relationship add value to your life? Is anyone being selfish and uncaring? are your families happy about it? can u confidently say he/she 's your partner? can u call her/him urs in the presence of pretty girls/guys around? is the relatnship endured or enjoyed?
Not how far bt how well. One good door closes another better or best door opens. my dear step out if need be.

now,i'm feeling this!

walk out before death walk you in!

slimyem:

oya now,prove it!

and open up old wounds?!i aint dat cruel darling

pkv:

and open up old wounds?!i aint dat cruel darling

if I was the 'topic' and the wounds(of either the concerned or myself) were old,there'd be no post here so you'd be opening up nothing if you just prove I'm d concerned.

Befor your Peace and Life is being threatened

No need to waste time procrastinating with words here. Once your securiity is threatened, just get out before it is too late. Be reasonable and stop being emotional. Emotions do not solve problems. Reasons change the world and not useless emotions.

When you feel you can stand what you have being enduring again.

amadioha will reveal it 2 u

Orikinla:

No need to waste time procrastinating with words here. Once your securiity is threatened, just get out before it is too late. Be reasonable and stop being emotional. Emotions do not solve problems. Reasons change the world and not useless emotions.

Talk is cheap; to do the talk is not that easy.
Though i agree with you that 'REASONS change the world but my dear 'EMOTIONS' contr

Orikinla:

No need to waste time procrastinating with words here. Once your securiity is threatened, just get out before it is too late. Be reasonable and stop being emotional. Emotions do not solve problems. Reasons change the world and not useless emotions.

Talk is cheap; to do the talk is not that easy.
Though i agree with you that 'REASONS' changes the world, but my dear, 'EMOTIONS' controls the world; if not well managed, reasonings may just become very FATAL.

Otunbakay:

That very point you come to the realisation and conviction that you dont have a future with the relationship.

27naira:

The moment you realize in your heart that your heart cannot take the heat any longer. Be the FIRST to call it quits. The first always have the lesser pain.

Afterall, its better to be the dumper and not the dumpee  

You would know in your heart when you should leave the realationship. The signs would be so glaring

When you know deep down the relationship won't work (am i talking to me self here or what? Yeah Amya, you gasta move on!)

Amya:
(am i talking to me self here or what? Yeah Amya, you gasta move on!)

no,you aint talking to yourself.someone's reading all of this and taking a life-changing decision.

Hmmmmm Decisions,decisions decisions !!! They are so difficult to make sometimes 

Decision! Decision! Decision! If you think where you are 2day cannot help you get to ur dream destination tomorrow, then it'll be better to close ur eyes today and face th temporary challenge and shame and enjoy tomorrow than refusing to make the decision 2day and live with regrets the rest of ur life. Relationship demands SINCERITY.

slimyem:

even when nothing's working?

we have resolved to make it work.

ping pong:

we have resolved to make it work.

I hope it does work

kanny1:

Decision! Decision! Decision! If you think where you are 2day cannot help you get to your dream destination  tomorrow, then  it'll be  better to close your eyes today and face th temporary challenge and shame and enjoy tomorrow than refusing to make the decision 2day and live with regrets the rest of your life. Relationship demands SINCERITY.

I hear you,I like your approach to things,Thanks again

from the signs, you will always knw wen to walk away. i was once in an emotionally abusive relationship with a man who i deeply cared for, although he never regarded me as highly as i placed him. the red flags became too much, i weighed it all out, i realized the bad sides were more than the good sides. and yep! i made that bold step to let it all go. trust me, when it is time to move ahead, you will know. always pray for the strength, zeal and direction to know what next to do and to take the appropriate actions

ebonyvibe: at the point you know if you marry this man with this behaviour cos he wont change I cant live with it.

if you can endure the behaviour in marriage ride on if not break it now. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage

gbam.... final answer dear

diva90: from the signs, you will always knw wen to walk away. i was once in an emotionally abusive relationship with a man who i deeply cared for, although he never regarded me as highly as i placed him. the red flags became too much, i weighed it all out, i realized the bad sides were more than the good sides. and yep! i made that bold step to let it all go. trust me, when it is time to move ahead, you will know. always pray for the strength, zeal and direction to know what next to do and to take the appropriate actions

yes dear, you are very right similar thing happened to me.i am very happy i decided to let it go and i feel very proud of my self.