Nayah:

Nothing wrong brother but sometimes you want to have your own friends, not obliges to "stick" your partner you know what I mean? of course I wish I could be your half easily talk with you but sometimes I think it's good to have your onw "social life"

Nayah:

Hello Da Doctor just read above what I said

noble_gas1:

I aint disputing the fact that you might wana have your own `SOCIAL LIFE` but at the same time, we all know what happens when two people of the opposite sex get used to each other for long, feelings come in and from there,YOU-KNOW-WHATS-GONA-HAPPEN!

I was just wondering, if you are in a relationship presently, Do you have a male as your best friend apart from your husband/boyfriend?

Da Doctor:

NOPE. ITS ONLY DA DOCTOR.

noble_gas1:

lol, i would rather prefer nayah to answer that!

blackmale:

@ NAYAH,,, you might be right about having your social friends,,, it always doesnt work out,, when it is a male /female thing, it eventually leads to temptation,, instead of that you can make your bf/husband everything you want.

Nayah:

@Noble gas my brother, when I'm in relationship the question is never asked, my fiance trust me and know my surroundings, I think it's about, trust, awarness and respect, I can't leave my male best frienf I know before I knew my fiance because we're together this guy is like my brother, and you would nver leave your brother do you??

Blackmale, you know everything is about strong mind and what you want in life, if you have clear ideas why don't you mind about having a female friend? when you think about the worst is when you're in condition to cheat inconsciently, well I don't

Kwanlo:

Y cant your husband be your "male bestfriend". Male bestfriend ko! I think as a husband, I can have a female bestfriend too. We can discuss stuff, go to the movies, share secrets, hold hands and do every other ridiculus activity we can think of while justifying myself that I cant do anything wrong as a married man. I guess its even more ridiculous as a house wife because u av more than enof bestfriends already in your husband and kids.

sexkillz:

I Repeat: Having a "male friend" & Having a Male BEST friend, are two different things. . .

I can accept the former, but the latter? HELL NO!. . . It's completely unacceptable, in ALL ramifications!

Nayah:

And the first one could take your friend away too, for me it depends on your WIFE not on the guy because a relationship is about 2 people, not one way love

Mr, Cork:

Sexxxxkillz, Bro shouldn’t you be worryin about your school homework instead of women palava?

http:

Why do you want to start what you can't finish? having a male or female best friend is another way of commiting adultry, your wife or husband should be your best friend. All this i can control myself, bla bla bla is all lies.

There is no man or woman on earth that can predict what he or she can do or capable of doing; God said do not move near fornication, let alone doing it. Tell me what is the discussion will be like with a Male or female best friend? that will not go into your personal life in your marriage. Infact, the reason for calling someone BEST FRIEND is you discussed personal matter with them, that all; so you want to discuss about your marrieage and other things with someone is not good enough to be your husband or wife.

Why can't you marry this so called Male or Female best friend when you were still single?

People just come with different excuse to commit furnication and destroy their marriage, relationship and life.

blackmale:

@ NAYAH, what is respect and understanding has to do with all these, everybody in this forum is against it, and couple of guys have given you reasonable fact towards this, you re still defending it logically,,,,, well it might be working for you though!