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Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by ify84(m): 2:52pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
But i have some good friends... Despite the fact that some also are bad. Op and many others are just unfortunate. Good fiends exist. 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by Pauliaette(m): 2:57pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
I was stabbed so many times because of friendship and carefree lifestyle. I don't trust anybody again, only greetings and pleasantries is what I'm holding at the moment. No friends worth dying for except Ur own is guinine. What baffled me is that these are the people u are sharing Ur problems with and they are the problems. |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by Denski13: 3:12pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Very Apt NOwazobia: 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by Jeezuzpick(m): 3:15pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
IconicR: Good for you! For some, it's their mothers that are the roadblock to a great future. |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by Zeezenho: 3:18pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Am 100% sure the guy come from brown roof republic fear our westside bro them. |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by dragunov: 4:00pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
brain54: It's even worse when you have them as neighbors. You can easily shake them off if you have such friends. But neighbors? It's another ball game. You will have at least 1 yr with them on your matter. But then your ego will not allow you to pack out after your rent lapses. However, if you have them as landlord, you won't have any choice than to terminate your lease. 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by MrAbufayed: 4:05pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
IconicR:No wahala,but that doesn't mean you should be posting rubbish on Nairaland 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by Nobody: 4:14pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
MrAbufayed:You obviously don't like truth that's why you have problems with my post |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by professore(m): 4:45pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
workchopNG:The wicked has no brain. |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by Kazim88: 4:55pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
RichTyler: True. Most people choke you with any help they give you. Infact, that guy that was choking your friend and OP have similar mentality. If you have any dealings with a friend, both good or bad. Both of you quarrel and separate or both you go drink beer and bond.... Lock up the matter. If you are my friend and you sabotage my progress, I go end the relationship.. I no go carry am for mind or talk your matter. My Point is, Anybody wey de quick to condemn someone that did him 1 bad thing or the other (or that he helped him etc) no be better person. 2 Likes |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by chukkystar(m): 5:00pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Happened to me too. I believe they have no purpose or goal whereas U have urs so their goal becomes to do better or equal to You. One even told me I shouldn't worry He will get money, like say na me stop am from getting the money |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by pongwa(m): 5:05pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
sleekybaba:my reply was directed to the OP not to you. If you can't read between the lines then I'm afraid you are bereft of understanding 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by pongwa(m): 5:08pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Ferrous:very easy to decode but sadly I'm being attacked for telling it as it is. I pray the OP learns and try to mend things with his benefactor 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by MrAbufayed: 5:08pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
IconicR:Which Truth? 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by luvyaself95(m): 5:59pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
workchopNG: Jaido P Song E get Reason come to my side 🤣 |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by olamilarks(m): 6:43pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
workchopNG:I used my girl's phone to call a friend several years back, after the call my friend called the girl back and asked to meet up. I asked the girl to play along, lo and behold my friend did show up to meet up with my girl, since then I just cut the bro off as a dangerous friend. Nowadays, I have plenty acquaintances but almost zero friends, I don't blame people for being themselves though, Nigeria is an hustler country and its made most of us overambitious and prone to betrayal. We approach everything with that scarcity mentality, from airplane boarding queues to hoarding of resources or pulling other people down. 2 Likes |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by Shebbs: 7:03pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
You Dine, Drink And Party Together But You Didn’t Talk About The Smashing Kpekus Part, Until You Do So I Have Nothing To Say. |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by anu3: 7:11pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Kazim88: workchopNG Hmmm... You see, the thing is natural to the flesh, and it takes God's grace to overcome. I won't recommend you get troubled until you experience such as one who helped the other. Working remotely, I experienced it first hand when one of the guys I shortlisted for the company began to gain more recognition and influence than me who connected him. Thanks to God I dealt with the bitter/jealous feelings that wanted to eat me up, and things continued well. But later the company had a compulsory night shift requirement which I couldn't bear. So I was thrown out through the window. The guy remained and I refused to be bothered by God's grace. But leaving really opened much better doors and experiences... Now like you OP, I was not very impressed with the attitude of this said guy during the period. He should know someone in my shoes must be fighting jealousy, envy and all, but his attitudes/words would still tempt you to be jealous. Well, still had to beat all that, thank God. A Nigerian has stolen a huge sum from the company now and I think it meant trouble. Now it's difficult for me to recommend any better place I am to him—not for the fear of achieving more, but trying to make me feel jealous in the process. And especially if he doesn't ask for help... Endurance is good, but if it's unnecessary then it might be foolishness... Now I could only help by referring him to a place I'm not working. So we need to check ourselves first... God bless. 2 Likes |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by EngGandalf: 8:32pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
Sonnobax15:U dey whine? 8 bannies and you couldn't get one to yourself.. Omo e hard to believe |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by Yusufisraelj(m): 8:52pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
IconicR: Bro don't lose hope, there are still good people. Let me give you a small gist, during NYSC a friend helped me secure a job paying 150K at that time, and he who recommended me was collecting 80K, because he understood the internal workings, he gave me a clue on how to get ahead. During NYSC I already had a job waiting. Mind you I was his direct deputy in office, relating our designs into real products on the Factory floor (plenty work then), and there was no bad blood whatsoever, as I speak to you this guy is in Dubai doing well, earning cool money because of the sector we're engaged in, married and has a child. I'm still single at the moment, what I'm I driving at? Be good to people, those who you thought you helped and were ahead were living the life God has for them, when he visits you in truth, you'll be humbled. Be a true person and learn how to attract and maintain true relationships, relationship is always mutually beneficial, avoided one sided nonsense. And don't be that kind of person too. 3 Likes |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by Cubeman: 4:05am On Aug 24, 2023 |
I am currently going through the same thing right now. Trust nobody |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by Hezmatosky: 4:56am On Aug 24, 2023 |
pongwa:Very right. OP why don't you quit the job as well as you're no longer in friendship with him? Because he gave you that opportunity to earn a living. Na pride and ego, stupidity and foolishness, ungratefulness and insecurity is just your problem. Better go and ask for forgiveness |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by Hezmatosky: 5:03am On Aug 24, 2023 |
olamilarks:Sorry for you. Don't try such next time with a woman. You fit catch babe because you be fine guy, another guy wey no fine reach you go use cash collect that same babe from you. No go there next time o, na woman you dey deal with. Their brain be like preek, no choice |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by damocool(m): 11:20am On Aug 24, 2023 |
Some friends are really dangerous, that was how I accommodated one during his masters at EKSU just because I felt it won't be easy for him coming from the next town for his classes but this guy ended up taking my singlet to an alfa house in far ibadan, even after lying to me that he was going to osogbo to help someone to get fingerlings. |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by LARRYOBRAIN(m): 12:04pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
He helped you, we need to hear his own part too. |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by ezybaba(m): 12:40pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
I don't believe in best friend again oooThe. person I call my best friend went to ask my female friend out there is no crime in that but he went to tag me a bad guy that I scatter all d relationship he enter na so the lady told him u friend I know is not like that na so the lady block him and forward the whatsapp conversation to me. As a good friend I challenge him and he said he can explain na so I block him and stay off him since 2015 or my so call Padi way go take my key and steal my pocket money for my hostel after so investigation he return the money but he said no be him steal am. |
Re: What's Your Experience With The Worst Friend You've Ever Had? by Juniorangel(m): 1:24pm On Aug 25, 2023 |
I used to have that kind of a friend then back in school very toxic guy, thank God I finally cut him off. |
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