The complaints of modern men in relationships never change: " I provided for her, made sure she didn't lack anything- MADE HER HAPPY, yet I caught her in bed with that nobody of a guy"


MAGNIFYING YOUR VIEWPOINT:

Now ask yourself this question: between the choice of a man with an adams oshiomole physical attributes but is hardworking, intelligent and understanding VS a man with Idris elba's physical attributes but is lazy, speaks unintelligibly and lacks understanding of anything even as simple as ABCs, who do you think the girl will settle for to oil her engines?

GIRLS MAKES RULES FOR GUYS THEY DON'T LIKE BUT BREAK RULES FOR GUYS THEY LIKE

where LIKE= sexually attracted and LOVE= financially attracted

if she's not sexually attracted to you from the very start, she'll have a long list of attributes she looks forward to you having AS A MEANS TO CONPENSATE FOR YOUR LACK OF GOOD LOOKS but whenever a girl is sexually attracted to you, all rules are thrown out the window - her list of what an ideal man should be basically unwrites itself

sexual Attraction cums first for any relationship...since men love sex and women are in control of sex, SEXUAL ATTRACTION CUMS FIRST FOR ANY SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP ON THE PART OF THE WOMAN ie not you being sexually attracted to her but her being sexually attracted to you cus if she doesn't like you, she won't open her legs without a list of demands for you to meet first

For ANY sexual relationship, sexual Attraction cums first, just the same way for ANY business relationship, trust must come first


Guys using money to get women for SHORT-TIME SEX are playing the game wrong. Guys using pickup lines for every girl they come across falls into this category also

Your pick-up lines and any attempt to "appear hip" will just be mental masturbation to a girl that doesn't like you...same way you shape her view of you by spending your hard earned money on her knowing fully well she doesn't like you -- a beta provider

For context, refer to ubunjas work: CHOSEN/GAME OF EMOTIONS and BENEE1000 work: "The costly mistake many men make when choosing a marriage partner"

Good luck!

True to an extent but u forgot that being physically appealing like in the case of the example u used in your post( idris Elba) won't make a girl give u p***y

I have seen a lady leave her handsome rich husband nd be sleeping with a not to good-looking poor gateman.

Women don't have a constant formula.

Sexual attraction comes first, but if there's lack of respect, love, and care, the woman might lose interest, yet still be sexually attracted to the guy.

That's why you'll find some women still having sexual feelings for their exes.

Dyfynezz12:
True to an extent but u forgot that being physically appealing like in the case of the example u used in your post( idris Elba) won't make a girl give u p***y

I have seen a lady leave her handsome rich husband nd be sleeping with a not to good-looking poor gateman.

Women don't have a constant formula.

This is very true.

Hie

Quite true nezz

Also true is women are attracted to beauty and it's just a matter of time before they succumb to its allure

We can't understand 100% of anything because nature doesn't deal in 100% absoluteness. There's always that .001% heterogeneous part and to improve the odds in our favor, we focus on the larger homogeneous

Because you bought a new car doesn't mean it's accident proof is it?

Dyfynezz12:
True to an extent but u forgot that being physically appealing like in the case of the example u used in your post( idris Elba) won't make a girl give u p***y

I have seen a lady leave her handsome rich husband nd be sleeping with a not to good-looking poor gateman.

Women don't have a constant formula.

Thumbs up for acknowledging truth Samantha

Samantha124:
This is very true.

While some guys are thinking of pick up lines to woo a girl another dude will get her by just acknowledging her green light by wrapping his hands around her waist.😉