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Why Have Good Men Turned Bad? (photos) by CaveAdullam: 10:07am On Nov 19, 2023
Acts of benevolence received should be seen as a divine orchestration that must be cherished.

Even in business deals gratitude is expected not to talk of what is being received on a platter of gold with little or no work from your end.

Benevolence is a privilege, not a right. Being entitled to constant inflow or being infuriated due to inconsistent supply reeks not only of a foul entitlement mentality but arrogance and the height of foolishness.

Nobody owes anybody anything. Though charity is vital. Assistance toward one another causes growth and progress. Humans depend on one another to make ends meet. Nothing happens in isolation or when the chain is broken.

Even in the height of so-called "self-independence or self-dependency" there's still a need for concatenation to reach the apogee.

However, in the game of life, individualism comes first as each person is concerned about their survival. Hence, will play the game that best suits them and ensure their survival.

The nature of the game may be moral, amoral, immoral, or a potpourri of each.
The moral game leads to benevolence; from its superfluous those at the lower end benefit.

An amoral game skews towards a positive-sum as benefits flow on both ends or result in minimal harm - as in business deals.

The immoral game is negative-sum - this is the case when the game of survival is rough and tough and everything and anything must be done by the individual to survive even though it means trampling on others.

So when someone goes out to show benevolence it shouldn't be seen as a compulsory act he must consistently perform. However, the earth needs consistency in benevolence for sustainable living.

You must know that your survival is solely dependent on you and the type of game you're willing and ready to play.

Different factors lead to success or failure. However, certain verisimilitudes assure success and failures which must be considered to ensure success for survival or avoid failures that cause despondency.

When someone shows you love be grateful. Gratitude matter. Because the universe has a mind of its own, and what you've just received is by orchestration, an opportunity that may be the last of its kind.

Appreciate good people and their performance.


Re: Why Have Good Men Turned Bad? (photos) by Acekidc4(m): 10:09am On Nov 19, 2023
Because they have been taken for granted too much for too Long!! Then they stop caring!!

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Re: Why Have Good Men Turned Bad? (photos) by immortalcrown(m): 10:11am On Nov 19, 2023
Those who sa, "Nobody owes anybody anything" are fooling themselves.

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