Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Opanka44(m): 11:49am On Sep 03, 2023 |
RIP |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Danfel: 11:51am On Sep 03, 2023 |
What if is the other way round in some home, not all men are bad |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by sniperr007(m): 11:51am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Interesting but be like the only man you focus on. Women nko? 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Creamypie(m): 11:51am On Sep 03, 2023 |
LoveUdie:
Pastor Bisi Adewale
Lots of Men are making mistakes in their Marriages, this is making life difficult for their wives and Children. We need to examine this and tutor all Men to behave better.
Here, I will be exposing 8 Mistakes of Many Men in Marriage:
1) SLAVE-WIFE MENTALITY: It’s not funny to know that lots of Men see women as slave, servants or something close to that. They believe women are good for nothing but sex, baby making, house chores and cooking. They operate with that kind of mentality with their wives. Many believe a wife should only be seen not heard, it’s really funny the way some men treats heir wives.
2) PUTTING FAMILY OVER WIVES: Lots of African Men are fond of this, they put their extended family first, they even make their wives to slave for their extended family members. Some beat or even divorce their wives because of their siblings. This is totally wrong. It’s madness to allow your family Members who are in their own Marriage to destroy yours, it’s high level of foolishness to allow your siblings to take over your marriage.
3) SPERM DONOR MENTALITY: Lots of men are more-or-less sperm donors in their marriages, apart from getting tingling their wives pregnant they have no other roles in Child bearing and rearing. Whenever babies cries, It’s very common to hear Nigerian men saying, come and carry your baby, don’t you hear your baby is crying?,most of the time only women attends Children parties in School,only mothers attend PTA meetings and many other events in School, Men thinks they are too busy to do that what a mistake?
4) CLASS TEACHER ATTITUDE: Lots of Men believes their wives have nothing to offer, they believe they are wiser, stronger and better than their wives. So they develop Class teacher mentality, whereby they are only ready to teach, lecture and tutor their wives. To them their wives should not advise them. This is very wrong, God planted your wife into your life to complete you, if you don’t listen to her you are missing a lot.
5) LIVE AND EAT ATTITUDE: This is another bad attitude of many men. They believe their duty at home is to eat, watch Television and sleep. Anything in the management of the house does not concern them. They believe only women should cook, boil, clean the house watch the plates, fetch water bath the Children and dress them up, this is another very funny lifestyle of many men, they should please note that this is 21st century and improve.
6) WIFE BATTERING: In some part of Nigeria wife battering is seen as a norm, so many men are in this habit, some women where maim or even killed in the process. I wonder what kind of Man will beat a woman he promised to love, care and cherished if not an animal-like man, wife battering is barbaric and should be condemned by all.
7) MEN-SEX MENTALITY: Lots of men also believe sex is for men, women should not enjoy it, so they approach their wives with horse rider mindset, they have no plan to make their wives enjoy sex but to do their thing, enjoy themselves and go their way, this is very unwise and unkind to women.
CAT MOUSE SEX ATTITUDE: With Men-sex mentality most Men develop what is known as Cat-Mouse attitude towards sex. They grab their Wives the way Cat does grab mouse and begin to sleep with them, no romance, no pre-intimacy, no good or kind words, no mind for the ladies they are sleeping with, it is very unfair.
Men should wake up to the reality of modern life and improve their relational ability at home, loving and be loving and caring thereby becoming better husbands and fathers.
You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name wetin u drink this morning? |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by folks4luv(f): 11:52am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Paramount01:
Not 100% correct Which part will you like to correct? |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by 7arrows: 11:52am On Sep 03, 2023 |
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Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Midehi3(f): 11:53am On Sep 03, 2023 |
N0 4 is very common |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Jozilinn: 11:54am On Sep 03, 2023 |
The first article I have ever read that covers all, thank you for this. |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Creamypie(m): 11:54am On Sep 03, 2023 |
sniperr007: Interesting but be like the only man you focus on. Women nko? many or most women become gods both when they birth a boy and when they give birth at all. They invite their mum to rule the house. Her mum becomes their husband, dictating for em. She begins to emphasize why the man should stay away from his primary family and why her only own family should come to visit/stay and decide with them 1 Like |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by stormborn28(m): 11:55am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth: Nice. Wetin nice there. Most women no dey talk if dey enjoy sex so how d man go come take adjust 1 Like |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by zicoraads: 11:56am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Give her HAM.
HAM means Head, Attention, Money.
You can do it in whatever order; that's your business. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Mosba: 11:57am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Despite men have to be real stupid to keep marriage alive una still managed to write all these against men? The writer must be a lady or single not to know how hard and how much men have to endure to live with women. Woman that sometimes you wonder if you are of the same specie when they start horrific behavior. 4 Likes |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by imam07: 11:59am On Sep 03, 2023 |
LoveUdie:
Pastor Bisi Adewale
Lots of Men are making mistakes in their Marriages, this is making life difficult for their wives and Children. We need to examine this and tutor all Men to behave better.
Here, I will be exposing 8 Mistakes of Many Men in Marriage:
1) SLAVE-WIFE MENTALITY: It’s not funny to know that lots of Men see women as slave, servants or something close to that. They believe women are good for nothing but sex, baby making, house chores and cooking. They operate with that kind of mentality with their wives. Many believe a wife should only be seen not heard, it’s really funny the way some men treats heir wives.
2) PUTTING FAMILY OVER WIVES: Lots of African Men are fond of this, they put their extended family first, they even make their wives to slave for their extended family members. Some beat or even divorce their wives because of their siblings. This is totally wrong. It’s madness to allow your family Members who are in their own Marriage to destroy yours, it’s high level of foolishness to allow your siblings to take over your marriage.
3) SPERM DONOR MENTALITY: Lots of men are more-or-less sperm donors in their marriages, apart from getting tingling their wives pregnant they have no other roles in Child bearing and rearing. Whenever babies cries, It’s very common to hear Nigerian men saying, come and carry your baby, don’t you hear your baby is crying?,most of the time only women attends Children parties in School,only mothers attend PTA meetings and many other events in School, Men thinks they are too busy to do that what a mistake?
4) CLASS TEACHER ATTITUDE: Lots of Men believes their wives have nothing to offer, they believe they are wiser, stronger and better than their wives. So they develop Class teacher mentality, whereby they are only ready to teach, lecture and tutor their wives. To them their wives should not advise them. This is very wrong, God planted your wife into your life to complete you, if you don’t listen to her you are missing a lot.
5) LIVE AND EAT ATTITUDE: This is another bad attitude of many men. They believe their duty at home is to eat, watch Television and sleep. Anything in the management of the house does not concern them. They believe only women should cook, boil, clean the house watch the plates, fetch water bath the Children and dress them up, this is another very funny lifestyle of many men, they should please note that this is 21st century and improve.
6) WIFE BATTERING: In some part of Nigeria wife battering is seen as a norm, so many men are in this habit, some women where maim or even killed in the process. I wonder what kind of Man will beat a woman he promised to love, care and cherished if not an animal-like man, wife battering is barbaric and should be condemned by all.
7) MEN-SEX MENTALITY: Lots of men also believe sex is for men, women should not enjoy it, so they approach their wives with horse rider mindset, they have no plan to make their wives enjoy sex but to do their thing, enjoy themselves and go their way, this is very unwise and unkind to women.
CAT MOUSE SEX ATTITUDE: With Men-sex mentality most Men develop what is known as Cat-Mouse attitude towards sex. They grab their Wives the way Cat does grab mouse and begin to sleep with them, no romance, no pre-intimacy, no good or kind words, no mind for the ladies they are sleeping with, it is very unfair.
Men should wake up to the reality of modern life and improve their relational ability at home, loving and be loving and caring thereby becoming better husbands and fathers.
You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name Men who avoid all these still face problem from their bad wife 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by samwillyco1(m): 12:07pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Still reading |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Pray(m): 12:11pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Number 5 catch me sha... But na work dey cause am. I leave home very early, get back late. Rest weekends. Na Lagos I dey sha. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by rickleye: 12:11pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
LoveUdie:
Pastor Bisi Adewale
Lots of Men are making mistakes in their Marriages, this is making life difficult for their wives and Children. We need to examine this and tutor all Men to behave better.
Here, I will be exposing 8 Mistakes of Many Men in Marriage:
1) SLAVE-WIFE MENTALITY: It’s not funny to know that lots of Men see women as slave, servants or something close to that. They believe women are good for nothing but sex, baby making, house chores and cooking. They operate with that kind of mentality with their wives. Many believe a wife should only be seen not heard, it’s really funny the way some men treats heir wives.
2) PUTTING FAMILY OVER WIVES: Lots of African Men are fond of this, they put their extended family first, they even make their wives to slave for their extended family members. Some beat or even divorce their wives because of their siblings. This is totally wrong. It’s madness to allow your family Members who are in their own Marriage to destroy yours, it’s high level of foolishness to allow your siblings to take over your marriage.
3) SPERM DONOR MENTALITY: Lots of men are more-or-less sperm donors in their marriages, apart from getting tingling their wives pregnant they have no other roles in Child bearing and rearing. Whenever babies cries, It’s very common to hear Nigerian men saying, come and carry your baby, don’t you hear your baby is crying?,most of the time only women attends Children parties in School,only mothers attend PTA meetings and many other events in School, Men thinks they are too busy to do that what a mistake?
4) CLASS TEACHER ATTITUDE: Lots of Men believes their wives have nothing to offer, they believe they are wiser, stronger and better than their wives. So they develop Class teacher mentality, whereby they are only ready to teach, lecture and tutor their wives. To them their wives should not advise them. This is very wrong, God planted your wife into your life to complete you, if you don’t listen to her you are missing a lot.
5) LIVE AND EAT ATTITUDE: This is another bad attitude of many men. They believe their duty at home is to eat, watch Television and sleep. Anything in the management of the house does not concern them. They believe only women should cook, boil, clean the house watch the plates, fetch water bath the Children and dress them up, this is another very funny lifestyle of many men, they should please note that this is 21st century and improve.
6) WIFE BATTERING: In some part of Nigeria wife battering is seen as a norm, so many men are in this habit, some women where maim or even killed in the process. I wonder what kind of Man will beat a woman he promised to love, care and cherished if not an animal-like man, wife battering is barbaric and should be condemned by all.
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You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name Nice but I don’t think I read anywhere about communication and finances. Do not marry a woman who does not want to work either business or employed . If you are not at listening and communication- it’s like babel . Confusion and frustration will reign supreme. |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by CodeTemplar: 12:12pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
LoveUdie:
Pastor Bisi Adewale
Lots of Men are making mistakes in their Marriages, this is making life difficult for their wives and Children. We need to examine this and tutor all Men to behave better.
Here, I will be exposing 8 Mistakes of Many Men in Marriage:
1) SLAVE-WIFE MENTALITY: It’s not funny to know that lots of Men see women as slave, servants or something close to that. They believe women are good for nothing but sex, baby making, house chores and cooking. They operate with that kind of mentality with their wives. Many believe a wife should only be seen not heard, it’s really funny the way some men treats heir wives.
2) PUTTING FAMILY OVER WIVES: Lots of African Men are fond of this, they put their extended family first, they even make their wives to slave for their extended family members. Some beat or even divorce their wives because of their siblings. This is totally wrong. It’s madness to allow your family Members who are in their own Marriage to destroy yours, it’s high level of foolishness to allow your siblings to take over your marriage.
3) SPERM DONOR MENTALITY: Lots of men are more-or-less sperm donors in their marriages, apart from getting tingling their wives pregnant they have no other roles in Child bearing and rearing. Whenever babies cries, It’s very common to hear Nigerian men saying, come and carry your baby, don’t you hear your baby is crying?,most of the time only women attends Children parties in School,only mothers attend PTA meetings and many other events in School, Men thinks they are too busy to do that what a mistake?
4) CLASS TEACHER ATTITUDE: Lots of Men believes their wives have nothing to offer, they believe they are wiser, stronger and better than their wives. So they develop Class teacher mentality, whereby they are only ready to teach, lecture and tutor their wives. To them their wives should not advise them. This is very wrong, God planted your wife into your life to complete you, if you don’t listen to her you are missing a lot.
5) LIVE AND EAT ATTITUDE: This is another bad attitude of many men. They believe their duty at home is to eat, watch Television and sleep. Anything in the management of the house does not concern them. They believe only women should cook, boil, clean the house watch the plates, fetch water bath the Children and dress them up, this is another very funny lifestyle of many men, they should please note that this is 21st century and improve.
6) WIFE BATTERING: In some part of Nigeria wife battering is seen as a norm, so many men are in this habit, some women where maim or even killed in the process. I wonder what kind of Man will beat a woman he promised to love, care and cherished if not an animal-like man, wife battering is barbaric and should be condemned by all.
7) MEN-SEX MENTALITY: Lots of men also believe sex is for men, women should not enjoy it, so they approach their wives with horse rider mindset, they have no plan to make their wives enjoy sex but to do their thing, enjoy themselves and go their way, this is very unwise and unkind to women.
CAT MOUSE SEX ATTITUDE: With Men-sex mentality most Men develop what is known as Cat-Mouse attitude towards sex. They grab their Wives the way Cat does grab mouse and begin to sleep with them, no romance, no pre-intimacy, no good or kind words, no mind for the ladies they are sleeping with, it is very unfair.
Men should wake up to the reality of modern life and improve their relational ability at home, loving and be loving and caring thereby becoming better husbands and fathers.
You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name The author wrote trash! Marriage was invented by God and He has a manual for it. You made no rerefence to the manual of marriage. That's like a wheelbarrow owner trying to advise a Mercedes Benz owner without reference to Mercedes Benz design or manual. Foolish at best. 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by nairalee(m): 12:18pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
What's the difference between 7 and 8 or u just want to make the list long
Infact most points are similar
Just say men should be more caring to thier wives 1 Like |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Lumig: 12:21pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
LoveUdie:
Pastor Bisi Adewale
Lots of Men are making mistakes in their Marriages, this is making life difficult for their wives and Children. We need to examine this and tutor all Men to behave better.
Here, I will be exposing 8 Mistakes of Many Men in Marriage:
1) SLAVE-WIFE MENTALITY: It’s not funny to know that lots of Men see women as slave, servants or something close to that. They believe women are good for nothing but sex, baby making, house chores and cooking. They operate with that kind of mentality with their wives. Many believe a wife should only be seen not heard, it’s really funny the way some men treats heir wives.
2) PUTTING FAMILY OVER WIVES: Lots of African Men are fond of this, they put their extended family first, they even make their wives to slave for their extended family members. Some beat or even divorce their wives because of their siblings. This is totally wrong. It’s madness to allow your family Members who are in their own Marriage to destroy yours, it’s high level of foolishness to allow your siblings to take over your marriage.
3) SPERM DONOR MENTALITY: Lots of men are more-or-less sperm donors in their marriages, apart from getting tingling their wives pregnant they have no other roles in Child bearing and rearing. Whenever babies cries, It’s very common to hear Nigerian men saying, come and carry your baby, don’t you hear your baby is crying?,most of the time only women attends Children parties in School,only mothers attend PTA meetings and many other events in School, Men thinks they are too busy to do that what a mistake?
4) CLASS TEACHER ATTITUDE: Lots of Men believes their wives have nothing to offer, they believe they are wiser, stronger and better than their wives. So they develop Class teacher mentality, whereby they are only ready to teach, lecture and tutor their wives. To them their wives should not advise them. This is very wrong, God planted your wife into your life to complete you, if you don’t listen to her you are missing a lot.
5) LIVE AND EAT ATTITUDE: This is another bad attitude of many men. They believe their duty at home is to eat, watch Television and sleep. Anything in the management of the house does not concern them. They believe only women should cook, boil, clean the house watch the plates, fetch water bath the Children and dress them up, this is another very funny lifestyle of many men, they should please note that this is 21st century and improve.
6) WIFE BATTERING: In some part of Nigeria wife battering is seen as a norm, so many men are in this habit, some women where maim or even killed in the process. I wonder what kind of Man will beat a woman he promised to love, care and cherished if not an animal-like man, wife battering is barbaric and should be condemned by all.
7) MEN-SEX MENTALITY: Lots of men also believe sex is for men, women should not enjoy it, so they approach their wives with horse rider mindset, they have no plan to make their wives enjoy sex but to do their thing, enjoy themselves and go their way, this is very unwise and unkind to women.
CAT MOUSE SEX ATTITUDE: With Men-sex mentality most Men develop what is known as Cat-Mouse attitude towards sex. They grab their Wives the way Cat does grab mouse and begin to sleep with them, no romance, no pre-intimacy, no good or kind words, no mind for the ladies they are sleeping with, it is very unfair.
Men should wake up to the reality of modern life and improve their relational ability at home, loving and be loving and caring thereby becoming better husbands and fathers.
You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name It's this kind of sermon that creates a "I am perfect" mindsets in the minds of our ladies, whereas the ladies are mostly the architects of troubles in the marriages. This sermon is one-sided and very dangerous to healthy relationships and marriages. IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Sirtee19: 12:26pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Marriage is good and sweet if you get it right, but if not, hell experience on earth is inevitable. In all, there's divine standards for this, the violation of which make it regrettable. No marriage Counsellor, seminar or advice prepares you for the reality of marriage until you are in it. Marriage is like Nigerian movie, the title is entirely different from the story. The actors are creating and acting their own lines far from the script. The director is just shouting action and things just dey happen. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Eriokanmi: 12:32pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
saintopus: A sage once said if you want to last in your marriage, and relationships. Then you have to be a bit stewpid When they say , you must be a gentle man to the core to last in marriage,many don't seem to understand. This includes being stupiid. You've got to say sorry countless times even when you know she's wrong. She'd end up saying sorry back . Women are so simple to deal with. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by fykes(m): 12:34pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
But since I dey grab am like cat...Na day one she come like pass... There's something predatory about spontaneous sex and most women love it 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Rammycares(f): 12:37pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
May God bless the OP, worst of it are those men who can't stand the opinion of their wife, or start competing with their wife when they should be working hand in hand in order to grow together. 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Chetas81(m): 12:40pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
BAD MARRIAGE START FROM EARLY 80S |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Fuckyoumod: 12:42pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
LoveUdie:
Pastor Bisi Adewale
Lots of Men are making mistakes in their Marriages, this is making life difficult for their wives and Children. We need to examine this and tutor all Men to behave better.
Here, I will be exposing 8 Mistakes of Many Men in Marriage:
1) SLAVE-WIFE MENTALITY: It’s not funny to know that lots of Men see women as slave, servants or something close to that. They believe women are good for nothing but sex, baby making, house chores and cooking. They operate with that kind of mentality with their wives. Many believe a wife should only be seen not heard, it’s really funny the way some men treats heir wives.
2) PUTTING FAMILY OVER WIVES: Lots of African Men are fond of this, they put their extended family first, they even make their wives to slave for their extended family members. Some beat or even divorce their wives because of their siblings. This is totally wrong. It’s madness to allow your family Members who are in their own Marriage to destroy yours, it’s high level of foolishness to allow your siblings to take over your marriage.
3) SPERM DONOR MENTALITY: Lots of men are more-or-less sperm donors in their marriages, apart from getting tingling their wives pregnant they have no other roles in Child bearing and rearing. Whenever babies cries, It’s very common to hear Nigerian men saying, come and carry your baby, don’t you hear your baby is crying?,most of the time only women attends Children parties in School,only mothers attend PTA meetings and many other events in School, Men thinks they are too busy to do that what a mistake?
4) CLASS TEACHER ATTITUDE: Lots of Men believes their wives have nothing to offer, they believe they are wiser, stronger and better than their wives. So they develop Class teacher mentality, whereby they are only ready to teach, lecture and tutor their wives. To them their wives should not advise them. This is very wrong, God planted your wife into your life to complete you, if you don’t listen to her you are missing a lot.
5) LIVE AND EAT ATTITUDE: This is another bad attitude of many men. They believe their duty at home is to eat, watch Television and sleep. Anything in the management of the house does not concern them. They believe only women should cook, boil, clean the house watch the plates, fetch water bath the Children and dress them up, this is another very funny lifestyle of many men, they should please note that this is 21st century and improve.
6) WIFE BATTERING: In some part of Nigeria wife battering is seen as a norm, so many men are in this habit, some women where maim or even killed in the process. I wonder what kind of Man will beat a woman he promised to love, care and cherished if not an animal-like man, wife battering is barbaric and should be condemned by all.
7) MEN-SEX MENTALITY: Lots of men also believe sex is for men, women should not enjoy it, so they approach their wives with horse rider mindset, they have no plan to make their wives enjoy sex but to do their thing, enjoy themselves and go their way, this is very unwise and unkind to women.
CAT MOUSE SEX ATTITUDE: With Men-sex mentality most Men develop what is known as Cat-Mouse attitude towards sex. They grab their Wives the way Cat does grab mouse and begin to sleep with them, no romance, no pre-intimacy, no good or kind words, no mind for the ladies they are sleeping with, it is very unfair.
Men should wake up to the reality of modern life and improve their relational ability at home, loving and be loving and caring thereby becoming better husbands and fathers.
You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name this is trash.... Wives submit to your husbands at all times for he is the head of the home. this is the foundation and principle guiding every marriage. However, if you think you can't submit to a man or see him as the head, just remain for your papa house. There is no two ways about it... Ask our mothers how they were able to stay in marriage for 40 years. They did not achieve this feat with this wack write up about men. Now see this trash... 5) LIVE AND EAT ATTITUDE: This is another bad attitude of many men. They believe their duty at home is to eat, watch Television and sleep. Anything in the management of the house does not concern them. They believe only women should cook, boil, clean the house watch the plates, fetch water bath the Children and dress them up, this is another very funny lifestyle of many men, they should please note that this is 21st century [/b]and improve.
Any woman that turns her husband to a dish washer is not supposed to be married.
Our fathers were never dish washers, don't let any lazy woman turn you to dish washer.
This "[b]This is 21st century" this sad statement is the reason women can't stay married anymore. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Abagworo(m): 12:48pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Everything written up there are just suggestions . Obeying them won't save your marriage.The only thing that elongates marriage is mutual tolerance and forgiveness when one partner errs. |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by professore(m): 12:53pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
LoveUdie:
Pastor Bisi Adewale
Lots of Men are making mistakes in their Marriages, this is making life difficult for their wives and Children. We need to examine this and tutor all Men to behave better.
Here, I will be exposing 8 Mistakes of Many Men in Marriage:
1) SLAVE-WIFE MENTALITY: It’s not funny to know that lots of Men see women as slave, servants or something close to that. They believe women are good for nothing but sex, baby making, house chores and cooking. They operate with that kind of mentality with their wives. Many believe a wife should only be seen not heard, it’s really funny the way some men treats heir wives.
2) PUTTING FAMILY OVER WIVES: Lots of African Men are fond of this, they put their extended family first, they even make their wives to slave for their extended family members. Some beat or even divorce their wives because of their siblings. This is totally wrong. It’s madness to allow your family Members who are in their own Marriage to destroy yours, it’s high level of foolishness to allow your siblings to take over your marriage.
3) SPERM DONOR MENTALITY: Lots of men are more-or-less sperm donors in their marriages, apart from getting tingling their wives pregnant they have no other roles in Child bearing and rearing. Whenever babies cries, It’s very common to hear Nigerian men saying, come and carry your baby, don’t you hear your baby is crying?,most of the time only women attends Children parties in School,only mothers attend PTA meetings and many other events in School, Men thinks they are too busy to do that what a mistake?
4) CLASS TEACHER ATTITUDE: Lots of Men believes their wives have nothing to offer, they believe they are wiser, stronger and better than their wives. So they develop Class teacher mentality, whereby they are only ready to teach, lecture and tutor their wives. To them their wives should not advise them. This is very wrong, God planted your wife into your life to complete you, if you don’t listen to her you are missing a lot.
5) LIVE AND EAT ATTITUDE: This is another bad attitude of many men. They believe their duty at home is to eat, watch Television and sleep. Anything in the management of the house does not concern them. They believe only women should cook, boil, clean the house watch the plates, fetch water bath the Children and dress them up, this is another very funny lifestyle of many men, they should please note that this is 21st century and improve.
6) WIFE BATTERING: In some part of Nigeria wife battering is seen as a norm, so many men are in this habit, some women where maim or even killed in the process. I wonder what kind of Man will beat a woman he promised to love, care and cherished if not an animal-like man, wife battering is barbaric and should be condemned by all.
7) MEN-SEX MENTALITY: Lots of men also believe sex is for men, women should not enjoy it, so they approach their wives with horse rider mindset, they have no plan to make their wives enjoy sex but to do their thing, enjoy themselves and go their way, this is very unwise and unkind to women.
CAT MOUSE SEX ATTITUDE: With Men-sex mentality most Men develop what is known as Cat-Mouse attitude towards sex. They grab their Wives the way Cat does grab mouse and begin to sleep with them, no romance, no pre-intimacy, no good or kind words, no mind for the ladies they are sleeping with, it is very unfair.
Men should wake up to the reality of modern life and improve their relational ability at home, loving and be loving and caring thereby becoming better husbands and fathers.
You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name nice |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Omoawoke2(m): 12:53pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Calling a man a sperm donor shows your lack of respect for men. Useless post 2 Likes |
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Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by thomasjoe(m): 1:06pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
LoveUdie:
Pastor Bisi Adewale
Lots of Men are making mistakes in their Marriages, this is making life difficult for their wives and Children. We need to examine this and tutor all Men to behave better.
Here, I will be exposing 8 Mistakes of Many Men in Marriage:
1) SLAVE-WIFE MENTALITY: It’s not funny to know that lots of Men see women as slave, servants or something close to that. They believe women are good for nothing but sex, baby making, house chores and cooking. They operate with that kind of mentality with their wives. Many believe a wife should only be seen not heard, it’s really funny the way some men treats heir wives.
2) PUTTING FAMILY OVER WIVES: Lots of African Men are fond of this, they put their extended family first, they even make their wives to slave for their extended family members. Some beat or even divorce their wives because of their siblings. This is totally wrong. It’s madness to allow your family Members who are in their own Marriage to destroy yours, it’s high level of foolishness to allow your siblings to take over your marriage.
3) SPERM DONOR MENTALITY: Lots of men are more-or-less sperm donors in their marriages, apart from getting tingling their wives pregnant they have no other roles in Child bearing and rearing. Whenever babies cries, It’s very common to hear Nigerian men saying, come and carry your baby, don’t you hear your baby is crying?,most of the time only women attends Children parties in School,only mothers attend PTA meetings and many other events in School, Men thinks they are too busy to do that what a mistake?
4) CLASS TEACHER ATTITUDE: Lots of Men believes their wives have nothing to offer, they believe they are wiser, stronger and better than their wives. So they develop Class teacher mentality, whereby they are only ready to teach, lecture and tutor their wives. To them their wives should not advise them. This is very wrong, God planted your wife into your life to complete you, if you don’t listen to her you are missing a lot.
5) LIVE AND EAT ATTITUDE: This is another bad attitude of many men. They believe their duty at home is to eat, watch Television and sleep. Anything in the management of the house does not concern them. They believe only women should cook, boil, clean the house watch the plates, fetch water bath the Children and dress them up, this is another very funny lifestyle of many men, they should please note that this is 21st century and improve.
6) WIFE BATTERING: In some part of Nigeria wife battering is seen as a norm, so many men are in this habit, some women where maim or even killed in the process. I wonder what kind of Man will beat a woman he promised to love, care and cherished if not an animal-like man, wife battering is barbaric and should be condemned by all.
7) MEN-SEX MENTALITY: Lots of men also believe sex is for men, women should not enjoy it, so they approach their wives with horse rider mindset, they have no plan to make their wives enjoy sex but to do their thing, enjoy themselves and go their way, this is very unwise and unkind to women.
CAT MOUSE SEX ATTITUDE: With Men-sex mentality most Men develop what is known as Cat-Mouse attitude towards sex. They grab their Wives the way Cat does grab mouse and begin to sleep with them, no romance, no pre-intimacy, no good or kind words, no mind for the ladies they are sleeping with, it is very unfair.
Men should wake up to the reality of modern life and improve their relational ability at home, loving and be loving and caring thereby becoming better husbands and fathers.
You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name May God grant you healing... Amen 🙏 |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Babastrong(m): 1:15pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
[quote author=Nehyooh post=125538473]Woooow! A big lesson for me to learn from as an aspiring husband by the grace of God. AMEN![you will be happy if you can follow my grandma advice. she would say "Ema yan eko nibi ti agbon ga" ( don't buy cold palp where the basket is too high) ] 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Edusouls(m): 1:20pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
purples25: Many men are power drunk. nooo it’s power given to us from above, God’s first born creation, so we and una no be mate at all make that enter ur head 1 Like |