8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by LoveUdie: 10:51am On Sep 02, 2023 |
Pastor Bisi Adewale Lots of Men are making mistakes in their Marriages, this is making life difficult for their wives and Children. We need to examine this and tutor all Men to behave better. Here, I will be exposing 8 Mistakes of Many Men in Marriage: 1) SLAVE-WIFE MENTALITY: It’s not funny to know that lots of Men see women as slave, servants or something close to that. They believe women are good for nothing but sex, baby making, house chores and cooking. They operate with that kind of mentality with their wives. Many believe a wife should only be seen not heard, it’s really funny the way some men treats heir wives. 2) PUTTING FAMILY OVER WIVES: Lots of African Men are fond of this, they put their extended family first, they even make their wives to slave for their extended family members. Some beat or even divorce their wives because of their siblings. This is totally wrong. It’s madness to allow your family Members who are in their own Marriage to destroy yours, it’s high level of foolishness to allow your siblings to take over your marriage. 3) SPERM DONOR MENTALITY: Lots of men are more-or-less sperm donors in their marriages, apart from getting tingling their wives pregnant they have no other roles in Child bearing and rearing. Whenever babies cries, It’s very common to hear Nigerian men saying, come and carry your baby, don’t you hear your baby is crying?,most of the time only women attends Children parties in School,only mothers attend PTA meetings and many other events in School, Men thinks they are too busy to do that what a mistake? 4) CLASS TEACHER ATTITUDE: Lots of Men believes their wives have nothing to offer, they believe they are wiser, stronger and better than their wives. So they develop Class teacher mentality, whereby they are only ready to teach, lecture and tutor their wives. To them their wives should not advise them. This is very wrong, God planted your wife into your life to complete you, if you don’t listen to her you are missing a lot. 5) LIVE AND EAT ATTITUDE: This is another bad attitude of many men. They believe their duty at home is to eat, watch Television and sleep. Anything in the management of the house does not concern them. They believe only women should cook, boil, clean the house watch the plates, fetch water bath the Children and dress them up, this is another very funny lifestyle of many men, they should please note that this is 21st century and improve. 6) WIFE BATTERING: In some part of Nigeria wife battering is seen as a norm, so many men are in this habit, some women where maim or even killed in the process. I wonder what kind of Man will beat a woman he promised to love, care and cherished if not an animal-like man, wife battering is barbaric and should be condemned by all. 7) MEN-SEX MENTALITY: Lots of men also believe sex is for men, women should not enjoy it, so they approach their wives with horse rider mindset, they have no plan to make their wives enjoy sex but to do their thing, enjoy themselves and go their way, this is very unwise and unkind to women. CAT MOUSE SEX ATTITUDE: With Men-sex mentality most Men develop what is known as Cat-Mouse attitude towards sex. They grab their Wives the way Cat does grab mouse and begin to sleep with them, no romance, no pre-intimacy, no good or kind words, no mind for the ladies they are sleeping with, it is very unfair. Men should wake up to the reality of modern life and improve their relational ability at home, loving and be loving and caring thereby becoming better husbands and fathers. You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name 98 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by saintopus(m): 10:57am On Sep 02, 2023 |
A sage once said if you want to last in your marriage, and relationships. Then you have to be a bit stewpid 78 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Authoreety: 11:36am On Sep 02, 2023 |
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Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by devoutpraise: 5:34pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
LoveUdie:
Pastor Bisi Adewale
Lots of Men are making mistakes in their Marriages, this is making life difficult for their wives and Children. We need to examine this and tutor all Men to behave better.
Here, I will be exposing 8 Mistakes of Many Men in Marriage:
1) SLAVE-WIFE MENTALITY: It’s not funny to know that lots of Men see women as slave, servants or something close to that. They believe women are good for nothing but sex, baby making, house chores and cooking. They operate with that kind of mentality with their wives. Many believe a wife should only be seen not heard, it’s really funny the way some men treats heir wives.
2) PUTTING FAMILY OVER WIVES: Lots of African Men are fond of this, they put their extended family first, they even make their wives to slave for their extended family members. Some beat or even divorce their wives because of their siblings. This is totally wrong. It’s madness to allow your family Members who are in their own Marriage to destroy yours, it’s high level of foolishness to allow your siblings to take over your marriage.
3) SPERM DONOR MENTALITY: Lots of men are more-or-less sperm donors in their marriages, apart from getting tingling their wives pregnant they have no other roles in Child bearing and rearing. Whenever babies cries, It’s very common to hear Nigerian men saying, come and carry your baby, don’t you hear your baby is crying?,most of the time only women attends Children parties in School,only mothers attend PTA meetings and many other events in School, Men thinks they are too busy to do that what a mistake?
4) CLASS TEACHER ATTITUDE: Lots of Men believes their wives have nothing to offer, they believe they are wiser, stronger and better than their wives. So they develop Class teacher mentality, whereby they are only ready to teach, lecture and tutor their wives. To them their wives should not advise them. This is very wrong, God planted your wife into your life to complete you, if you don’t listen to her you are missing a lot.
5) LIVE AND EAT ATTITUDE: This is another bad attitude of many men. They believe their duty at home is to eat, watch Television and sleep. Anything in the management of the house does not concern them. They believe only women should cook, boil, clean the house watch the plates, fetch water bath the Children and dress them up, this is another very funny lifestyle of many men, they should please note that this is 21st century and improve.
6) WIFE BATTERING: In some part of Nigeria wife battering is seen as a norm, so many men are in this habit, some women where maim or even killed in the process. I wonder what kind of Man will beat a woman he promised to love, care and cherished if not an animal-like man, wife battering is barbaric and should be condemned by all.
7) MEN-SEX MENTALITY: Lots of men also believe sex is for men, women should not enjoy it, so they approach their wives with horse rider mindset, they have no plan to make their wives enjoy sex but to do their thing, enjoy themselves and go their way, this is very unwise and unkind to women.
CAT MOUSE SEX ATTITUDE: With Men-sex mentality most Men develop what is known as Cat-Mouse attitude towards sex. They grab their Wives the way Cat does grab mouse and begin to sleep with them, no romance, no pre-intimacy, no good or kind words, no mind for the ladies they are sleeping with, it is very unfair.
Men should wake up to the reality of modern life and improve their relational ability at home, loving and be loving and caring thereby becoming better husbands and fathers.
You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name AMEN 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Fountainofyouth(f): 9:37pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
Nice. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Paramount01(m): 9:55pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
LoveUdie:
Pastor Bisi Adewale
Lots of Men are making mistakes in their Marriages, this is making life difficult for their wives and Children. We need to examine this and tutor all Men to behave better.
Here, I will be exposing 8 Mistakes of Many Men in Marriage:
1) SLAVE-WIFE MENTALITY: It’s not funny to know that lots of Men see women as slave, servants or something close to that. They believe women are good for nothing but sex, baby making, house chores and cooking. They operate with that kind of mentality with their wives. Many believe a wife should only be seen not heard, it’s really funny the way some men treats heir wives.
2) PUTTING FAMILY OVER WIVES: Lots of African Men are fond of this, they put their extended family first, they even make their wives to slave for their extended family members. Some beat or even divorce their wives because of their siblings. This is totally wrong. It’s madness to allow your family Members who are in their own Marriage to destroy yours, it’s high level of foolishness to allow your siblings to take over your marriage.
3) SPERM DONOR MENTALITY: Lots of men are more-or-less sperm donors in their marriages, apart from getting tingling their wives pregnant they have no other roles in Child bearing and rearing. Whenever babies cries, It’s very common to hear Nigerian men saying, come and carry your baby, don’t you hear your baby is crying?,most of the time only women attends Children parties in School,only mothers attend PTA meetings and many other events in School, Men thinks they are too busy to do that what a mistake?
4) CLASS TEACHER ATTITUDE: Lots of Men believes their wives have nothing to offer, they believe they are wiser, stronger and better than their wives. So they develop Class teacher mentality, whereby they are only ready to teach, lecture and tutor their wives. To them their wives should not advise them. This is very wrong, God planted your wife into your life to complete you, if you don’t listen to her you are missing a lot.
5) LIVE AND EAT ATTITUDE: This is another bad attitude of many men. They believe their duty at home is to eat, watch Television and sleep. Anything in the management of the house does not concern them. They believe only women should cook, boil, clean the house watch the plates, fetch water bath the Children and dress them up, this is another very funny lifestyle of many men, they should please note that this is 21st century and improve.
6) WIFE BATTERING: In some part of Nigeria wife battering is seen as a norm, so many men are in this habit, some women where maim or even killed in the process. I wonder what kind of Man will beat a woman he promised to love, care and cherished if not an animal-like man, wife battering is barbaric and should be condemned by all.
7) MEN-SEX MENTALITY: Lots of men also believe sex is for men, women should not enjoy it, so they approach their wives with horse rider mindset, they have no plan to make their wives enjoy sex but to do their thing, enjoy themselves and go their way, this is very unwise and unkind to women.
CAT MOUSE SEX ATTITUDE: With Men-sex mentality most Men develop what is known as Cat-Mouse attitude towards sex. They grab their Wives the way Cat does grab mouse and begin to sleep with them, no romance, no pre-intimacy, no good or kind words, no mind for the ladies they are sleeping with, it is very unfair.
Men should wake up to the reality of modern life and improve their relational ability at home, loving and be loving and caring thereby becoming better husbands and fathers.
You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name Not 100% correct 46 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Nehyooh(m): 11:02pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
Woooow! A big lesson for me to learn from as an aspiring husband by the grace of God. AMEN! 3 Likes |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by idady2njsd: 11:42pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
thank u pastor, this is my secong achievement for today 4 Likes |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by izonborn098(m): 12:23am On Sep 03, 2023 |
She is ur partner and not a slave.. Marriage no too hard.. 4 Likes |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by purples25(f): 5:47am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Many men are power drunk. 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Map1(m): 6:06am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Nehyooh: Woooow! A big lesson for me to learn from as an aspiring husband by the grace of God. AMEN! My brother Marriage is entirely different Ball game,no amount of motivational speaker, book you read about marriage, chancellor advice that makes marriage works,most of those pastors are in there marriage with sadness and regret but they can't back out,no sane man can satisfied and make women happy with out a regret at the end. 75 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by helinues: 6:37am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Is it a must to go through all this headache all in the name of marriage? 5 Likes |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by KingLennon(m): 7:01am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Nice post but as a man just pray you don't marry this generation social media girls. They will drain all the enerqy in you. You will see a wife chatting steady when the baby is crawling towards the gas cylinder and she is still chatting and laughing God abeq.... 47 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by layzie: 10:31am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Paramount01:
Not 100% correct I agree with u. Some of the points are a bit misguided. No 2 for instance. A greater % of wives put their families (parents/siblings) over the man, not the other way round. Then a lot of the other points- slave mentality/cat mouse, not helping out etc does that exist in modern marriages In this Tinubu economy Which man now wants his wife at home doing only chores All those points seems blown out of proportion, while a few men may still do all that, it's not the majority. 37 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by nkemoma(m): 11:40am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Marriage is easy If both partners decide to work it out 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by GboyegaD(m): 11:41am On Sep 03, 2023 |
The ultimate solution is to treat your spouse how you want to be treated, seek his/her satisfaction, joy, happiness at all times and you find yourself better for it. 8 Likes |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by mbahdi(m): 11:41am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Happy Sunday to all nairalanders..may the blessings of dis Sunday and new month be our portion 8 Likes |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Myphonearena: 11:41am On Sep 03, 2023 |
What about women and their mistakes? 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Sonnobax15(m): 11:41am On Sep 03, 2023 |
At least,men own no pass 8.. Unlike bannies own,na uncountable.... 8 Likes |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Padipadi(m): 11:42am On Sep 03, 2023 |
LoveUdie:
Pastor Bisi Adewale
Lots of Men are making mistakes in their Marriages, this is making life difficult for their wives and Children. We need to examine this and tutor all Men to behave better.
Here, I will be exposing 8 Mistakes of Many Men in Marriage:
1) SLAVE-WIFE MENTALITY: It’s not funny to know that lots of Men see women as slave, servants or something close to that. They believe women are good for nothing but sex, baby making, house chores and cooking. They operate with that kind of mentality with their wives. Many believe a wife should only be seen not heard, it’s really funny the way some men treats heir wives.
2) PUTTING FAMILY OVER WIVES: Lots of African Men are fond of this, they put their extended family first, they even make their wives to slave for their extended family members. Some beat or even divorce their wives because of their siblings. This is totally wrong. It’s madness to allow your family Members who are in their own Marriage to destroy yours, it’s high level of foolishness to allow your siblings to take over your marriage.
3) SPERM DONOR MENTALITY: Lots of men are more-or-less sperm donors in their marriages, apart from getting tingling their wives pregnant they have no other roles in Child bearing and rearing. Whenever babies cries, It’s very common to hear Nigerian men saying, come and carry your baby, don’t you hear your baby is crying?,most of the time only women attends Children parties in School,only mothers attend PTA meetings and many other events in School, Men thinks they are too busy to do that what a mistake?
4) CLASS TEACHER ATTITUDE: Lots of Men believes their wives have nothing to offer, they believe they are wiser, stronger and better than their wives. So they develop Class teacher mentality, whereby they are only ready to teach, lecture and tutor their wives. To them their wives should not advise them. This is very wrong, God planted your wife into your life to complete you, if you don’t listen to her you are missing a lot.
5) LIVE AND EAT ATTITUDE: This is another bad attitude of many men. They believe their duty at home is to eat, watch Television and sleep. Anything in the management of the house does not concern them. They believe only women should cook, boil, clean the house watch the plates, fetch water bath the Children and dress them up, this is another very funny lifestyle of many men, they should please note that this is 21st century and improve.
6) WIFE BATTERING: In some part of Nigeria wife battering is seen as a norm, so many men are in this habit, some women where maim or even killed in the process. I wonder what kind of Man will beat a woman he promised to love, care and cherished if not an animal-like man, wife battering is barbaric and should be condemned by all.
7) MEN-SEX MENTALITY: Lots of men also believe sex is for men, women should not enjoy it, so they approach their wives with horse rider mindset, they have no plan to make their wives enjoy sex but to do their thing, enjoy themselves and go their way, this is very unwise and unkind to women.
CAT MOUSE SEX ATTITUDE: With Men-sex mentality most Men develop what is known as Cat-Mouse attitude towards sex. They grab their Wives the way Cat does grab mouse and begin to sleep with them, no romance, no pre-intimacy, no good or kind words, no mind for the ladies they are sleeping with, it is very unfair.
Men should wake up to the reality of modern life and improve their relational ability at home, loving and be loving and caring thereby becoming better husbands and fathers.
You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name And you think many men do this? Write women own. 8 Likes |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by athaliya(f): 11:42am On Sep 03, 2023 |
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Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by longview007: 11:44am On Sep 03, 2023 |
If men will only avoid all this, and ilso include prayer for God assistance, their will be 90% success in families. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by sammyj: 11:46am On Sep 03, 2023 |
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Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Kaybaba5(m): 11:46am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Some women. Beg for beating...... 9 Likes 2 Shares |
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Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Weathered: 11:47am On Sep 03, 2023 |
LoveUdie:
Pastor Bisi Adewale
Lots of Men are making mistakes in their Marriages, this is making life difficult for their wives and Children. We need to examine this and tutor all Men to behave better.
Here, I will be exposing 8 Mistakes of Many Men in Marriage:
1) SLAVE-WIFE MENTALITY: It’s not funny to know that lots of Men see women as slave, servants or something close to that. They believe women are good for nothing but sex, baby making, house chores and cooking. They operate with that kind of mentality with their wives. Many believe a wife should only be seen not heard, it’s really funny the way some men treats heir wives.
2) PUTTING FAMILY OVER WIVES: Lots of African Men are fond of this, they put their extended family first, they even make their wives to slave for their extended family members. Some beat or even divorce their wives because of their siblings. This is totally wrong. It’s madness to allow your family Members who are in their own Marriage to destroy yours, it’s high level of foolishness to allow your siblings to take over your marriage.
3) SPERM DONOR MENTALITY: Lots of men are more-or-less sperm donors in their marriages, apart from getting tingling their wives pregnant they have no other roles in Child bearing and rearing. Whenever babies cries, It’s very common to hear Nigerian men saying, come and carry your baby, don’t you hear your baby is crying?,most of the time only women attends Children parties in School,only mothers attend PTA meetings and many other events in School, Men thinks they are too busy to do that what a mistake?
4) CLASS TEACHER ATTITUDE: Lots of Men believes their wives have nothing to offer, they believe they are wiser, stronger and better than their wives. So they develop Class teacher mentality, whereby they are only ready to teach, lecture and tutor their wives. To them their wives should not advise them. This is very wrong, God planted your wife into your life to complete you, if you don’t listen to her you are missing a lot.
5) LIVE AND EAT ATTITUDE: This is another bad attitude of many men. They believe their duty at home is to eat, watch Television and sleep. Anything in the management of the house does not concern them. They believe only women should cook, boil, clean the house watch the plates, fetch water bath the Children and dress them up, this is another very funny lifestyle of many men, they should please note that this is 21st century and improve.
6) WIFE BATTERING: In some part of Nigeria wife battering is seen as a norm, so many men are in this habit, some women where maim or even killed in the process. I wonder what kind of Man will beat a woman he promised to love, care and cherished if not an animal-like man, wife battering is barbaric and should be condemned by all.
7) MEN-SEX MENTALITY: Lots of men also believe sex is for men, women should not enjoy it, so they approach their wives with horse rider mindset, they have no plan to make their wives enjoy sex but to do their thing, enjoy themselves and go their way, this is very unwise and unkind to women.
CAT MOUSE SEX ATTITUDE: With Men-sex mentality most Men develop what is known as Cat-Mouse attitude towards sex. They grab their Wives the way Cat does grab mouse and begin to sleep with them, no romance, no pre-intimacy, no good or kind words, no mind for the ladies they are sleeping with, it is very unfair.
Men should wake up to the reality of modern life and improve their relational ability at home, loving and be loving and caring thereby becoming better husbands and fathers.
You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name your life most be very long and boring. Pity. Having to be an emotional thinker rephrasing this recycled rubbish 4 Likes |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by BRATISLAVA: 11:48am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Myphonearena: What about women and their mistakes? Whataboutism. The man is speaking to men, or do you think messages are only made for women? 8 big mistakes and all you can ask is "what about women". Are you a woman in need of pastoral guidance? Or his points rub you the wrong way? Like, you're guilty of all 8 of them? One of the reasons some men stay undesirable and blame women—the refusal to accept that they are flawed creatures themselves. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by folks4luv(f): 11:48am On Sep 03, 2023 |
They won't like this |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by SSpeter(m): 11:48am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Unless you want to Marry a full-time house husband. What you are preaching, you do not practice unless you are a jobless man. The man that preached this do not practice what is up there. 12 Likes |
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Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by Totiemide: 11:49am On Sep 03, 2023 |
LoveUdie:
Pastor Bisi Adewale
Lots of Men are making mistakes in their Marriages, this is making life difficult for their wives and Children. We need to examine this and tutor all Men to behave better.
Here, I will be exposing 8 Mistakes of Many Men in Marriage:
1) SLAVE-WIFE MENTALITY: It’s not funny to know that lots of Men see women as slave, servants or something close to that. They believe women are good for nothing but sex, baby making, house chores and cooking. They operate with that kind of mentality with their wives. Many believe a wife should only be seen not heard, it’s really funny the way some men treats heir wives.
2) PUTTING FAMILY OVER WIVES: Lots of African Men are fond of this, they put their extended family first, they even make their wives to slave for their extended family members. Some beat or even divorce their wives because of their siblings. This is totally wrong. It’s madness to allow your family Members who are in their own Marriage to destroy yours, it’s high level of foolishness to allow your siblings to take over your marriage.
3) SPERM DONOR MENTALITY: Lots of men are more-or-less sperm donors in their marriages, apart from getting tingling their wives pregnant they have no other roles in Child bearing and rearing. Whenever babies cries, It’s very common to hear Nigerian men saying, come and carry your baby, don’t you hear your baby is crying?,most of the time only women attends Children parties in School,only mothers attend PTA meetings and many other events in School, Men thinks they are too busy to do that what a mistake?
4) CLASS TEACHER ATTITUDE: Lots of Men believes their wives have nothing to offer, they believe they are wiser, stronger and better than their wives. So they develop Class teacher mentality, whereby they are only ready to teach, lecture and tutor their wives. To them their wives should not advise them. This is very wrong, God planted your wife into your life to complete you, if you don’t listen to her you are missing a lot.
5) LIVE AND EAT ATTITUDE: This is another bad attitude of many men. They believe their duty at home is to eat, watch Television and sleep. Anything in the management of the house does not concern them. They believe only women should cook, boil, clean the house watch the plates, fetch water bath the Children and dress them up, this is another very funny lifestyle of many men, they should please note that this is 21st century and improve.
6) WIFE BATTERING: In some part of Nigeria wife battering is seen as a norm, so many men are in this habit, some women where maim or even killed in the process. I wonder what kind of Man will beat a woman he promised to love, care and cherished if not an animal-like man, wife battering is barbaric and should be condemned by all.
7) MEN-SEX MENTALITY: Lots of men also believe sex is for men, women should not enjoy it, so they approach their wives with horse rider mindset, they have no plan to make their wives enjoy sex but to do their thing, enjoy themselves and go their way, this is very unwise and unkind to women.
CAT MOUSE SEX ATTITUDE: With Men-sex mentality most Men develop what is known as Cat-Mouse attitude towards sex. They grab their Wives the way Cat does grab mouse and begin to sleep with them, no romance, no pre-intimacy, no good or kind words, no mind for the ladies they are sleeping with, it is very unfair.
Men should wake up to the reality of modern life and improve their relational ability at home, loving and be loving and caring thereby becoming better husbands and fathers.
You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name All the points mentioned is the sad reality that we're all facing in this generation. There are many good men out there but the bad fruits outweighs the good ones. If men take care to correct themselves with this point, I believe no sane woman would counter with a bad character and no man with the positive influence of this point would attract a evil woman. We really need to learn, learn and re-learn and stop whatever we believe is being 'woke'. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 8 Mistakes Of Many Men In Marriage by BRATISLAVA: 11:49am On Sep 03, 2023 |
Kaybaba5: Some women. Beg for beating...... As do some men. 5 Likes |