Yesterday, I finally had enough. She texted me while I was in church that she's coming I said okay, waited for her, then told her if I didn't see her, were ending this relationship. It's been more than a month since we last saw. How can you claim you love someone and for more than a month you didn't see them and you are not bothered. She works Monday to Saturday though. My joy is I never crossed her because most ladies use that to emotionally blackmail guys. She has only visited me once and that was on my birthday. The relationship was barely two months. She's my first love at 31. I will miss her a little but I have moved on already. So I'm back to "God when?" Lol.

Relationships are hard. Sometimes you may need to kiss many frogs before seeing the right one. Sometimes you get lucky and see the right one easily. Keep trying.

zed7:
Relationships are hard. Sometimes you may need to kiss many frogs before seeing the right one. Sometimes you get lucky and see the right one easily. Keep trying.

Thanks 👍

Hmm is it long distance relationship

Goalnaldo:
Yesterday, I finally had enough. She texted me while I was in church that she's coming I said okay, waited for her, then told her if I didn't see her, were ending this relationship. It's been more than a month since we last saw. How can you claim you love someone and for more than a month you didn't see them and you are not bothered. She works Monday to Saturday though. My joy is I never crossed her because most ladies use that to emotionally blackmail guys. She has only visited me once and that was on my birthday. The relationship was barely two months. She's my first love at 31. I will miss her a little but I have moved on already. So I'm back to "God when?" Lol.

you need to take it slow. Its just 2 months old, visit her see her and even if it won't work out, get alot of experience before jumping to another girl.

falcon01:
you need to take it slow. Its just 2 months old, visit her see her and even if it won't work out, get alot of experience before jumping to another girl.

ok boss, thanks for the input

Blake755:
Hmm is it long distance relationship

No, we live in the same city

Goalnaldo:
No, we live in the same city

common go and visit her. Are you her commanding officer or her lover. If I sound you eh.

Goalnaldo:

Arrrrrrrh

Haba Senior Bros, at 31 you are still playing this children game. Your break up decision was irrational, irrelevant and childish.

You never caught her cheating, neither did you suspect her cheating. You broke up with you simply because she's busy, 31 yrs man, you are still a baby.

From your story, I realized that;
1. Because a girl said she want to visit you and she didn't visit you again, you became angry why? You didn't bother to ask what happened? I am very sure she was using her money to transport her self, because if it was yours, you would have state the obvious.

2. This relationship is just 2 months + and your are behaving like a girl. Man go get work and stop looking for attention from a woman. For heaven sake you are not a girl. Get a work, and stay busy!

3.

How can you claim you love someone and for more than a month you didn't see them and you are not bothered

who says this kind of thing? This guy must be a simp. I thought it was only women that do offer such statement?

4. You said she work from Monday to Saturday. She's busy and you are idle that is why you are angry. Assuming you were busy too you won't have mentioned the about statement you said in No. 3.

5. First lover at 31? Bro calm down we all know you are still going back to beg that lady. All this one wey you dey talk na just wash. You still miss her! girl you broke up with, After reading this you will end up going back to beg her. I am afraid this time, you might simp more and more. I just pray she's not a manipulative kind because if she is, you are gone. I mean you don suffer.

Peace Out !!

Very childish "man-child"!! You better get busy.

At 31, you're supposed to have gotten your shit together and know how relationship works but it seems you're naive about anything concerning relationship... you're a newbie.

relationship of just two months and una don dey give unaself emotional pressure... i wish you guys all the best in life...

Goalnaldo:
Yesterday, I finally had enough. She texted me while I was in church that she's coming I said okay, waited for her, then told her if I didn't see her, were ending this relationship. It's been more than a month since we last saw. How can you claim you love someone and for more than a month you didn't see them and you are not bothered. She works Monday to Saturday though. My joy is I never crossed her because most ladies use that to emotionally blackmail guys. She has only visited me once and that was on my birthday. The relationship was barely two months. She's my first love at 31. I will miss her a little but I have moved on already. So I'm back to "God when?" Lol.

Go sleep

Goalnaldo:
Yesterday, I finally had enough. She texted me while I was in church that she's coming I said okay, waited for her, then told her if I didn't see her, were ending this relationship. It's been more than a month since we last saw. How can you claim you love someone and for more than a month you didn't see them and you are not bothered. She works Monday to Saturday though. My joy is I never crossed her because most ladies use that to emotionally blackmail guys. She has only visited me once and that was on my birthday. The relationship was barely two months. She's my first love at 31. I will miss her a little but I have moved on already. So I'm back to "God when?" Lol.

Maybe you should put yourself in her shoes. It's possible that work is taking its toll on her.

U never even start relationship, u don de breakup.

There was no other way to tackle the issue.. At 31

Op you're the problem here.

Get busy
It's obvious you have nothing doing

Goalnaldo:
Yesterday, I finally had enough. She texted me while I was in church that she's coming I said okay, waited for her, then told her if I didn't see her, were ending this relationship. It's been more than a month since we last saw. How can you claim you love someone and for more than a month you didn't see them and you are not bothered. She works Monday to Saturday though. My joy is I never crossed her because most ladies use that to emotionally blackmail guys. She has only visited me once and that was on my birthday. The relationship was barely two months. She's my first love at 31. I will miss her a little but I have moved on already. So I'm back to "God when?" Lol.

man @ 31 you do not have the luxury of switching relationships like a 21year old, it ain't greener else where, be patient or leave relationships kpata kpata

Goalnaldo:
Yesterday, I finally had enough. She texted me while I was in church that she's coming I said okay, waited for her, then told her if I didn't see her, were ending this relationship. It's been more than a month since we last saw. How can you claim you love someone and for more than a month you didn't see them and you are not bothered. She works Monday to Saturday though. My joy is I never crossed her because most ladies use that to emotionally blackmail guys. She has only visited me once and that was on my birthday. The relationship was barely two months. She's my first love at 31. I will miss her a little but I have moved on already. So I'm back to "God when?" Lol.

Maturity is hard to come by lately, more disappointingly, the immaturity is from a 30+ male.

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And my own is choking me with frequent visits.

You need to be calming down at 31

If she starts visiting you always you will get tired and start complaining again. This life no balance.

Goalnaldo:
Yesterday, I finally had enough. .

please don't break up with her.
if everybody breakup then who will be taking care of our fuckbuddies? who do you want to leave responsibility for? who will give her hair & data money? you better go back to being boyfriend oh.

Welcome to the Singlehood Club😄😄😄

At 31? You still dey break up over minor issues like this?

Na wa....

Of all the excesses of a banny, breaking up with her because of not being able to visit me steadily will be the last thing that can break us up......

Op,try dey calm down....

In ur eyes now u think you've done the right thing. Continue

Long distance relationship is not really easy at all, i know how much i have spent on my girlfriend, but sometimes feel bored and Hot, But unfortunately she lives far from me, sometimes she also complain of being Hot, sometimes I got scared that another guy a warming her engine, because I'm that kind of guy who don't have time to monitor her.. But if i found out she is cheating on me, she will regret her life because I will make her start from square one

Foodqueen:
U never even start relationship, u don de breakup.

This was exactly what she said when we had issue at just two weeks 😂😂 when I requested for a break.

Goalnaldo:
Thanks 👍

I think you made the right decision I suggest move on. There are other factors though, rest and dry cleaning

Don't rush back, reevaluate

She would have used you and still dump you op.
A woman who left you hanging does not respect you. A woman who doesn't respect you is fvcking another guy while you're waiting for her.
It is how they manipulate guys.
Praise heaven you broke up with her.

Let your next girl know that respect is love.

Two months relationship only one visit you dey break up. Abeg when you marry and maybe your job takes you away from your family for a year, you go divorce be that. It is in relationships that we learn patience, tolerance communication and a whole lot of human skill, not Smash all the time.
Relationship hard una no wan show patience.

You wey never strong in dating dey form red piller, this is the pil 💊 you need cold and hot .if you re reacting like this you will stand long on the street