You have a wise woman, listen to her. Relocation is not easy.

IconicR:
He didn't even mention missing his wife because he already has a Lagos girlfriend waiting for him

It's all about his kids because someone is already on ground in Lagos to do wifely duties
Hian

Girl,
You're on point.

IconicR:
He didn't even mention missing his wife because he already has a Lagos girlfriend waiting for him

It's all about his kids because someone is already on ground in Lagos to do wifely duties
Hian

Whenever you hear a man speaking about missing his family and kids alot.... He is literally talking about his wife.

All the best

IconicR:
He didn't even mention missing his wife because he already has a Lagos girlfriend waiting for him

It's all about his kids because someone is already on ground in Lagos to do wifely duties
Hian

You need help.

IconicR:
people wey no get mama wish they had one
The plenty men that get along with their kids but not their wife created a vacuum in the hearts of those kids which sometimes causes damage to them

I will continue to be horrible to you if it means telling you to stop defending rubbish all the time

This slowpoke, carry your hate on another man head to the gutter. Na your husband? Abi na your wife he wan go sleep with in Lagos? Why people don’t mind their business for Christ sake? Where this animal from come out again? Chai

garriAndsugar:
From Lagos you intend to visit once weekly?
Is Enugu now in Ogun state abi you go dey disappear for fast movement

It's less than an hour if he's flying.

IconicR:
You are more horrible for hating the truth

Same man you are speaking for sleeps with people's wives unremorsefully

If you see me going at someone you should ask me first why I'm doing so

Please tell us more...

etrange:


It's less than an hour if he's flying.

very costly and exhausting too.

No go die for road.. which one be once weekly

Calculate the cost ... the risk....

I am sure you meant to say visit Enugu once a month, though maybe tight attimes. Good luck

charles009:

Folks, in a few days I will be leaving for Lagos . I currently live in Enugu, amazing city. I can move my family, but Wify advised the kids stay back in Enugu for at least another year to enable me settle. For the first time since I got married 7 years ago, I will be leaving my relatively young family behind. I love my children to bits and immensely enjoy every second I share with them. Our bond is so strong. The feeling of staying a day without my babies is completely indescribable. Although I intend to visit Enugu at least once weekly.

Guys please encourage me.

Let that love you have for your family be your strenght. Above all, know your creator and ensure you no get carried away by any scheme or wiles of the devil. you can do it... strenghten your inner spirit with this new challenge your life journey has thrown at you. Finally Always ask for the will of your creator to have its way.....ALWAYS!

wishing you the best!

advanceDNA and IconicR, get a room, you two.

IconicR:
He didn't even mention missing his wife because he already has a Lagos girlfriend waiting for him

It's all about his kids because someone is already on ground in Lagos to do wifely duties
Hian

Resist the urge to shalaye. No be every time you will be derailing thread. Mschew.

Good luck to you OP.

Advancedna and IconicR

The two of you are snseless without your usless discussion on the first page.

Two kids with absolutely no sensx...

What's the meaning of the rubbish and the mods didn't ban u both

IconicR:
He didn't even mention missing his wife because he already has a Lagos girlfriend waiting for him

It's all about his kids because someone is already on ground in Lagos to do wifely duties
Hian

You dey use your marriage to play

Until them begin fvck your wife

Woman wey dey live with her husband sef dey collect another phenese from outside talkless of the one wey leave vagina wey e don pay bride for to be wondering among Hot men

Woman wey you don use your phenese train to be collecting preek everyday,you wan leave am travel and you expect her to be celibate? dey play.go and ask Naija soldiers.

IconicR:
He didn't even mention missing his wife because he already has a Lagos girlfriend waiting for him

It's all about his kids because someone is already on ground in Lagos to do wifely duties
Hian

Asking for advice where people like u are is like asking Satan to save u.

charles009:

Folks, in a few days I will be leaving for Lagos . I currently live in Enugu, amazing city. I can move my family, but Wify advised the kids stay back in Enugu for at least another year to enable me settle. For the first time since I got married 7 years ago, I will be leaving my relatively young family behind. I love my children to bits and immensely enjoy every second I share with them. Our bond is so strong. The feeling of staying a day without my babies is completely indescribable. Although I intend to visit Enugu at least once weekly.

Guys please encourage me.

Are you sure you can cope travelling weekly? Cost, stress, etc? Better think monthly or every two months.

please stay back, there are too many ibo in lagos. let the indigenes breath

garriAndsugar:
From Lagos you intend to visit once weekly?
Is Enugu now in Ogun state abi you go dey disappear for fast movement

My exact thoughts 😂


@OP, I have lived in Lagos all my life. So the only advice I have for you is; carry your wife along, before life happenings begin to shock you and your family.

Two weeks in Lagos without your family, your brain go go back to factory reset.

charles009:

Folks, in a few days I will be leaving for Lagos . I currently live in Enugu, amazing city. I can move my family, but Wify advised the kids stay back in Enugu for at least another year to enable me settle. For the first time since I got married 7 years ago, I will be leaving my relatively young family behind. I love my children to bits and immensely enjoy every second I share with them. Our bond is so strong. The feeling of staying a day without my babies is completely indescribable. Although I intend to visit Enugu at least once weekly.

Guys please encourage me.

Oga carry your family with you if the job is a secured one.

Baba move your family alongside with you make everybody adjust onces...else you might just be losing your marriage with this your decision

charles009:

Folks, in a few days I will be leaving for Lagos . I currently live in Enugu, amazing city. I can move my family, but Wify advised the kids stay back in Enugu for at least another year to enable me settle. For the first time since I got married 7 years ago, I will be leaving my relatively young family behind. I love my children to bits and immensely enjoy every second I share with them. Our bond is so strong. The feeling of staying a day without my babies is completely indescribable. Although I intend to visit Enugu at least once weekly.

Guys please encourage me.

There are a lot of distraction in Lagos that can make you:

Forget yourself, wife and children.

Stay focused and don't get carried away by DISTRACTIONS in Lagos.

If you don't go for them, they can come from you. So guard your heart, money , dick etc

You will be fine last last

If you dont have the job, how will you provide for them

Just know if you don't move together your kids will tilt towards their mother when they grow up, the formation age for a child is almost the foundation of his adulthood. It's science

DenreleDave:
Advancedna and IconicR

The two of you are snseless without your usless discussion on the first page.

Two kids with absolutely no sensx...

What's the meaning of the rubbish and the mods didn't ban u both

Honestly.... Both of them just occupy the front page... I just open the thread only to see argument...
Especially that AdvanceDna....
At least IconicR first post was referring to the topic, but the AdvanceDna just follow her for back...na wa o... So much for front page...

They want to be in Lagos by force.

IconicR:
He didn't even mention missing his wife because he already has a Lagos girlfriend waiting for him

It's all about his kids because someone is already on ground in Lagos to do wifely duties
Hian

I think he did..
He said young family. The wife is part of it.

garriAndsugar:
From Lagos you intend to visit once weekly?
Is Enugu now in Ogun state abi you go dey disappear for fast movement

leave am, make him start work first, e go get d message, enugu weekly na beans?