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Re: by BigDawsNet: 1:56pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
akwesenana: We came to fulfil God's plan for the world... when we done, we return back to the creator... 1 Like |
Re: by talented321: 2:08pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
Your last line'' even ur parents has their target raising you'' just as izonborn098 has just explained... Spirit04: 2 Likes |
Re: by DND069: 2:16pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
akwesenana: For what's money without happiness... Love yourz by J_cole 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: by Thermodynamics(m): 2:59pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
Badmashii: What purpose? How does one know his purpose?? And if you've discovered yours, Let me ask you, what is your purpose in Life? |
Re: by Badmashii(m): 3:08pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
Thermodynamics: My own na to chop chicken everyday. On a serious note though, It is something PERSONAL. I don't intend to share it with nobody. To find yours,follow the voice leading you in your heart. Respect that voice. |
Re: by skyZine(m): 3:13pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
Words rich in wisdom. I learnt a few today. dontrulee: |
Re: by wwwtortoise(m): 3:15pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
Believe it or not weβre all just entertainment for the higher beings. An experiment on a large scale with a touch of diversity in the shape of race, religion, language, location and ego. The good news is that we have freedom to choose our path. The bad news is that nobody leaves a virgin; life bleeps us all. |
Re: by Zxcvbnmghtr: 3:21pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
Depression! |
Re: by Godsongang: 5:35pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
Hmmm LIFE sha |
Re: by DyingFetus: 6:56pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
The purpose of life is nothing You'll own nothing and you'll be happy |
Re: by SuperOnyi: 7:35pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
pansophist: I'm glad I'm not alone. First time quoting you, sir π. I should write a book on this topic. |
Re: by HellVictorinho6(m): 7:51pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
Spits |
Re: by SuperOnyi: 8:10pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
@Akwesenana, I do think of this but I'm learning to accept the reality "we're just living to die" but the question I ask myself is: am I dying to live or living to die? Ever since I was young, I questioned a lot of norms. I'm the type of kid that wondered how kids would just choose their future profession while I couldn't even tell myself "hey I wanna be a doctor"... I wondered why humans thought they were any different from other animals or why people would think we're all alone in this vast universe or why someone would feel superior because of the color of their skin, language, and etc. Even if I've learned to act like I agree with some societal norms but the truth is, there's nothing special about us. I kept waiting to hear some voice from above to tell me my purpose but I haven't heard sh*t. When I was a kid, I read a lot β I remember reading a book titled "sociology" or something like that. The writer wrote about how a certain king separated three kids because he was curious to see which language they'd speak when they grew up. Everybody believed little kids spoke Hebrew ( "God's language" ). Unfortunately, they grew up dumber and couldn't speak any language but communicated through hand signs. It was clear to me that if they had grown up in somewhere different, their "purpose" and "destiny" would be better off. Our location, circumstances, and decisions play a huge role in what our purpose or destiny would be. I'm not religious but I've got to admit, there's something bigger than us out there. It could be death, nature, or a Supreme Being. I don't know but it is what it is. There's this YouTuber that made a video where he'd go to video game characters trying to convince them, that the video game is a false world created by humans. Guess what? These characters didn't believe it and called him crazy ! Imagine if someone walked up to you to tell you that all your life was just a game programmed by a "higher intelligence". That would surely be hard to swallow! I think it's time we give our life a meaning and accept death as a part of life, I'm not perfect but I'm trying to stop thinking to the point of depression as someone, who's often in the ball of depression. Thinkers like @pansophist really help to make me work on myself. Life is just a video game, I'm just a character and doing my best to live and not just exist. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: by Stedygrowth: 9:03pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
The emptiness we feel within us is an indication of lack of purpose in life. This lack of purpose express itself in different ways; going after material things, money, women, etc. At the end of the day, we still feel that emptiness within us. This suggests that nothing can replace purpose in life, because true satisfaction and fulfilment can only be attained through living a purposeful life. Every single element that exist on earth has its purpose, including human being. From observation, all other things are doing just what they were designed to do, but human beings are the ones who are lost. As a result, they began to wonder and experiment with things through trial and error, hoping that they will find happiness or a sense of purpose, but this also fail. That's why, rich politicians in Nigeria, for instance, will continue to embezzle public fund, hoping that more money will make them happy, but they still remains unfulfilled. The key then, is to discover your purpose in life. Within your purpose, you will find all amount of happiness, material things and fulfilment. How do we discover our purpose? To discover your purpose, you have to return to your childhood days. During these days, society's voices did not overwhelm your original sense purpose. You were original and true. Your desires were a true reflection of what you were born to do. You were drawn to a particular vocation because that is what you were born to do. But as you grow up, society's influence and opinions overwhelm that sense of inclination and directed you to a strange path where you're not built for. Establishing a career path in this direction will never bring you happiness and fulfilment, no matter how much material things you own, and material things can not offer happiness, they are temporary; and also, because you were not configured to attain happiness through such path. Returning to that original voice or desire or passion for a particular vocation and spending the rest of your life following that burning passion and desire is the key ποΈ to a happy and fulfilled life. |
Re: by tunjijones(m): 9:05pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
We are in this life to live. That's all. You struggle to survive and just live through life until death comes. |
Re: by Thermodynamics(m): 9:10pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
Badmashii: Hear the voice hear the voice which voice? How do we find the voice? You've just said nothing. |
Re: by Badmashii(m): 9:47pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
Thermodynamics: You see, this is one of the reasons why most people choose not to thread that path. It's really complicated. And it's a whole lot easier to just get a job,get married,make money and die. Unfortunately that's the life script for losers and weaklings and it brings neither power nor fufilment. If you're really serious,you need to focus within. One surprisingly frightening aspect of this purpose of a thing is you are never too old to pursue it. No matter your age,the voice will always be there. You just have to focus and LISTEN. |
Re: by Thermodynamics(m): 10:00pm On Sep 15, 2023 |
Badmashii: What voice? How do I hear it? I don focus and listen I nor hear anything. How do I focus and listen? |
Re: by Badmashii(m): 7:55am On Sep 16, 2023 |
Thermodynamics: Here's another trick. Whenever you intend to do something,watch how comfortable or not you feel when you try to go ahead. Generally, you'll always feel comfortable doing things that align with your interest and strength. You can start from there. Maybe you're good with instruments(musicians, instrumentalists) or you are blessed with a natural cunning & Machiavellian mindset( business& politics),or you have a wild imagination (writing and acting),or you're comfortable with numbers(engineering, programming) etc. Some people are blessed with a natural strength in their field. They will almost always Excel compared to others motivated by solely money or attention in that same field. Achieving your purpose means sharing your gifts with the world in another way. |
Re: by Thermodynamics(m): 9:39am On Sep 16, 2023 |
Badmashii: What about getting out of your comfort zone? I mean that there are some cases where you feel uncomfortable about something and you forge ahead then the thing end up working out. 1 Like |
Re: by Badmashii(m): 10:00am On Sep 16, 2023 |
Thermodynamics: Purchasing your purpose means being comfortable with being uncomfortable. What you said is valid. But there's a difference between the two. Here you feel uncomfortable because this is something new to you, like,I have to do this even though it feels uncomfortable, while on the other side you feel uncomfortable because something is telling you DON'T DO THIS,you are not suppose to do this. |
Re: by Silentgroper(m): 10:05am On Sep 16, 2023 |
Negroid001:That's right . just enjoy the moment.. you only live once... 1 Like |
Re: by Silentgroper(m): 10:40am On Sep 16, 2023 |
Thermodynamics:try taking some psychedelics that causes hallucinations .. you'd definitely hear that voice... trust me... ππππ |
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