My boyfriend says he misses me all the time. Even if we both spent time together today, once I leave for my place he starts saying he's missing me just one hour later. I'll just be like how's that possible since we just saw today. If he visits me, he'll find it difficult to leave. I'll have to start saying it's time for him to go. He can't decide on his own to leave. If I see him off or he sees me off and it's time for me to enter my cab and leave, he'll feel like crying like when a child's mum is about going out. He'll stand and watch the vehicle leave his sight before leaving. He calls and texts like 5 times a day, everyday, that's even when I pick accordingly. The days I don't pick, maybe I'm not with my phone, wahala. You will meet 27 missed calls. If we disagree and I say it's best we end the relationship, that's another big wahala. He no go gree, that is even when his love will increase to 200%. He is not an idle person. He works and the job is a good one. Is this one love or obsession?

lalalista:
My boyfriend says he misses me all the time. Even if we both spent time together today, once I leave for my place he starts saying he's missing me just one hour later. I'll just be like how's that possible since we just saw today. If he visits me, he'll find it difficult to leave. I'll have to start saying it's time for him to go. He can't decide on his own to leave. If we have a. If I see him off or he sees me off and it's time for me to enter my cab and leave, he'll feel like crying like when a child's mum is about going out. He'll stand and watch the vehicle leave his sight before leaving. He calls and texts like 5 times a day, everyday, that's even when I pick accordingly. The days I don't pick, maybe I'm not with my phone, wahala. You will meet 27 missed calls If we disagree and I say it's best we end the relationship, that's another big wahala. He no go gree, that is even when his love will increase to 200%. Is this one love or obsession?

It is not love...


Wait till he bags millions and travels out frequently....

You will know that only poor men can have such free time to obsess


A rich dude will spoil you silly with all the goodies of life

He's idle, emotional and weak. Some may say you should be grateful for such attention but I disagree. Anyone who is too clingy becomes an irritant.
Too much of everything is bad. Even in marriage, people should have time for themselves and occasionally do their own thing.

He's emotionally weak and perhaps idle.

This generation and fiock eh... Na wah ooo


Any small thing...una sdon bring private life come public forum...

lalalista:
My boyfriend says he misses me all the time. Even if we both spent time together today, once I leave for my place he starts saying he's missing me just one hour later. I'll just be like how's that possible since we just saw today. If he visits me, he'll find it difficult to leave. I'll have to start saying it's time for him to go. He can't decide on his own to leave. If I see him off or he sees me off and it's time for me to enter my cab and leave, he'll feel like crying like when a child's mum is about going out. He'll stand and watch the vehicle leave his sight before leaving. He calls and texts like 5 times a day, everyday, that's even when I pick accordingly. The days I don't pick, maybe I'm not with my phone, wahala. You will meet 27 missed calls. If we disagree and I say it's best we end the relationship, that's another big wahala. He no go gree, that is even when his love will increase to 200%. Is this one love or obsession?

Don’t worry, it’s youth that is doing you. When you leave this man who obviously loves you, you will know that loving men are scarce, and you will be the one missing and calling random men. I just hope you don’t break this man and send another Fuckboi out into the world.

zed7:
He's idle, emotional and weak. Some may say you should be grateful for such attention but I disagree. Anyone who is too clingy becomes an irritant.
Too much of everything is bad. Even in marriage, people should have time for themselves and occasionally do their own thing.

Maybe the relationship is new and once he feels secure he’ll be less clingy. I don’t why you guys have to be so cold and hard hearted. I still call my wife 4/5 times a day. When we were dating we’d talk for hours at night and spend days with each other when we were free. That’s called love. Women love attention when they love you. Op doesn’t seem to even like the guy so it’s best she ends it before she scars him for the next woman.

we lost one brother, tuehh

zed7:
He's idle, emotional and weak. Some may say you should be grateful for such attention but I disagree. Anyone who is too clingy becomes an irritant.
Too much of everything is bad. Even in marriage, people should have time for themselves and occasionally do their own thing.

he's not idle. He works and it's a good job

What do you bannies really want?

You find someone who's more interested in you,you complain

You find someone who doesn't give you attention at all,you complain?

Op,if you think you're not okay with his obsession abi love on you, just quit the relationship....But you must put one thing at the back of your mind,and that's--"The nigha will definitely commit suicide should you finally end it up with him"

lalalista:
he's not idle. He works and it's a good job

he should add another job

Op, just advice him to calm down that you know he cares but shouldn't worry being emotional about it.

Fine, his actions might look irritating to you but it is something that can be handled. If you leave the guy, na Bleep boys full street. Most guys no smile, they just wanna pipe and dump.

An insecure stalker

DND069:
Op, just advice him to calm down that you know he cares but shouldn't worry being emotional about it.

Fine, his actions might look irritating to you but it is something that can be handled. If you leave the guy, na Bleep boys full street. Most guys no smile, they just wanna pipe and dump.

okay. Thanks

How old is the relationship,?? Too much of everything is bad from being too possessive to being insecure Whic leads to obsession. Be careful his type can commit suicide for a relationship.

ealtutu:
How old is the relationship,?? Too much of everything is bad from being too possessive to being insecure Whic leads to obsession. Be careful his type can commit suicide for a relationship.

4 months