Gistlovers previously reported that Toke Makinwa and Maje Ayida divorced in 2015 after it emerged that he had fathered a child with his ex-girlfriend.

However, on her recent podcast episode, TokeMoments, the actress expressed a different perspective, suggesting that she might have made sacrifices if she had children during her marriage.

She remarked, “Many women endure unhealthy marriages for the sake of their children. You often hear women say, ‘The marriage may be over, but I stay for the kids.’

"I'll be candid here; if I had a child while married, I might have been one of those women. I had experienced the trauma of losing both parents at the age of 8; I mean, I was adopted. I have a wonderful life, for which I'm grateful, but there were times I wondered what life might have been like if that hadn't happened.

"So, for the sake of my children, I might have had to compromise just to ensure they had both mom and dad. I could have been one of those women. Therefore, I'm not here to judge anyone."

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But you're for the streets and the streets welcome you

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Pele. Oti lo

She can’t create life. She would’ve long used it to trap the man.

DyshApp:
■ She remarked, “Many women endure unhealthy marriages for the sake of their children. You often hear women say, ‘The marriage may be over, but I stay for the kids.’

"I'll be candid here; if I had a child while married, I might have been one of those women. I had experienced the trauma of losing both parents at the age of 8; I mean, I was adopted. I have a wonderful life, for which I'm grateful, but there were times I wondered what life might have been like if that hadn't happened.
"So, for the sake of my children, I might have had to compromise just to ensure they had both mom and dad. I could have been one of those women. Therefore, I'm not here to judge anyone."

Would the kids be happy knowing that daddy and mommy are living unhappily for their sake though? What do they benefit from watching Daddy and mummy live like strangers, or even enemies, for their sake? Such an arrangement is bound to leave emotional scars that could potentially hunt those kids for life, so why excuse it or make it sound like a reasonable arrangement?

Unhealthy not unhappy...

Kobojunkie:
Would the kids be happy knowing that daddy and mommy are living unhappily for their sake though? What do they benefit from watching Daddy and mummy live like strangers, or even enemies, for their sake? Such an arrangement is bound to leave emotional scars that could potentially hunt those kids for life, so why excuse it or make it sound like a reasonable arrangement?

With my loud....
Why saying this now? are you traumatized?
You go explain tire but no evidence..
When you think u have thousand of guys waiting for you outside but in reality they all want to chop and clean mouth...
Are u now regretting or what?
One of the happiest moment of my life is been born as a man...

Who's the lady in the 2nd picture with the dark guy ?

finallybusy:
She can’t create life. She would’ve long used it to trap the man.

Trap a man she was already married to ?


What's the use of the trap ?

doggedfighter:
Who's the lady in the 2nd picture with the dark guy ?

It's the same lady. Toke Makinwa with the husband she divorced

doggedfighter:


Trap a man she was already married to ?


What's the use of the trap ?

To stay longer in the marriage. He left her for obvious reasons.

I can't leave someone I have kids for

But I'm sure I won't let the person misbehave

The most important thing is I won't marry nonsense, reason I don't give out my feelings so quick, never.

Everybody was once ranting like you before we humble them...

IconicR:
I can't leave someone I have kids for

But I'm sure I won't let the person misbehave

The most important thing is I won't marry nonsense, reason I don't give out my feelings so quick, never.

talented321:
Everybody was once ranting like you before we humble them...

I'm not everyone

I'm iconicR

Kobojunkie:
Would the kids be happy knowing that daddy and mommy are living unhappily for their sake though? What do they benefit from watching Daddy and mummy live like strangers, or even enemies, for their sake? Such an arrangement is bound to leave emotional scars that could potentially hunt those kids for life, so why excuse it or make it sound like a reasonable arrangement?

Splitting will make it worse for the child ...

hollow-show don drop quote.

Get cheap Data on my signature

IconicR:
I'm not everyone

I'm iconicR

😀😀 cause you're not of this world abii. Dey play. We're all patiently waiting for the day you'll get married. I am waiting for you to start dropping them posts. Hehe

K33fK0zaRt:
😀😀 cause you're not of this world abii. Dey play. We're all patiently waiting for the day you'll get married. I am waiting for you to start dropping them posts. Hehe

I will marry a reasonable person that has a good heart
I'm very selective because I don't want to make a mistake

Mr selecter..... No select reach meno

IconicR:
I will marry a reasonable person that has a good heart
I'm very selective because I don't want to make a mistake

Aunty keep quiet, you belong to the streets. Any man who takes you serious is an unserious man. No value

IconicR:
I will marry a reasonable person that has a good heart
I'm very selective because I don't want to make a mistake

somebody that has a good heart, that is rich and powerful. Chuckles. What are the odds that you'd find a man that is rich and powerful and also has a good heart?

K33fK0zaRt:
somebody that has a good heart, that is rich and powerful. Chuckles. What are the odds that you'd find a man that is rich and powerful and also has a good heart?

See as you he'll me garnish my comment

We have them around but they are very few

IconicR:
See as you he'll me garnish my comment

We have them around but they are very few

Dey play you're still in your early twenties, I reckon.

hahn:
But you're for the streets and the streets welcome you

I always thank God for peace of mind. Lots of people envy this lady, wish to be her even when they may be living a far happier life than her.

talented321:
With my loud....
Why saying this now? are you traumatized?
You go explain tire but no evidence..
When you think u have thousand of guys waiting for you outside but in reality they all want to chop and clean mouth ...
Are u now regretting or what?
One of the happiest moment of my life is been born as a man...

😅

Don't worry. Your clock is ticking. U are about 40. Your market go soon go down hill. Men prefer young girls with firm body/b**b, and v*g that is tighter and still has ogbono or okra-like fluid, not watery ones that older ones have. My word of advice

talented321:
Everybody was once ranting like you before we humble them...

Who are the we

All these nairaland boys that have not stopped choping "mummy thank you" 😹😹😂

Kingcalls:
■ Splitting will make it worse for the child ...

That's in fact been proven not to be true at all.

You are my daughter's age mate. Stop looking for poor attention...

siofra:


Who are the we

All these nairaland boys that have not stopped choping "mummy thank you"

Zxcvbnmghtr:


I always thank God for peace of mind. Lots of people envy this lady, wish to be her even when they may be living a far happier life than her.

Who wishes to be a hoe? 🙄