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Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by odenkirk: 10:40pm On Sep 21, 2023
the worst that can happen to a man is to be addicted to pmo and betting, i remember when i was living a near perfect life, addicted to only pmo before i introduced myself to a killer habit named football betting.
these two things have ruined me beyond repair, i have stopped living im just merely surviving, before i start football betting i have never go to bed hungry or wake up without anything to eat but now thats my lifestyle, go to bed hungry and wake up without hope of getting anything to eat.
from a normal human being i have turned myself to a slave. i do all sort of hard labour but at the end the money goes directly to the bookies account. just 3days ago i wake up in the morning and go out hustling as usual i carry something that i shouldnt carry because its too heavy for me but i resisted at the end i was paid 2500, i used 500 eat and staked the 2k nd lost it as usual i was left with bodyaches grin .
i have lost all my life to gambling i have nothing left now, whenever i tried to stop my mind kept telling me e fit be you and i think about the money i lost and try to recover even half of it but in the process i lose more, it has reach a level where i have stopped enjoying life at all im just feelling anxious, restless and depressed.
i am afraid, i dont want people around me to notice what is happening to me, because anyone i tell i dont have money i know will not believe me, because im a hard worker who left home early in the morning and come back home in the evening, but deep inside me im hurting because i dont have anything i work for the bookies not myself.
sometimes i think i am under a spell or something like that, why do i keep wasting away my life and couldnt stop it if i am not under a strong spell? i am just tired embarassed embarassed
i remember a time i want to a pos to deposit money and the pos guy said to me 'this thing you are doing is good, as young as you are just keep doing it for atleast a year you will be suprised how much you will save, he said this because i go to his shop to deposit money everyday but unfortunately he didnt know that i deposit to stake and lose.
anyway whatever i will never commit suicide but quitting betting is something that i must do no matter what it will take to quit i must quit.
to the fellow gamblers outthere, i am not advising anyone to quit, because i know telling a gambler to quit is what he hates the most. all we gamblers think we r smart and are taking risks to better our lives but in reality we are dumbasses that hates the truth. #over&out i am done with gambling. may god help me.

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Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by odenkirk: 10:42pm On Sep 21, 2023
if you bet and think u can control it u re deceiving yourself

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Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by odenkirk: 10:43pm On Sep 21, 2023
if you bet and think you can bet responsibly you are a joker. there is a reason they write smoking kills quit now and people still smoke

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Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by odenkirk: 10:44pm On Sep 21, 2023
if you think you can stake what u can afford to lose keep going u will meet ur.....

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Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by jackmrandy: 11:22pm On Sep 21, 2023
Story of an addict. Many too are out there in same shoes like yours.

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Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by odenkirk: 11:30pm On Sep 21, 2023
jackmrandy:
Story of an addict. Many too are out there in same shoes like yours.
i am done with it
Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by Illegal1(m): 11:34pm On Sep 21, 2023
omoh..........i quit beting(virtual)the day i lose 50k cash.


eye turn me reach house,i nearly waka enter road...


frm dat day,i made up my mind quit,its been more than 5yrs,i never near virtual..


@OP,u can quit bet,if only u made up ur mind.

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Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by madone: 11:36pm On Sep 21, 2023
grin >: paper go done full your house , papers full of millions
My guy go don price cars tire for dream.
Weldon sir

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Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by LIVINGICONREBOR: 11:45pm On Sep 21, 2023
E be like say you and childofdoom be siamese twin. Damn!!🤔

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Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by odenkirk: 11:45pm On Sep 21, 2023
Illegal1:
omoh..........i quit beting(virtual)the day i lose 50k cash.


eye turn me reach house,i nearly waka enter road...


frm dat day,i made up my mind quit,its been more than 5yrs,i never near virtual..


@OP,u can quit bet,if only u made up ur mind.
i hv made up my mind nd i am morethan ready to quit

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Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by SyrusdeHansome(m): 11:56pm On Sep 21, 2023
Every human is addicted to something. Some are addicted to God's word, some to food, some to alcohol, others to soft drink, some to sex, others to gambling, etc but i've discovered that addiction to God's word kills every negative addiction. I have my own addiction i'm trying to be free frm so i can never judge u.

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Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by izonborn098(m): 2:52am On Sep 22, 2023
Don't bet and smoke
Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by okoroemeka(m): 4:33am On Sep 22, 2023
izonborn098:
Don't bet and smoke
the society must be balanced, there will always be smokers,gamblers and people with other vices for it to be a normal society

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Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by davosea(m): 6:17am On Sep 22, 2023
Just avoid bet like cancer and stay focus.
Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by DyingFetus: 7:40am On Sep 22, 2023
Cry more mek ahnie come give you hand job


She got a thing for poor foks like you
Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by mjuvey3: 8:08am On Sep 22, 2023
I'm addicted to sex,weed and gangsta rap 🙂

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Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by 100smile(m): 8:17am On Sep 22, 2023
My guy, abeg watin be Pmo
Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by odenkirk: 9:04am On Sep 22, 2023
100smile:
My guy, abeg watin be Pmo
porn masturbation orgasm
Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by Lance008(m): 10:15am On Sep 22, 2023
You are just a senseless gambler how can you work 2500 and use 2000 to bet bro u need to be checked
Your stage presently your highest money you should used in gambling should be 200-500 and wait for the outcome
Bro all this boys u see hitting big in betting most of them are into fraud them they use betting as play not work

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Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by Uchenna10(m): 10:23am On Sep 22, 2023
odenkirk:
the worst that can happen to a man is to be addicted to pmo and betting, i remember when i was living a near perfect life, addicted to only pmo before i introduced myself to a killer habit named football betting.
these two things have ruined me beyond repair, i have stopped living im just merely surviving, before i start football betting i have never go to bed hungry or wake up without anything to eat but now thats my lifestyle, go to bed hungry and wake up without hope of getting anything to eat.
from a normal human being i have turned myself to a slave. i do all sort of hard labour but at the end the money goes directly to the bookies account. just 3days ago i wake up in the morning and go out hustling as usual i carry something that i shouldnt carry because its too heavy for me but i resisted at the end i was paid 2500, i used 500 eat and staked the 2k nd lost it as usual i was left with bodyaches grin .
i have lost all my life to gambling i have nothing left now, whenever i tried to stop my mind kept telling me e fit be you and i think about the money i lost and try to recover even half of it but in the process i lose more, it has reach a level where i have stopped enjoying life at all im just feelling anxious, restless and depressed.
i am afraid, i dont want people around me to notice what is happening to me, because anyone i tell i dont have money i know will not believe me, because im a hard worker who left home early in the morning and come back home in the evening, but deep inside me im hurting because i dont have anything i work for the bookies not myself.
sometimes i think i am under a spell or something like that, why do i keep wasting away my life and couldnt stop it if i am not under a strong spell? i am just tired embarassed embarassed
i remember a time i want to a pos to deposit money and the pos guy said to me 'this thing you are doing is good, as young as you are just keep doing it for atleast a year you will be suprised how much you will save, he said this because i go to his shop to deposit money everyday but unfortunately he didnt know that i deposit to stake and lose.
anyway whatever i will never commit suicide but quitting betting is something that i must do no matter what it will take to quit i must quit.
to the fellow gamblers outthere, i am not advising anyone to quit, because i know telling a gambler to quit is what he hates the most. all we gamblers think we r smart and are taking risks to better our lives but in reality we are dumbasses that hates the truth. #over&out i am done with gambling. may god help me.

Brother just quit, don't listen to some people that re telling u to bet responsibly,no responsible gambler o,I've been there b4,my school fees and money for upkeep,I loosed it to bet..... just quit and have in my that u can never recover ..take it as a lose.....focus on ur hustle..
Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by GodWrites: 11:07am On Sep 22, 2023
Addiction of any kind is terrible. The worst is smoking. Because not only are you wasting money, you are literally burning yourself which will result in a lot of health issues in the future. It's possible to quit. The fact is, you will relapse a couple of times, but never stop trying to quit. I was a daily smoker for 5 good years. I was high from morning till night. I tried numerous times to stop but I couldn't even last 12 hours without shaking. Glory to my name, I'm 6 months sober, and I'm loving sobriety. My mental clarity is awesome. My skin is glowing. My dry chapped lips are now pinky and succulent. My eyes are sparkly, and I'm generally happier and full of life. It's a miracle. The withdrawal was hell, but I fought hard. Now, no more cravings. Someone could be blowing weed on my face and I wouldn't be moved. When I remember what I went through, lack of sleep, lack of appetite, change of taste... Nah. Never again.

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Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by monsuru56(m): 2:02pm On Sep 22, 2023
omo betting no be way o


E go only complicate matter for u

I talk my own o

See my life story below 👇👇
Learn from my story pls 🙏🙏

Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by Archtype(m): 2:14pm On Sep 22, 2023
monsuru56:
omo betting no be way o


E go only complicate matter for u

I talk my own o

See my life story below 👇👇
Learn from my story pls 🙏🙏
which one is "washing your head spiritually"
Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by monsuru56(m): 2:22pm On Sep 22, 2023
Archtype:
which one is "washing your head spiritually"
I swear


I was taken to an Alfa
....my head was washed in a flowing stream for 7 days morning and night cry
Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by Barims(m): 3:22pm On Sep 22, 2023
Don't worry, when I become the president I'm going to ban those betting platforms then your problem solves wink
Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by odenkirk: 3:50pm On Sep 22, 2023
Barims:
Don't worry, when I become the president I'm going to ban those betting platforms then your problem solves wink
i quit already
Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by Lance008(m): 4:24pm On Sep 22, 2023
monsuru56:
I swear


I was taken to an Alfa
....my head was washed in a flowing stream for 7 days morning and night cry
You still Dey bet after dem wash ur head ?
Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by monsuru56(m): 4:26pm On Sep 22, 2023
Lance008:

You still Dey bet after dem wash ur head ?
initially stopped for two years...but I still falled back to my vomit.... until I finally took the decision to stop last year September 4
Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by Lance008(m): 4:28pm On Sep 22, 2023
monsuru56:
initially stopped for two years...but I still falled back to my vomit.... until I finally took the decision to stop last year September 4
No call am vomit Na hardship mak u fall into
No be ur fault

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Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by Archtype(m): 6:43pm On Sep 22, 2023
monsuru56:
I swear


I was taken to an Alfa
....my head was washed in a flowing stream for 7 days morning and night cry
wow...
Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by davosea(m): 7:31pm On Sep 22, 2023
My every single thought is collecting green, i'm never tired till am paid, You will never understand how hurt its until u get bleeped by the bookies tired of been shot,its hell motherfuckin year. I gotta tell the kidz not.
Re: Ruined Beyond Repair. My Village People After Me by odenkirk: 8:34pm On Sep 22, 2023
davosea:
My every single thought is collecting green, i'm never tired till am paid, You will never understand how hurt its until u get bleeped by the bookies tired of been shot,its hell motherfuckin year. I gotta tell the kidz not.
u don finally quit?

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