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Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by tiswell(m): 3:02pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
dosage150:yea,I got it 1 Like |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by Erikiel(m): 3:02pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
My father inculcated fear into me right from my childhood to teenage. It has affected me so badly. Vintage African parents don't show emotional support to their kids. 8 Likes |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by Draslo(m): 3:05pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
Myer:I think many factors were at play over the years cos he didn't just change all at once. it was a metamorphosis 1 Like |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by tiswell(m): 3:05pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
Samantha124:A man isn't raised to fix female wigs/weavon. I don't know,but you,as a lady,is in no position to determine how and what truly a real man is. You just got to be a man yourself to di that. 2 Likes |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by pocohantas(f): 3:07pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
tosinhtml: Sometimes I dey wonder if them been dey borrow from loan app of those years. The matha doesn't maths o. |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by Nobody: 3:08pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
There no such a thing as a wife material... Because what you consider as a wife material may be the complete opposite with another man. And yes, men who grew up without mothers have a tendency to making awful husbands too. tiswell: 2 Likes |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by Myer(m): 3:08pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
Draslo: Until you acknowledge what it is, I'm afraid you will keep plastering the wound instead of confronting the root cause. There's a spirit than needs to be confronted and driven out of your home. Mark.3.27 - No one can enter a strong man's house and plunder his goods, unless he first binds the strong man. And then he will plunder his house. |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by Draslo(m): 3:09pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
Myer:You think so? 1 Like |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by aidameoryou: 3:13pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
jojothaiv: Up your hustle guy, Leave all those hustle make you, hustle no make you. People still keep up with family on a regular incorporating hustle too |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by tiswell(m): 3:13pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
Samantha124:see,naturally, men are not as manipulative and vindictive as women. And yes,there are wife materials,it depends on what you understand by that. How can a lady who hasn't felt or experienced fatherly love and care as a girl child,grow to 'miraculously" become a good wife,when all she knows from childhood is bitterness towards men? 3 Likes |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by Chatham1: 3:18pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
so much to learned from this topic as a parents, most parents have failed in this aspect and we need seek forgiveness from our kids, don’t see ur children as kids , Honestly speaking kids of nowadays are just stone hearted one waiting for the time their would be power transfer to them and they treat ur bleeped up, moral of the lesson , make ur children ur best friend, cos of ur old age. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by Nobody: 3:18pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
So a man can't have a father and a daughter relationship with his own child? And where is it written that a man can't help his daughter with her wig? Just because you weren't raised to do something, it doesn't mean you can't do it with your own children and bond with them. This is why you guys don't have a relationship with your fathers even though they're married to your mothers, you know nothing about a father and a child bond. I know what a real man and father is like because I was raised by one. tiswell: 5 Likes |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by Myer(m): 3:18pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
Draslo: Life is spiritual. I do not think so, I know so. And you should too. |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by yewit37486: 3:19pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
Draslo: Wow, that is so awful. I believe in his heart he has regrets about his action that day, but being a typical African parent, he won't admit it. Really sorry to hear about your experience. 1 Like |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by Nobody: 3:20pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
The same thing applies with men, men who were raised without mothers know nothing about being good husbands. tiswell: 1 Like |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by iamtardey: 3:20pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
Idk why I lagged when I saw this topic… |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by 77star: 3:22pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
Draslo:He didn't apologize? I'm shocked! |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by Igbokwechika101(m): 3:24pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
I so much love my dad and mama too .been a long time I see dem base on Hustle has took all ma time to visit. We do talk on phone once a while.my daddy always to tell me always pray and don't forget to pray.always make sure you pray. |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by 77star: 3:25pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
Nats12:That's an understanding father 1 Like |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by tiswell(m): 3:26pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
Samantha124:I can't win it here seems,but in reality,it is what it is. 1 Like |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by tiswell(m): 3:28pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
Samantha124:This is relative,not general. |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by Gangster1ms: 3:28pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
spencekat:Does it matter? When i was living with him was no different with when i wasn't living with him. The man is unexplainable, he's everything I wish not to be. 1 Like |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by Gangster1ms: 3:30pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
tiswell:Leave my mum outta this, na even she dey push me to love my dad. The man no be am, he has no friends, everyone runs from him, even his children 3 Likes |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by Luu40: 3:31pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
Mine is good. |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by descent96(m): 3:33pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
I'm glad and always thankful to God for the kind of parents I have. I wouldn't be what I am today without the kind of training and upbringing I had from them. All I can say is, may they live longer to reap the fruit of their labour from me.,that is and will always be my prayer. 1 Like |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by tiswell(m): 3:36pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
Gangster1ms:ok... |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by tiswell(m): 3:37pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
descent96:Amen,baba,amen! |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by Princeton92(m): 3:38pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
Relationship with my mum not good, I've never had a relationship with my dad it's more like we're acquaintances from afar till his death |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by ExtremeDot: 3:43pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
Draslo:No let another human words define you. Who the hell is she to tell you that without the scar you would be perfect. Lass lass, physically, no body is perfect. |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by Nobody: 3:44pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
Sometimes as a father, you need to put your big ego aside and be a father to your children by spending some time with them and doing the things they love, even if it means going down to their level. This is why most African kids would be financially supporting their mothers and not their fathers when they grow older... It's not the mother's fault, but it's the man's fault for always not making time for his kids... Some kids are even afraid of their own fathers. And by the time the fathers start thinking of making some time for their children, it'll be too late because the children would now be adults and having their own lives to live. tiswell: 5 Likes |
Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Parent by Lagzy4real: 3:45pm On Sep 22, 2023 |
My relationship with my parents na hmmmm!!! Although we stay in the same town...infact just about 20 - 30 mins drive to each other but we barely talk because they and my spouse suddenly develop a kind of dislike that i find difficult to understand!!! Man must man noni and live on no matter whay |
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