77star:

He didn't apologize?

I'm shocked!

Ashirioluwa:
Ruin your life, how? We need to stop living this life of entitlement.

Okay, since you’ve moved on, have you been able to put your ruined life back on track?

We are all aware that the majority of Nigerian parents are authoritarian, and their behavior or ways can sometimes annoy the kids.

They don't give a damn about how the kids feel because they want things done their way. However, if you don't agree with your parents' behavior or ways of doing things, once you've reached adulthood, keep your distance and live your own life while remaining respectful to them.

phemmybernabeu:
Honour your father and your mother... So that your days may be long.

This is an instruction without condition.

So irrespective of who they are, what they did or what they're doing...

The instruction is CLEAR.

You will not die young.

tiswell:
why always the dad?
mothers and women are always good.

Yet,it's women that gives birth to these kids that continues the cycle of hate towards men.

hate-filled orientation on the kids is usually a woman's yardstick for measuring a man's perceived fvck up,and the innocent kids would grow with it thinking it's a way of life.

Draslo:
Barely talk to my dad about anything. We used to be very close when I was a kid until the day he gave me a scar nobody can miss when they see me. He flogged me thinking I was lying only to find out later I was telling the truth. He never apologized. I love my mom but I limit what I share with her cos na man I be


This scar dey mess with my self esteem badly even till today. I've had women tell me without the scar, aesthetically, I would be perfect.

pocohantas:
Excellent.
My dad in particular would give you update on the whole LGA. Who knack person wife and who do juju. I look forward to his updates which comes mostly after their Sunday meetings.

Draslo:

Not verbally. We visited the optics hospital. Spent quarter a million on tests. Surgery was too expensive so it was abandoned. Never verbally.

chatinent:
Better left unsaid.

minakom:

Forgiven him long before

minakom:
With my mother, perfect.
Father, not heard from him for 19 years.

With my kids. Awsome and so shall it be till my last breath

tiswell:
e fit be ya mum that reported you to be flogged,yet turned around to play on ya side afterwards.

Men have always been unsung heroes in marriage and family.

Make amends with ya dad,else ya children will return the favour someday

Octopusssy:
Perfect. After God, it is my parents.

tiswell:
Single mother-raised or just mother's most ways of getting back at fathers-prolly for some minor issues way back.

You lads should wake da fvck up,cos this cycle will continue,even with ya offspring,mo matter how hard you think you want to please them.

dosage150:


Separated family (no divorce)

Grew up under the shade of our mum
19years + (still counting)

aidameoryou:


Up your hustle guy,
Leave all those hustle make you, hustle no make you.
People still keep up with family on a regular incorporating hustle too

olaniyilukman:
and you never make any effort to look for your Dad and visit him because you believe all the lies your mother told you...

Dbest10:
I have one of the best Dad some people can ever dream of ,my father plays with as if we are age mate, especially trolling me about Chelsea losing matche because he is an Arsenal fan, but must times I get angry at him because he divorced my mum. While my mom is the best thing that ever happened to my life.

tiswell:
single mothers induced venom on kids about men

Purvan:
i just tell people they are dead even though they are alive and live well after ruining my life

1Sharon:


Why are you defending nonsense The guy said his father refused to apologise despite knowing he is wrong, what does that have to do with the mother??