I Have noticed that INTELLIGENT, SMART, BUSINESS SAVVY, young Ladies tend to Marry @29,30years+. 😒🙁

While the Plain, Simple-minded, mostly get Married @25years BELOW!🤨

Why is This So?🤔

*Is it that, We Men are afraid of Intelligent ladies?
*Do we Prefer Average IQ Ladies?
*Are we Afraid of High Ambition Ladies?😕

WHY DO MOST INTELLIGENT LADIES TEND TO MARRY LATER, THAN THEIR AVERAGE JanTe FRIENDS?🤔🙂

Nplfmod!

Hmmmm…It depends on what you refer to as “intelligent” and how you measure “IQ.”
BS. Don’t forget we are talking about marriage here, not the classroom!

because a woman dating pool shrinks as she becomes more successful and more educated... this is why they tend to marry late due to the fact that they wouldn't want to date someone below their status, that's hypergamy... only if it's becoming late for them do they settle for less... for the primitive woman, her dating pool is much wider...

and also, when a woman feels she's too intelligent, she will feel she's outgrown a lot of things, this would make her unable to settle... DJ cuppy is a perfect example.. this is not the same with the primitive woman.. if you feel you're too wise, any little thing puts you off which can as well make it difficult for you to settle down... this is why sometimes ignorance is bliss... why it's not the same with men is because men date and marry down; that's hypogamy... so their dating pool will forever be wide as long as he's valuable or powerful, there will always be someone for him... this is why a man can marry any woman even if she's not educated, as long as she does the basic things at home, men are at peace... and this type of women will shit test you less and won't indulge in stupid mind games with you unlike the overwise educated woman...

when a woman becomes more successful and focused on her career, she begins to exhibit some signs of masculinity which men can easily sniff when dealing with her, which she wouldn't know she's slowly exhibiting... and the tougher or more tasking the job she engages in, the more masculine she's prone to be... since most men don't care about a woman's career or money, they would rather go for the simple minded woman who is in her full pledged feminine state... men don't want competition from men and still come home to compete with their women... for a woman to fully retain her feminine state while being focused on her job, she has to engage in a work or activity that makes her revel in her feminine state, e.g. midwifery, teacher, nursery, nanny, hairstylist, fashion, food, and the likes else she risks having some elements of masculinity which can also put off potential suitors..

Half truth

Life is a very complex place, one MUST have to focus on a lot of areas rather than having a fixed mindset.

How can som1 planning to have a healthy relationship, be chasing career from Jan. - Dec. without time for loved ones?

I know a lot of girls that priotise their privacy watching Tik tok 24/7, rather than creating healthy relationships.

Introvert lifestyle is not bad but its very bad for som1 that intends having any serious relationship.

Vinnie2000:


I Have noticed that INTELLIGENT, SMART, BUSINESS SAVVY, young Ladies tend to Marry @29,30years+. 😒🙁

While the Plain, Simple-minded, mostly get Married @25years BELOW!🤨

Why is This So?🤔

*Is it that, We Men are afraid of Intelligent ladies?
*Do we Prefer Average IQ Ladies?
*Are we Afraid of High Ambition Ladies?😕

WHY DO MOST INTELLIGENT LADIES TEND TO MARRY LATER, THAN THEIR AVERAGE JanTe FRIENDS?🤔🙂

Nplfmod!

None of what you’ve said is correct. Men value peace of mind and also feminine women. A lot of career women often lose their feminine nature and become more masculine (can’t blame them cause of how tough career world is) and men don’t want to marry other men.

Also Most career women are too egotistical and proud. They will walk away at the first sign of discomfort. They are not open to working things out, they think money is everything.

Men are more better at handling the pride and ego that comes with having money. Women are not.

Women make money and start looking for higher status men (cause obviously they don’t marry for love). This is why they have great trouble finding love because those kind of men are few and don’t want them. But a man with money can marry a lower status woman, because men don’t focus on the status of the lady but looks for other motherly qualities.

Reminderz:
because a woman dating pool shrinks as she becomes more successful and more educated... this is why they tend to marry late due to the fact that they wouldn't want to date someone below their status, that's hypergamy... only if it's becoming late for them do they settle for less... for the primitive woman, her dating pool is much wider...

and also, when a woman feels she's too intelligent, she will feel she's outgrown a lot of things, this would make her unable to settle... DJ cuppy is a perfect example.. this is not the same with the primitive woman.. if you feel you're too wise, any little thing puts you off which can as well make it difficult for you to settle down... this is why sometimes ignorance is bliss... why it's not the same with men is because men date and marry down; that's hypogamy... so their dating pool will forever be wide as long as he's valuable or powerful, there will always be someone for him... this is why a man can marry any woman even if she's not educated, as long as she does the basic things at home, men are at peace... and this type of women will shit test you less and won't indulge in stupid mind games with you unlike the overwise educated woman...

when a woman becomes more successful and focused on her career, she begins to exhibit some signs of masculinity which men can easily sniff when dealing with her, which she wouldn't know she's slowly exhibiting... and the tougher or more tasking the job she engages in, the more masculine she's prone to be... since most men don't care about a woman's career or money, they would rather go for the simple minded woman who is in her full pledged feminine state... men don't want competition from men and still come home to compete with their women... for a woman to fully retain her feminine state while being focused on her job, she has to engage in a work or activity that makes her revel in her feminine state, e.g. midwifery, teacher, nursery, nanny, hairstylist, fashion, food, and the likes else she risks having some elements of masculinity which can also put off potential suitors..

same old story una no dey tired at all

SenecaTheYonger:


None of what you’ve said is correct. Men value peace of mind and also feminine women. A lot of career women often lose their feminine nature and become more masculine (can’t blame them cause of how tough career world is) and men don’t want to marry other men.

Also Most career women are too egotistical and proud. They will walk away at the first sign of discomfort. They are not open to working things out, they think money is everything.

Men are more better at handling the pride and ego that comes with having money. Women are not.

Women make money and start looking for higher status men (cause obviously they don’t marry for love). This is why they have great trouble finding love because those kind of men are few and don’t want them. But a man with money can marry a lower status woman, because men don’t focus on the status of the lady but looks for other motherly qualities.

it is a disgrace you claim the name of a greater philosopher
Will seneca write this nonsense
Simply leave successful women alone go for the ones you want
I don't understand why an adult will whine and complain about the decisions of another adult

crystalmoon:
same old story una no dey tired at all

truth doesn't change, only lies...

crystalmoon:
it is a disgrace you claim the name of a greater philosopher
Will seneca write this nonsense
Simply leave successful women alone go for the ones you want
I don't understand why an adult will whine and complain about the decisions of another adult

Why not communicate your thoughts and allow others do theirs, the world is big enough for everyone.

Learning.

The simple minded ones can be easily manipulated, that's why.

Reminderz:
because a woman dating pool shrinks as she becomes more successful and more educated... this is why they tend to marry late due to the fact that they wouldn't want to date someone below their status, that's hypergamy... only if it's becoming late for them do they settle for less... for the primitive woman, her dating pool is much wider...

and also, when a woman feels she's too intelligent, she will feel she's outgrown a lot of things, this would make her unable to settle... DJ cuppy is a perfect example.. this is not the same with the primitive woman.. if you feel you're too wise, any little thing puts you off which can as well make it difficult for you to settle down... this is why sometimes ignorance is bliss... why it's not the same with men is because men date and marry down; that's hypogamy... so their dating pool will forever be wide as long as he's valuable or powerful, there will always be someone for him... this is why a man can marry any woman even if she's not educated, as long as she does the basic things at home, men are at peace... and this type of women will shit test you less and won't indulge in stupid mind games with you unlike the overwise educated woman...

when a woman becomes more successful and focused on her career, she begins to exhibit some signs of masculinity which men can easily sniff when dealing with her, which she wouldn't know she's slowly exhibiting... and the tougher or more tasking the job she engages in, the more masculine she's prone to be... since most men don't care about a woman's career or money, they would rather go for the simple minded woman who is in her full pledged feminine state... men don't want competition from men and still come home to compete with their women... for a woman to fully retain her feminine state while being focused on her job, she has to engage in a work or activity that makes her revel in her feminine state, e.g. midwifery, teacher, nursery, nanny, hairstylist, fashion, food, and the likes else she risks having some elements of masculinity which can also put off potential suitors..

What a perfect answer.



Ignorance is bliss especially when it comes to romance, love, relationship and marriage.


Only fools find love, over wise people always end up miserable and unhappy.


When you act too wise, become too educated and exposed, you tend to scrutinize things more which leads to turning off the opposite sex, and this becomes worst for female gender.


Men all over the world cherish a woman that makes things easy for him.


How do you expect a man to seriously date or marry a lady that finds fault in visiting a man in his house because she is too wise and have learned that visiting her boyfriend's house may lead to him having sex with her, cooking for him and she believes she is too wise for any man to take advantage of her. Her boyfriend will definitely prefer to spend more time with the lady that answer fast whenever he calls on her, while the wise intelligent lady will be calculating the risk of visiting her boyfriend while loosing her boyfriend to the supposed timid girls.


If she eventually ends up visiting her boyfriend, she hates to cook for him because she is too intelligent, too polished and refined to be cooking for one boyfriend.



Whenever the boyfriend raises a topic, our intelligent, successful wise lady knows about the topic even more than her boyfriend, the boyfriend will feel less of a man cos there is nothing to entertain his over sabi girlfriend with cos she has seen it all in life.


Our rich, educated intelligent lady's boyfriend decides to take her out, she has virtually visited all the best restaurants, bars, hotels, parks and everywhere, her boyfriend will become tired and less interested in going out with her because he knows his lady has seen it all and nothing moves her anymore, so he goes to Janet that is not too wise, not exposed, not rich, who appreciates every little thing he does for her. This is how it goes

humilitypays:
What a perfect answer.



Ignorance is bliss especially when it comes to romance, love, relationship and marriage.


Only fools find love, wise people always end up miserable and unhappy.

exactly, you perfectly understood what I meant... this is why the greatest love you would ever experience would be when you haven't fully understand what love or relationships is all about, the do's and don'ts of it.. ignorance is bliss sometimes but everything comes at a cost...

crystalmoon:
it is a disgrace you claim the name of a greater philosopher
Will seneca write this nonsense
Simply leave successful women alone go for the ones you want
I don't understand why an adult will whine and complain about the decisions of another adult

lol, who be this one

Reminderz:
because a woman dating pool shrinks as she becomes more successful and more educated... this is why they tend to marry late due to the fact that they wouldn't want to date someone below their status, that's hypergamy... only if it's becoming late for them do they settle for less... for the primitive woman, her dating pool is much wider...

and also, when a woman feels she's too intelligent, she will feel she's outgrown a lot of things, this would make her unable to settle... DJ cuppy is a perfect example.. this is not the same with the primitive woman.. if you feel you're too wise, any little thing puts you off which can as well make it difficult for you to settle down... this is why sometimes ignorance is bliss... why it's not the same with men is because men date and marry down; that's hypogamy... so their dating pool will forever be wide as long as he's valuable or powerful, there will always be someone for him... this is why a man can marry any woman even if she's not educated, as long as she does the basic things at home, men are at peace... and this type of women will shit test you less and won't indulge in stupid mind games with you unlike the overwise educated woman...

when a woman becomes more successful and focused on her career, she begins to exhibit some signs of masculinity which men can easily sniff when dealing with her, which she wouldn't know she's slowly exhibiting... and the tougher or more tasking the job she engages in, the more masculine she's prone to be... since most men don't care about a woman's career or money, they would rather go for the simple minded woman who is in her full pledged feminine state... men don't want competition from men and still come home to compete with their women... for a woman to fully retain her feminine state while being focused on her job, she has to engage in a work or activity that makes her revel in her feminine state, e.g. midwifery, teacher, nursery, nanny, hairstylist, fashion, food, and the likes else she risks having some elements of masculinity which can also put off potential suitors..

I'm just reading your comment and it's spot on. its crazy how we wrote the same thing without even reading each other's comment first.

Reminderz:
because a woman dating pool shrinks as she becomes more successful and more educated... this is why they tend to marry late due to the fact that they wouldn't want to date someone below their status, that's hypergamy... only if it's becoming late for them do they settle for less... for the primitive woman, her dating pool is much wider...

and also, when a woman feels she's too intelligent, she will feel she's outgrown a lot of things, this would make her unable to settle... DJ cuppy is a perfect example.. this is not the same with the primitive woman.. if you feel you're too wise, any little thing puts you off which can as well make it difficult for you to settle down... this is why sometimes ignorance is bliss... why it's not the same with men is because men date and marry down; that's hypogamy... so their dating pool will forever be wide as long as he's valuable or powerful, there will always be someone for him... this is why a man can marry any woman even if she's not educated, as long as she does the basic things at home, men are at peace... and this type of women will shit test you less and won't indulge in stupid mind games with you unlike the overwise educated woman...

when a woman becomes more successful and focused on her career, she begins to exhibit some signs of masculinity which men can easily sniff when dealing with her, which she wouldn't know she's slowly exhibiting... and the tougher or more tasking the job she engages in, the more masculine she's prone to be... since most men don't care about a woman's career or money, they would rather go for the simple minded woman who is in her full pledged feminine state... men don't want competition from men and still come home to compete with their women... for a woman to fully retain her feminine state while being focused on her job, she has to engage in a work or activity that makes her revel in her feminine state, e.g. midwifery, teacher, nursery, nanny, hairstylist, fashion, food, and the likes else she risks having some elements of masculinity which can also put off potential suitors..

So on point.

She wants more out of life than marriage.

Alot of men think that the world revolves around their p*nis.

I personally respect girls like that.

Vinnie2000:


I Have noticed that INTELLIGENT, SMART, BUSINESS SAVVY, young Ladies tend to Marry @29,30years+. 😒🙁

While the Plain, Simple-minded, mostly get Married @25years BELOW!🤨

Why is This So?🤔

*Is it that, We Men are afraid of Intelligent ladies?
*Do we Prefer Average IQ Ladies?
*Are we Afraid of High Ambition Ladies?😕

WHY DO MOST INTELLIGENT LADIES TEND TO MARRY LATER, THAN THEIR AVERAGE JanTe FRIENDS?🤔🙂

Nplfmod!

Men are Afraid of Intelligent Ladies ... Also The Higher IQ a Woman is The Higher Her Processing Faculty in Sieving BS from Reality & Bonking Her could feel like Trying to Borrow Money From IMF/World Bank ...

Seducing an Higher IQ woman also Requires Possesing Higher IQ yourself & Sense of Humour which most Naija guys ain't endowed Upon ....

So Finding their Match is like Finding Needle inside the Ocean & Once She is glued to You ... Jesus .... She will Monitor You with close Marking & Sniffing You Up & Down .....

Higher IQ girls dey suffer in Nigeria ...Laslas dem go Dey Take Our Boys like that Noni ....

Samantha124:
The simple minded ones can be easily manipulated, that's why.

Intelligent Ones are the Most Easily Manipulated You Just Have to Be an OG(Original Gamer) .... Once You get her "Mumu Button" ... she Will just be Crying up & Da for you like a pet speaking Queens English!

Wow, Sweet to tame a Lioness .... Nothing Badder!

Well, not all men are original gamers, hence most of them go for simple minded ladies they can easily manipulate.

DonroxyII:
Intelligent Ones are the Most Easily Manipulated You Just Have to Be an OG(Original Gamer) .... Once You get her "Mumu Button" ... she Will just be Crying up & Da for you like a pet speaking Queens English!

Wow, Sweet to tame a Lioness .... Nothing Badder!

Samantha124:
Well, not all men are original gamers, hence most of them go for simple minded ladies they can easily manipulate.

We have Only Few Gamers ... Many are Lost To Simping & Redpiller-Craps !

Are you an original gamer?😃😃😃

DonroxyII:
We have Only Few Gamers ... Many are Lost To Simping & Redpiller-Craps !

Samantha124:
Are you an original gamer?😃😃😃

I can't answer for myself ....
You wanna try me Out 😀

Let's play some Games... See whether it's gonna be Fun

As long as those games don't involve you trying to get my contact details, then okay.

DonroxyII:
I can't answer for myself ....
You wanna try me Out 😀

Let's play some Games... See whether it's gonna be Fun

DonroxyII:
Men are Afraid of Intelligent Ladies ... Also The Higher IQ a Woman is The Higher Her Processing Faculty in Sieving BS from Reality & Bonking Her could feel like Trying to Borrow Money From IMF/World Bank ...

Seducing an Higher IQ woman also Requires Possesing Higher IQ yourself & Sense of Humour which most Naija guys ain't endowed Upon ....

So Finding their Match is like Finding Needle inside the Ocean & Once She is glued to You ... Jesus .... She will Monitor You with close Marking & Sniffing You Up & Down .....

Higher IQ girls dey suffer in Nigeria ...Laslas dem go Dey Take Our Boys like that Noni ....

Lolsss..😄😄

Truly, Wooing and BANGING a Lady with Great IQ is Like a Club contesting to win UEFA CHAMPIONS league,
or Person Trying to win a Election!! 🤨🙂

You have to be Intelligent, Patient, Strategic and Cunning too! 😊😊

You wan put banny wey go dey blow your head with steady grammar for your house all in the name of wife?

Even my banny wey dey serve like this via NYSC no be exception at all.......If to say I no be sharp guyman normally,she for don turn me to her puppet........But thank God for the small poly wey I attend plus the street credibility wey I get.

In life, u cant have everything

Those things you listed aren't marriage magnets, neither are they repellant, easiest way to get a man is be humble, friendly, always wear a smile, dress & walk elegantly, then a lil bit of bad girl attitude,

The over all idea, is be the kind of person you want to attract

Samantha124:
As long as those games don't involve you trying to get my contact details, then okay.

Lol ... I won't try to get your contact, You will drop it Yourself 💯 ....

VinnyBaba:


Lolsss..😄😄

Truly, Wooing and BANGING a Lady with Great IQ is Like a Club contesting to win UEFA CHAMPIONS league,
or Person Trying to win a Election!! 🤨🙂

You have to be Intelligent, Patient, Strategic and Cunning too! 😊😊

U get the drift brother ... I like them like that Shaaa ....

I'm showing one shege right now ... she even add Ogbanje join her own ... wetin concern me ... We dey do deliverance for Ogbanje she come Calm down ....

Toxic Mental Magnetic Field Could be Rewired into Normalcy ... e go take some work noni.