Hello nairaland my girlfriend will always ask me why I don’t get upset when she try to upset me because I always ignore her when she comes with her manipulation and it borders her.is her behavior a red flag

women love drama, she wants to have some dramatic moments with you that's why she purposely does things that will upset you so you guys can argue and talk and talk... they thrive from this emotional energy, you displaying that you don't give a crap about her childish plays will make her rethink her decision... once in a while give her that drama she wants when she least expect them, just act completely different to her sometimes, and romantic also sometimes, and also mean when the need be... but if the behaviour is constant like purposely doing what offends you no matter how much you try to correct her, dump her, your peace is more valuable to be traded for any b!tch...

in summary, women are adult children...

Reminderz:
women love drama, she wants to have some dramatic moments with you that's why she purposely does things that will upset you so you guys can argue and talk and talk... they thrive from this emotional energy, you displaying that you don't give a crap about her childish plays will make her rethink her decision... once in a while give her that drama she wants when she least expect them, just act completely different to her sometimes, and romantic also sometimes, and also mean when the need be... but if the behaviour is constant like purposely doing what offends you no matter how much you try to correct her, dump her, you peace is more valuable to be traded for any b!tch...

in summary, women are adult children...

is like ignoring there manipulation do frustrate them

pachigo001:
is like ignoring there manipulation do frustrate them

exactly... and it also make them attracted to you at the same time... unlike the nice or easily manipulated man, he will be used and discarded and push towards the end of the earth...

Anyone who makes it their lives dream to annoy me will be IGNORED & if the individual persists, they'll be kicked out of my life asap ...

Cause it's proof that you're useless ...

I mean, rather than think of how to make my life better, it's how to annoy me that you continually occupy your mind with, no be witchcraft be that ...

Fahvvy:
Anyone who makes it their lives dream to annoy me will be IGNORED & if the individual persists, they'll be kicked out of my life asap ...

Cause it's proof that you're useless ...

I mean, rather than think of how to make my life better, it's how to annoy me that you continually occupy your mind with, no be witchcraft be that ...

This is me

If she does it always it has become a red flag. But if she does it once in a while u also just play along .it will spice up your relationship...

If you never get upset, it becomes boring. Sooner or later she'll start rolling with other guys to get that thrill

Reminderz:
women love drama, she wants to have some dramatic moments with you that's why she purposely does things that will upset you so you guys can argue and talk and talk... they thrive from this emotional energy, you displaying that you don't give a crap about her childish plays will make her rethink her decision... once in a while give her that drama she wants when she least expect them, just act completely different to her sometimes, and romantic also sometimes, and also mean when the need be... but if the behaviour is constant like purposely doing what offends you no matter how much you try to correct her, dump her, you peace is more valuable to be traded for any b!tch...

in summary, women are adult children...

Adult children , lwkmd

thesicilian:
If you never get upset, it becomes boring. Sooner or later she'll start rolling with other guys to get that thrill

*kids

There.
Fixed.

pachigo001:
Hello nairaland my girlfriend will always ask me why I don’t get upset when she try to upset me because I always ignore her when she comes with her manipulation and it borders her.is her behavior a red flag

Bro trust me your doing a good job because the moment u give in to the manipulation that's the end of your peace of mind.

your attitude is actually why she keeps craving for u if you love yourself continue what your doing don't ever I mean don't ever give in.

babzlim:


Bro trust me your doing a good job because the moment u give in to the manipulation that's the end of your peace of mind.

your attitude is actually why she keeps craving for u if you love yourself continue what your doing don't ever I mean don't ever give in.

she get frustrated sometimes and she will ask me why I don’t get upset and I will smile and ignore her

pachigo001:
she get frustrated sometimes and she will ask me why I don’t get upset and I will smile and ignore her

that's her weakness so use it wisely because the moment you fall for the scam that relationship is over...

thesicilian:
If you never get upset, it becomes boring. Sooner or later she'll start rolling with other guys to get that thrill

Then that is madness

No be only ur babe
Even guys Dey vex say u Dey ignore their mumu

pachigo001:
Hello nairaland my girlfriend will always ask me why I don’t get upset when she try to upset me because I always ignore her when she comes with her manipulation and it borders her.is her behavior a red flag

Bro Abeg focus to be honest the biggest red flag Na poverty even your family go run

gunners160:
This is me

fvck
who be this

She's saying you're too soft for her , basically you're a mummy's boy

That's why women always go for the bad boys that will be beating them not Simps and nice guys


If she upset you next time scold her so badly that her jaw drops and add slap to complement it

KillIgbohoN0W:


*kids

There.
Fixed.

Maybe. Lol.

Yes! Na Very Big RED FLAG! Why will she intentionally provoke you! That is wickedness! You do not manipulate someone you love! She does not deserve a cool guy like you! Period!

She just wants to see how you're like when you're angry... Personally I wouldn't want to settle with someone whom I've never seen angry before because he might turn out to be this scary monster.

I'd want to see the guy's angry side while we're still dating so that I can run for my life if I have to.

gunners160:
This is me

hello baba sent you a pm earlier no response yet. Can I have your number or u can reach out to me on zero7083124924. Thanks

willybaby:
hello baba sent you a pm earlier no response yet. Can I have your number or u can reach out to me on zero7083124924. Thanks

sorry the email is no longer functioning again. It was an email I opened around 2012 during my uni days... Will send u a mssg on WhatsApp

gunners160:
sorry the email is no longer functioning again. It was an email I opened around 2012 during my uni days... Will send u a mssg on WhatsApp

sorry Sir number ain't on WhatsApp. Kindly call, flash, text etc thanks

pachigo001:
is like ignoring there manipulation do frustrate them

no b lie, women in general are like dt, wen they re arguing or quarreling with u or shouting at u and u keep quiet, they feel like u are already winning wen u hvnt done or said anything. Am also the kind of person that ignores arguments, although its nt as easy as it looks

gunners160:
This is me

respect

Keep doing what you're doing. It shows you can't easily be manipulated by them. And trust me, women secretly love it.