hi.

I met this gurl about 3 weeks ago,I love her so very much that I can't afford to lose her.
She's everything a man want's in a woman,
Intelligent,
Sexkillism,
And above (my)all pretty.

But,my problem and challenges which makes it the first time i'm startin a thread,is that,i really want to start a serious relationship with her.But they are certain things am not comfortable about are ''doings''.
So guys advice me on how to tackle these problem.
1.She receives calls from guys(admirer's) sometimes she's with me.

2.She is 7 years younger than me.

3.She watches pone videos

4.She want me to disvirgin her.

So please I need a realistic advice on these matter.cos I'd been calling her ever since I declined her request to disvirgin her.

macholls:

But,my problem and challenges which makes it the first time i'm startin a thread,is that,i really want to start a serious

4.She want me to disvirgin her.

So please I need a realistic advice on these matter.cos I'd been calling her ever since I declined her request to disvirgin her.

OMG are you cracking a dumb joke?

Don't tell me you are impotent or are you just scared of blood or tight women?

Whats your problem?

^ Yorubas ll say OKOBO = impotent

Maybe its tym u av a talk wit her an honest one. U r d man dont let her push u around unless ur a toy boy. Dont giv fer d impression dat u cant live wtout her, dat she's ur all in all. She shud as well respect ur feelings and wishes and as for d calls i thnk she jst wanna make u jealous. She is a big gal u cant tell her nt to ans her calls

3 weeks and fully in love . Come back in 3 months time and tell us how the girl u love was deflowered by some guy, then we will talk

i guess shes not ready to commit to the relationship.
recieving calls from guyz (admirers) in ur presence @ nite says it all. If this bothers u, u should talk to her about it.
she wants u to disflower her?
so whats now your problem?

this boy wont me with

Last friday,we both here in my room chatting on contemporary art(cos that's wht she loved doing).So,unexpectedly she ask me '' what do about masturbation''?,i said what?,what does that got to do with the topic we r discussing I ask,then she said don't worry,i said don't worry? No,dont worry is out of it now(just to show her that I cared).I explained it to her,next thing she ask was ''what could possibly be the side effect?'' I said wow,i wasn't expecting these (jokingly)said,maybe I will visit my doctor and get back to u.this I did to distract her from it.
During so few minutes.She started watchin pone on her phone.She asked if I like 2 join her watch? Said, sure. We watched to to some point I ask,why r u doing this to ur self? Her reply was.guys always get pissed out anytime she says,she's a virgin,and that she's tired of the shame and embarrassments rained on her by people around her.That seen she met me,she was attracted to me and want me to disvirgin her.I was so scared,confused to death.I had no choice but to decline.

@Ijaya do u know me that u are contructing wht conspire between me and her.

@sexkill, the thing is,i didn't just say NO!.I said no because I was scared.

@Ijaya Hmm,
I think I have a friend from facebook here.And thanks for sharing my problem.

OP the babe don fool u die.No be real virgin because na alum she take do that her level for downbelow

who is ijaya1? who is macholls/?

Please just remember to use condom before you come back in few months time to say she has given you hiv oh please I'm advising you now oh please keep the condom close by. btw you are supposed to do the right thing which is make her know there's nothing wrong in being a virgin if others are okay being non virgins why can't she be okay with her self, this is what u supposed to tell her and not being confused,  I tire for some people oh phewwww the last thing that can affect me is peer pressure wtf ''they are laughing at me because i'm a virgin I don't want to be a virgin anymore come and disvirgin me'' phewwwww.

ijaya1:

Last friday,we both here in my room chatting on contemporary art(cos that's wht she loved doing).So,unexpectedly she ask me '' what do about self-service''?,i said what?,what does that got to do with the topic we r discussing I ask,then she said don't worry,i said don't worry? No,dont worry is out of it now(just to show her that I cared).I explained it to her,next thing she ask was ''what could possibly be the side effect?'' I said wow,i wasn't expecting these (jokingly)said,maybe I will visit my doctor and get back to u.this I did to distract her from it.
During so few minutes.She started watchin pone on her phone.She asked if I like 2 join her watch? Said, sure. We watched to to some point I ask,why r u doing this to your self? Her reply was.guys always get pissed out anytime she says,she's a virgin,and that she's tired of the shame and embarrassments rained on her by people around her.That seen she met me,she was attracted to me and want me to disvirgin her.I was so scared,confused to death.I had no choice but to decline.

macholls:

@Ijaya do u know me that u are contructing wht conspire between me and her.

macholls:


@Ijaya  Hmm,
  I think I have a friend from facebook here.And thanks for sharing my problem.

lefulefu:

OP the babe don fool u die.No be real virgin because na alum she take do that her level for downbelow

For once and I pray the last time too,I think I agree with efulefe.
That girl doesn't sound like a virgin at all,just three weeks,she's already asking to be defiled,carrying p o r n about in her fone,even if she is anything close to a V I'll call her a techical V(whatever that means sef)that girl don dey self service since only-GOd-knows-when,she just wants a quick bang,maybe you are the only one in reach at the time of the itch(I fit write song o,see rhyme)anyway if you know what's best for you do it and like someone already said 3 weeks isn't enough to conclude that you love her,you maybe strongly attracted to her or even infatuated with her(trust me I know the feeling) listen to your brain and I hope yours works well but if not you could borrow someone's own to use in dealing with the issue at hand.

Two accounts. . .hehe

She wants u to f0rk her, no way that girl is a virgin, p0rn 4 phone?

Mr.Resource:

Two accounts. . .hehe

She wants u to f0rk her, no way that girl is a virgin, p0rn 4 phone?

Wetin you dey talk?

What a story.
OP, next time, try and make your story more credible you hear!!

freecocoa:

Wetin you dey talk?

ljaya and the friend(?) macholls.


As for the girl^ i said she's not a virgin,not with the info ijaya and macholls gave.

please guys am so confused now.
I need concrete advice on how to tackle it.

Talk about inferiority complex on d part of the dumbass fool of a gurl. What gurl with a healthy self-esteem gets ashamed/embarrassed cuz of her virginity? Poster,pls dump her silly ass cuz next time,she'l be telling yu she's ashamed/embarrassed being stuck/Bleep.ing d same guy cuz ppl expect her to sleep around. She gat no mind of her own. . .well so do you

@ smh for ijaya. You created a new ID to start ds topic, but you weren't smart enuf not to post with your known ID your second post, the funniest thing is you trying to deny yourself ,lmao! That was kinda lame,

To your problem, if you want to go ahead, do! If not free her, shikena!

Poster must be 14.

clearly this girl is not a virgin.
don't be a mugu son! 
she has guys calling her and she's
doing everything an experienced woman does
and on top of that watches p0rn. .

Read between the lines guy.

bhusayor:

@ smh for ijaya. You created a new ID to start ds topic, but you weren't smart enuf not to post with your known ID your second post, the funniest thing is you trying to deny yourself ,lmao! That was kinda lame,

To your problem, if you want to go ahead, do! If not free her, shikena!

lwkmd

kool J:

Talk about inferiority complex on d part of the dumbass fool of a gurl. What gurl with a healthy self-esteem gets ashamed/embarrassed cuz of her virginity? Poster,pls dump her silly Bottom cuz next time,she'l be telling yu she's ashamed/embarrassed being stuck/bleep.ing d same guy cuz ppl expect her to sleep around. She gat no mind of her own. . .well so do you

oooo thats my baby with the best signature on NL. hope u are doing well.

@Msdarkskin.
This is one thing I admit,am not man enough. I love this gurl. But, with all these issue of hers all up in my face,makes me weak. Not know how to handle it.

@orikinla.
What do u mean

@bhusaya.
Actually that was a close friend(Ijaya). I have been a fan of NL'ERS for a while,but just signed to be a member with my first thread.
why are my even explaining myself to u. Go chop sand.
POT CALLING KETTLE BLACK.


@jmain.wow! U are awesome.
You know what?, me and her were together yesterday. She told me something that got me state of shock. She said,it was because she had been expose to indecency at the tender age of 8. And that the doesn't know if she should be wild or gentle.

macholls:

@Msdarkskin.
This is one thing I admit,am not man enough. I love this gurl. But, with all these issue of hers all up in my face,makes me weak. Not know how to handle it.

@orikinla.
What do u mean

@bhusaya.
Actually that was a close friend(Ijaya). I have been a fan of NL'ERS for a while,but just signed to be a member with my first thread.
why are my even explaining myself to u. Go chop sand.
POT CALLING KETTLE BLACK.


@jmain.wow! U are awesome.
You know what?, me and her were together yesterday. She told me something that got me state of shock. She said,it was because she had been expose to indecency at the tender age of 8. And that the doesn't know if she should be wild or gentle.

lol op. why u dey spoil my baby's name? her name is bhusayor and not bhusaya. l will ban u oooo.