or if you are a guy, will u accept a lady elder than you?

Of course.

as a friend of course

as a husband . . .erm let's just say I'm most likely to narrow down my options when it reaches that stage.

Y not dat is a plus for moi and as long am not taller dan him even on 7 inches killer heels. Quite a good catch and also our age diff shud nt b ova 5yrs

Yes, and I have/am and He/I see no nothing wrong with it, may not be for everyone though. Only you know if you are comfortable with it or not, doesn't make it right or wrong. Just a matter of whether or not there is a connection that you wish to pursue or not.

kisteshia

@op
Ofcourse.
As long as he is matured,and knows his left fron his right.
Age is just a number.

yes - I will accept a guy that is younger than me.

My guy tricked me - he never revealed his age to me until after we had been talking for several months (he acts much older than I do and he doesn't look really young - he looks mature but he also doesn't look old - he knew how old I was BEFORE he approached me so I just naturally thought he was older than me)

I was shocked when I found out how old he was (3 years younger) - I have NEVER dated a younger man - I love older men

I had already fallen in love with him and couldn't walk away once he revealed his age to me - it was cute and really funny to me once the truth came out because he sounded a bit scared and nervous to tell me "what he already knew" - I had to get a copyright for his book and the information needed his stats - date of birth, etc. When he gave me his date of birth - I saw that I was 3 years older and I questioned him "stunned"

I call myself a "cougar" - lolololololol - sooo funny - I never thought I would be a "cougar" - he is my first - I am glad he tricked me - I would never have dated him if I knew in advance. I thank God for my guy. he is so wonderful,

@Shy_One

My story is very similar, and I could not walk away from him either, have fallen in love with him. Cougar, that's cute!

kistehsia

Inked_Nerd:


Eh ya, now imagine not having all that loveliness had you left him because of his age? You sound so happy. I wish you two many years of happiness.

seconded - I cannot imagine life without him - though I have my doubts and my fears "WE ALL EXPERIENCE" - he is my second skin - God kept his age away from me

I have ALWAYS looked down on younger men - I was sooo wrong.  Dang - this guy is my "Big Daddy." lolololol

kistehsia:

@Shy_One

My story is very similar, and I could not walk away from him either, have fallen in love with him. Cougar, that's cute!

kistehsia

I am not old - "nowhere near" - and I don't chase after men - old or young - they chase me - but that is what Hollywood calls it "cougar" - older woman and younger men.

He laughed when I said that - we don't even speak of it - that was over a year ago - we've been together now since March 9, 2010 (my mom's birthday) - going on 2 years.

So have you ever dated a younger man before this guy you are with now?

No, I have never dated a younger man before, Was faithful in a loveless marriage to a man 6 years my senior, And like you I was not looking for or chasing after men. I had plenty of advances both younger and older, but none that I had a connection with till my Beloved came into my life, It has been months and I have no regrets,

kistehsia

^^^ me too

my guys have always been 6-10 years my senior and some older than that - so this is a first for me.

hey have a great Sunday - I worked late last night - need to grab some shut-eye before I start working later today.

take care.

David and Victoria(spice girl) Beckham: Perfect example.

Shy-One:

yes - I will accept a guy that is younger than me.

My guy tricked me - he never revealed his age to me until after we had been talking for several months (he acts much older than I do and he doesn't look really young - he looks mature but he also doesn't look old - he knew how old I was BEFORE he approached me so I just naturally thought he was older than me)

I was shocked when I found out how old he was (3 years younger) - I have NEVER dated a younger man - I love older men

I had already fallen in love with him and couldn't walk away once he revealed his age to me - it was cute and really funny to me once the truth came out because he sounded a bit scared and nervous to tell me "what he already knew" - I had to get a copyright for his book and the information needed his stats - date of birth, etc. When he gave me his date of birth - I saw that I was 3 years older and I questioned him "stunned"

I call myself a "cougar" - lolololololol - sooo funny - I never thought I would be a "cougar" - he is my first - I am glad he tricked me - I would never have dated him if I knew in advance. I thank God for my guy. he is so wonderful,

Lol. Must be a common trick younger men use when they know you may have a problem with the age gap. I've been a victim too. Dude added 5 good years to his age which made him "1 year older" than I was. Though we no longer see each other, I have very pleasant memories of him.

Age has nothing to do with maturity, which is the needed quality in a relationship

yes i will,theres nothing there

As long as his bank account is older than mine then no problem.
Age is just a number like they say, what really matters Is his level of maturity and love towards me.

All the girls speaking with one voice . . . .kinda strange

ilovelagos:

or if you are a guy, will u accept a lady elder than you?

I certainly don't mind an older woman. Not much older, though!

sauer:

All the girls speaking with one voice . . . .

Pas vrai, Je suis l'exception

Now,let's change the flow.
I'm one old-skul gurl.i wont date a man younger than me.
If he's younger,knowing me,i'd find it hard to respect him and it might be an issue.i like my men older and in reasonable control of moi.

if i am meeting a lady i dont know her age, i try as much to get the neccessary inf that may lead me to calculating her age and as well i try to be smart wen she asks mine, very smart cos most ladies knowing that will take-a-walk.

i really like mature-in-mind ladies, and u rarely get them from all these small girls,

thus, i wouldn`t mind an older lady once her physical appearance dont look way to older than mine.
wat really matters is the konnektions btw yu guys

I can, but If she is older than me with anything above 3 years then no way.
Once had a girl 8 years older than I am but we didnt date even tho the feelings are there. The age difference was just 2 much.

So many sugar mommies on NL!

Use to date one that was older than me, And i use to love her like norrin else, As in day dream and all that. Unfortunately things didn't work out for reasons best known to God,

But the age was never a issue throughout the relationship. Love conquers age

nagoma:

So many sugar mommies on NL!

I thought I was the only one thinking that out loud

Please am 24 if you know of anybody older than me that can accept me am willing to go down the person please call me on 08035003892

Lloyd Achi:

I thought I was the only one thinking that out loud

And some Jigolos as well. looking for Gold? Go to South Africa.

I do not think I can date a Guy who is younger than I am, the respect just won't be there. Maybe it's coz I started dating and got married early as well, but I do prefer Men who are older with at least 6years, the limit will have been 15years age difference sha, lol. I guess it's coz I feel mature men have seen it all, are likely to pet their ladies more and have less tendency to cheat. Plus you know what they say about Women ageing faster than Men - in the long run,

WILL U ACCEPT A MAN YOUNGER THAN YOU?

YEAH SURE!