talented321:
Don't advice!
1.a man who has money.
2.a woman after a prophet.
3.a man or woman who's in love.
4.a boy in his prime who's doing well..
5.a girl in her prime who has a yansh.
6.ajebo
Infact don't advice people who don't ask for ur advice..

doggedfighter:
It seems this particular topic puts money in men's pockets these days ?



Or are unmarried old girls harassing men at gunpoint on the streets?

Why are men who can be 65 and still marry 20 year olds dishing advice and crying more than the bereaved these days?

I am curious 😄

doggedfighter:
It seems this particular topic puts money in men's pockets these days ?



Or are unmarried old girls harassing men at gunpoint on the streets?

Why are men who can be 65 and still marry 20 year olds dishing advice and crying more than the bereaved these days?

I am curious 😄

doggedfighter:
It seems this particular topic puts money in men's pockets these days ?



Or are unmarried old girls harassing men at gunpoint on the streets?

Why are men who can be 65 and still marry 20 year olds dishing advice and crying more than the bereaved these days?

I am curious 😄

talented321:
Don't advice!
1.a man who has money.
2.a woman after a prophet.
3.a man or woman who's in love.
4.a boy in his prime who's doing well..
5.a girl in her prime who has a yansh.
6.ajebo
Infact don't advice people who don't ask for ur advice..

Nextt:


I don't intend to fan the flame of sexism or genderism or any kind of gender bias. I think Op may have been moved to create this thread based on the number of ladies who come to social media to lament their singlehood and the fact that, for many, they have exceeded the age bracket where men consider them desirable for marital union.

One thing, though, that Op did not address is the fact that many of the ladies who have grown past their age of flower is did not deliberately reject good men but were victims of hope in relationships that were doomed like the Titanic.

Another fact is that, for some, their parents have a hand in their status as singles.

For many, after they were brutally scarred emotionally it would take years to trust and open up their hearts to men.

Many ladies also find themselves in situations like this owing to no fault of theirs. They were brought up to be good, focused, to shun negative youthful influence - a path they followed but luck was not just on their side while the very opposite have had no problem tying the knot with a good man every Saturday.

There are so many variables that exist on the physical and spiritual angles of perspective but unaccounted for in the op.

Persephone1:
If African men get a dollar for every mental contribution to Marriage, Women's body and Sex they'd be the richest and most developed continent in the world!

I guess meditating and reasoning about women's anatomy is the highest level they can ever reach in the world of innovative ideas. Shame!

Marynwachukwu21:
That's true👍,there are lots of them here seeing the post but they will not correct themself.The generation we are now is turning upside down due to the way parents train up their children.

lordnkem000:

True.
But I blame the adults more than the parents.
Omo any person wey see better 45% for relationship just marry sharp sharp. People re 10/100 these days

lordnkem000:

But Mr op wasn't wrong in his assertions, though Nairaland men carry woman matter for head too much

Marynwachukwu21:
Their have been brainwashed by what they see

Marynwachukwu21:
They have been brainwashed by what they see

Persephone1:
Everybody settles
even men do too. Everyone gets old and ripe, it's natural. Only men carry the matter for head and one is left to wonder if these men are sore from past rejections or what?

Reminderz:
one thing I've stopped doing is advising women, especially women at their prime, and my peace of mind have magnified... I advice you do that and see for yourself...

stop wasting your time, life will surely teach everyone...

Persephone1:
If African men get a dollar for every mental contribution to Marriage, Women's body and Sex they'd be the richest and most developed continent in the world!

I guess meditating and reasoning about women's anatomy is the highest level they can ever reach in the world of innovative ideas. Shame!

Little21:

Exactly! everyone dies at the end of the day.
But why is it that men nowadays don't think about anything more than women issues?

It may be past rejections who knows.
Women go through worse. And you won't see them, speaking about men all the time.

They forget about the past and try too look forward to what next. But it seems men lives in the past.

PoliteActivist:
OP you talk as if the most important thing in the world is selling fruit. What good is selling the fruit when you are not happy. What's important is your feeling happy and fulfilled, not selling fruit.
Live your life the best you can wether fruit is sold or not. Don't get into an unhappy situation or situation of regret just to sell fruit! And don't be tricked into letting your happiness hinge on selling fruit, which is a totally man-made expectation. Selling fruit is ok, but always remember, you can live a happy, fulfilled life without selling fruit, much happier than many who sold fruit!
This 61 year old woman below has a happy, fulfilled, and productive life! Not everyone is meant to be selling fruit!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UIQ68UWdWKs?si=QK_0QWdUxxS4NPzG

Kipaji:


They are very Hot. They think about women because women can be a canal through which they can relieve their sexual energy. They have sex in their mind. And who do you have sex with? Exactly, women. So they think about women and their sex-related issues.
Men are not talking about women's involvement in politics, their impact on the economy, their academic contributions, or their views on various aspectsof the world. Instead, men talk about their bodies (because that's what you have sex with), marriage (because you have sex in marriages and most men marry for indoor pvssy), relationships and situationships (because they involve sex).
It's not about women, it's about sex/lust.
But it's a shame. Seeing that men's only have "sex" going on in their heads and nothing else.



You won't see them speaking about men but they sure do. Women are just smart enough to not expose themselves like men do (even though it is changing these days with social media).

Take passport bros, for example. Men made a lot of noise about it. However, women have been practicing it for as long as they have been able to. For as long as they have been able to, women went to specific countries/areas to get fvcked, women relocated to access "better" men. It is something that humans do. But men made it a whole "movement" while women kept it low.
I will give you an illustration. Some girls leave their neighborhood to hang out in "high places" such as luxury restaurants, with the hope of getting approached by a certain kind of man. Isn't that a form of micro passport sis move?
This for ladies that as nothing better too do.




It is important to distinguish appearance from reality. What somebody projects may not be what goes on internally.

Amumaigwe:


Believe what an evening newspaper says about marriage at your own risk.

doggedfighter:
It seems this particular topic puts money in men's pockets these days ?



Or are unmarried old girls harassing men at gunpoint on the streets?

Why are men who can be 65 and still marry 20 year olds dishing advice and crying more than the bereaved these days?
I am curious 😄