Asebaba1:

No o! On his mother

Deepthoughts:
Your wife is just trying to use sex as a weapon to manipulate n control you,take my advice,don't be aggressive just appear calm n normal,then shun demanding for sex from her for month,but I wonder if you can be my kind of person n do that, this is the mistake women do n push their good men away to wrong hands, imagine telling a man that he has to start from morning trying to get a woman in the mood against night time!,that woman never jam!.

josite:
she has evolved into an emotional expensive woman and she is asking u to pay more emotionally in order to earn the emotional income that already belongs to you.

if solution is really your quest,why not be extra nice and extra caring to her ,sing love songs to her,buy her small small gifts .

Yankiss:
Well, she might be correct. Childbirth makes a lot of changes in a woman. It affects her shape and sometimes self-esteem and how she views life. Some are still scared of the labour room and the trauma. Recovery is gradual. Also, men and women react differently to sex. She has to be in the mood way ahead of time. While men are instantaneous, women may take longer to arrive there. He should romance her in the morning, cuddle, smooch, any kind of rough play or sexually-spiked teasing. He shouldnt become the preacher. She still wants to be pampered and cuddled like during courtship. She would be in the mood later. OP should not listen to the advise of wreckers here.

Ogalanyaidi:



Thanks but I already do this and more. I think she is just manipulating me

felong:
Stop giving her money.

Marynwachukwu21:
That means you fit cheat on your wife🙄

Ogalanyaidi:
I have been married for a little under 2 years. During out courtship, my wife and I were very intimate. Later on, she became pregnant and we welcomed a child but since then, our sex live has never recovered till date. My wife is currently pregnant but the denial didn't start today.

She does everything possible to prevent us from having sex, from laying our child on our bed instead of the court to cleaning or watching movies in the lounge room whenever I am in the room, she will then reenter the bedroom when i am asleep. The last time, she said that I don't do enough to get her arose and that if I want sex I have to earn it. She suggested that I have to start in the morning by being nice to her so when it's night, I would have been able to get her arose.

I work an average of two shifts everyday, and sleep at home maybe 3 nights a week so I can pay our mortgage and other bills as she barely works due to having to look after our child.

Freelancerr:
Embrace polygamy.

Kelvinofficial:
Men out there, we need to understand what mind frame is and how to use it to our advantage. The world is against us right from the time we are born. We need to develop unapologetic confidence and strong mind frame. The power that women think they have was given to them by the men in her life. Women are nothing without us. Whether relationship or marriage or ordinary friendship, it’s all about frame. The frame you interact with women and every other person in your life matters! It’s all in your frame!

kestolove95:
if your wife deny you sex, that's cheating.. Go out ND get it simple..

3ice9ce:
Don't stress your wife.
Tinder, Bumble, Bigo Live, Badoo

Download any of them. Whatever you decide to do with it, my hand no dey.

Yankiss:
Well, she might be correct. Childbirth makes a lot of changes in a woman. It affects her shape and sometimes self-esteem and how she views life. Some are still scared of the labour room and the trauma. Recovery is gradual. Also, men and women react differently to sex. She has to be in the mood way ahead of time. While men are instantaneous, women may take longer to arrive there. He should romance her in the morning, cuddle, smooch, any kind of rough play or sexually-spiked teasing. He shouldnt become the preacher. She still wants to be pampered and cuddled like during courtship. She would be in the mood later. OP should not listen to the advise of wreckers here.

kestolove95:
Hmmmmn some men sef, wey women full outside na him one tin call wife go do mi yang...

Fahvvy:


This is an interesting perspective ...
Thanks for sharing ...

What then would you advice he does, seeing that the foundation of their marriage wasn't laid properly?

3ice9ce:
Don't stress your wife.
Tinder, Bumble, Bigo Live, Badoo

Download any of them. Whatever you decide to do with it, my hand no dey.

KillahPriest:
get away from my mentions Mr Mumu Over baked advise. Have you seen the op before ? Can you predict when a woman's skoi skoi will start to manifest ? Do you know if she has another love interest somewhere ? You sef obviously no get doings too if not you'll know women get extremely jealous and territorial immediately they suspect their men are getting some attention outside hence my advice for him to get new clothes , toiletries and stay out late more frequently to raise that jealousy into a confrontation where he'll state his frustrations with her behavior, she'll state her own side and then, they'll hopefully settle their differences. Everything na strategy but no be all we suppose dey talk

felong:
Stop giving her money.

Ogalanyaidi:


Thanks, while i try to improve myself, I run a succesful business , I graduated with a distinction and trained myself through school and have added 4 Professional qualifications in the last 7 months. Same applies to my spirituality