CHoccolaTE:
Men and their disgusting obsession with sex.

See how they are crying and shouting all over this thread because OP said they should be considerate and not behave like sex maniacs.

I wonder how Nigerian women tolerate you sociopaths.

Please marry a woman... It's biological for a man to desire sex. If you are so pained about it, please marry a woman. It's a free world.

The wife. No one values a doormat which most wives have made themselves out to be. That’s why African men treat their Oyinbo wives like God, cos she won’t take rubbish from him.

pocohantas:


They know these things. It is why they appreciate their mothers and say the wife never comes close to her. Stop pouring water on stones. They know.

Odiegwu! at these age, if you won't take into conigsance naa weytin similar dem dey take compare each other, i feel all hope is lost

Does wife equate Mother, ordinary to cook sweet food for una BF una go dey shout i am not your maid upandan how many mother you don see drag there son to court for seperation

aunty respect yourself ! nonsense & ingredients

CHoccolaTE:
Men and their disgusting obsession with sex.

See how they are crying and shouting all over this thread because OP said they should be considerate and not behave like sex maniacs.

I wonder how Nigerian women tolerate you sociopaths.

Its men that obessed with sex Buh its always women rushing online to wail how dey couldnt cope with a 2min man.
Men are obsessed with sex, buh at the magistrate court 8 out of 10 cases is about a woman seeking for divorce cos the man can't perform or last 2hrs in bed.

I don't understand this kind of stupid and nonsense post.

Why get married if you cannot satisfy your partner sexually except in the case of health situation.

I see no reason why a healthy woman should not be available to have sex with her husband at any time he wants, same applies to guys also.

Only a useless man will his wife be setting sex timetable for.

I reject to be that kind of man.

Lamanii22:
Okay so uh… I have been reading a lot about men complaining about how their wives wouldn’t have sex with them after having kids…. The truth is… sex is harder to have after birthing a baby or more babies, it’s even more harder to feel aroused when you have a toddler to care for, a baby that wants to feed all time, the lack of sleep you get, doing the cookings, making the house clean….

Men please pity your wives too, try to be discipline your p***s….. it’s not easy on the woman too… thank you…

Lolz 😆
You see why monogamy cannot work?

brain54:
Marriage is about compromise…

And understanding. Both partners should meet themselves halfway.

It’s not easy- but the man especially must make efforts to control his Dickson. (Every man should have self control even with a willing partner/under normal circumstances)

How can anyone enjoy sex with a baby needing attention around?

Dey play

Sterope:
Most men don't work 24/7 or even all day

Men don't work at all.

Lamanii22:
Okay so uh… I have been reading a lot about men complaining about how their wives wouldn’t have sex with them after having kids…. The truth is… sex is harder to have after birthing a baby or more babies, it’s even more harder to feel aroused when you have a toddler to care for, a baby that wants to feed all time, the lack of sleep you get, doing the cookings, making the house clean….

Men please pity your wives too, try to be discipline your p***s….. it’s not easy on the woman too… thank you…

Lami why are you trying to run away from your homely duties?

Lamanii22:
Okay so uh… I have been reading a lot about men complaining about how their wives wouldn’t have sex with them after having kids…. The truth is… sex is harder to have after birthing a baby or more babies, it’s even more harder to feel aroused when you have a toddler to care for, a baby that wants to feed all time, the lack of sleep you get, doing the cookings, making the house clean….

Men please pity your wives too, try to be discipline your p***s….. it’s not easy on the woman too… thank you…

That's why married women should advocate for side chicks.

When the wife's kpekus is tired, the side chick.can take over.

Kingray10:


I guess that's the type of men around you and the type you attract...
Even in this niaraland there are plenty of logical men here. You just chose not to see them... You have focused ur attention on the negativity about them that's why you don't see the logical...
About my the woman how many have you see discussing something reasonable or rational..
All they do is look for the new ways to exploit the men at their dm, with nothing in their head...

You are a prime example. I have just raised an observation about the lack of objectivity in men's opinions on Nairaland. Now instead of you to counter my argument, you begin by implying that it's the men I attract that aren't logical or that I choose not to see the logical ones, when I have clearly stated that the old Nairaland had a good number of intelligent male posters. You have formed a personal opinion with no proof of who I am and what kind of man/men I interact with. You don't even have any proof of whether I even attract any men at all. See? That right there is illogical.

I won't argue with you about whether or not women are emotional. What I know is that both men and women can exhibit both rational and emotional tendencies and Nairaland is a perfect example of the existence of out-of-control men who do nothing but rant over mundane things (emotional character). Not to mention the irrational decisions they make which endanger their lives and the lives of their loved ones.

You have hit the head on the nail. Or do I say the reverse?

Lamanii22:
Okay so uh… I have been reading a lot about men complaining about how their wives wouldn’t have sex with them after having kids…. The truth is… sex is harder to have after birthing a baby or more babies, it’s even more harder to feel aroused when you have a toddler to care for, a baby that wants to feed all time, the lack of sleep you get, doing the cookings, making the house clean….

Men please pity your wives too, try to be discipline your p***s….. it’s not easy on the woman too… thank you…

It's not easy having a beautiful woman close to you forever and your preek is still starving oh.

YoshihideSuga:


Your solution is quite pitiable. A married man should visit a brothel because his wife has refused his advances for sex for a long period of time?

Wow! So, what benefit do men get from marriage?

Your long period of time is your own addition.


Tell us why you got or are getting married. For sex? are you marrying a sex doll?

A caring and loving husband will understand what's going on with his wife and would even assist her in tending to the children and in this situation they'll both work out what's best time for their intimacy and all. But the truth is most men are selfish and see the woman as bionic woman that never gets tired. They let her do everything at home, chores, children and still expect her best in the other room. Then they start comparing her with a side chick that doesn't even cook at home nor does she have children to tend to. Men are selfish!

YoshihideSuga:


Please marry a woman... It's biological for a man to desire sex. If you are so pained about it, please marry a woman. It's a free world.

You sef marry a man. Since you men are the ones that have irrationally high sex drives.
Sex maniacs every where.

reddingtonblack:



Its men that obessed with sex Buh its always women rushing online to wail how dey couldnt cope with a 2min man.
Men are obsessed with sex, buh at the magistrate court 8 out of 10 cases is about a woman seeking for divorce cos the man can't perform or last 2hrs in bed.

Yes
Men are the ones always threatening fire and brimstone when their wives say they are not in the mood for sex.
They are the ones sleeping around, cheating on their wives and boldly claiming to be naturally polygamous
Na una.

Seriouslady:
A caring and loving husband will understand what's going on with his wife and would even assist her in tending to the children and in this situation they'll both work out what's best time for their intimacy and all. But the truth is most men are selfish and see the woman as bionic woman that never gets tired. They let her do everything at home, chores, children and still expect her best in the other room. Then they start comparing her with a side chick that doesn't even cook at home nor does she have children to tend to. Men are selfish!

Honestly, that's the truth.

These men know what they are supposed to do but they choose to be selfish and evil instead.

Lamanii22:
Okay so uh… I have been reading a lot about men complaining about how their wives wouldn’t have sex with them after having kids…. The truth is… sex is harder to have after birthing a baby or more babies, it’s even more harder to feel aroused when you have a toddler to care for, a baby that wants to feed all time, the lack of sleep you get, doing the cookings, making the house clean….

Men please pity your wives too, try to be discipline your p***s….. it’s not easy on the woman too… thank you…

Shey the husband no get feelings ni?

CHoccolaTE:


Yes
Men are the ones always threatening fire and brimstone when their wives say they are not in the mood for sex.
They are the ones sleeping around, cheating on their wives and boldly claiming to be naturally polygamous
Na una.

Can you date a 2min man asking for myself

NOwazobia:
Just masturbate or [/b]visit a brothel[b] if you know say the thing hook you too much.


Your wife is not some doll you must hump at will.


Some of the comments here are so anyhow, and I wonder if you so called dumb Alphas can tolerate same for your mothers.


The second to comment foolishness na follow come. Imagine the nonsense he wrote.


If you are marrying for solely sex, and you consider a wife as a sex object...,


... please stick to Olosho, because even a baby Mama won't allow such nonsense.

Then when he contracts serious STIs and HIV, who then will he still later do the transfer to , if not the wife ..

How has that lifestyle solved the issue

reddingtonblack:




Can you date a 2min man asking for myself

Asking for yourself how?
Lmao
Wetin concern me concern you?

Anyway the answer to your question is NO.
Because that is premature ejaculation and men that have it are sick. I can't marry a sick man.

You see the height of insensitivity on the part of the poster's line of thought justifying sexual apathy.

Sex is even sweeter and more enjoyable after childbirth. Men shouldn't be castigated for their polygamous tendencies upon their spouses apathy in the other room.

Seriouslady:
A caring and loving husband will understand what's going on with his wife and would even assist her in tending to the children and in this situation they'll both work out what's best time for their intimacy and all. But the truth is most men are selfish and see the woman as bionic woman that never gets tired. They let her do everything at home, chores, children and still expect her best in the other room. Then they start comparing her with a side chick that doesn't even cook at home nor does she have children to tend to. Men are selfish!

As much as i don't want to undermine women effort on house chores you make it look as though a house wife takes on a community chores in the house
One thing ladies forget to take into cognisance is that before marriage men combine work and house chores, we didnt die

children can be stressful tho but i think the chores thing is blown out of proportion

OP, can you put what you are saying in proper context for us to understand?
1. How many times in a week were you and husband having sex, during courtship?
2. After marriage, how many times was it in a week?
3.After child birth, how many times is it supposed to be?

I have almost given up on sex, the last time I had it was on the 2nd of January, this year, that was when I returned home from Christmas break, after taking my wife home to deliver there.

To the glory of God, she delivered on the 8th of June this year, and returned on the 14rh of August, but since then, we haven't had any intimacy.

Then I have been controlling myself, until she made some advances last night, but I paid her back, and I must make sure she go through what she puts me through.

Women, understand that it is not just only about you, do unto others what you will want others, do unto you.

Personally, I have been gifted in controlling my sexual urge, I stayed celibate in the whole of 2017, no one can use sex to suppress me, but I am afraid, any day I decide to cheat on my wife, she will loose me for good.

CHoccolaTE:


Asking for yourself how?
Lmao
Wetin concern me concern you?

Anyway the answer to your question is NO.
Because that is premature ejaculation and men that have it are sick. I can't marry a sick man.

shakara don start, ontop your status dey play

On a serious note have you seen churchhill babies, if that is "sick" whu kpokpogri epp

be careful what you wish for

Sterope:
Sometimes I forget. It has to be cruelty to insist on upholding values that are doing more harm than good.

I try not to forget anymore. I have things to do with my time. They can do the online delulu alone.

Lamanii22:
Okay so uh… I have been reading a lot about men complaining about how their wives wouldn’t have sex with them after having kids…. The truth is… sex is harder to have after birthing a baby or more babies, it’s even more harder to feel aroused when you have a toddler to care for, a baby that wants to feed all time, the lack of sleep you get, doing the cookings, making the house clean….

Men please pity your wives too, try to be discipline your p***s….. it’s not easy on the woman too… thank you…

Don't generalise about sex is harder when women give birth to kids. Some women may have such issues and i doubt it is majority of women.

Purvan:
When a wife is in need financially, the husband should say he doesn't have anything to give

This gender and sex

GOD knew that, That's why polygamous is the BEST thing i don't know how this idea of 1man 1 women just make it like it who we're, Alot of men give there wife STD due to the nature of MEN