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Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? / She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. / How Do I Handle This? (2) (3) (4)
| How Do I Handle This Relationship ? by adaperry25: 10:48am On Oct 28, 2023 |
We started a few months ago. She said she will like us to relocate abroad and raise a family. I objected to it that I can't because it's a family decision since im the first son. My younger one's can go while I remain here in Nigeria. It led to a heated argument and I ended the relationship. She cried and said I took a hasty decision that she is trying to see if we can reach a conclusion. We reconciled and came back. But once in a while..she will want to guilt trip me on why I have decided to stay in Nigeria instead of having a good life abroad. I made it known to her that I don't want to be the one that will hinder her progress since her brothers are abroad. If her family decides for her to come over..its fine by me and we can end the relationship amicably. She's acting all emotional and depressedt and said that its easy for me to say we break up and I told her im only being logical. Now she said her bro has started processing her documents to come abroad. I don't want to be the one that will tell her we need to break up the second time as I can't handle crying from women. I love her very much . Please how do I handle this? 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Relationship ? by brain54(m): 10:54am On Oct 28, 2023 |
Me: Yawn… (Read 2 lines) Another deep yawn. Sleep! 10 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Relationship ? by Mhizzard(m): 11:10am On Oct 28, 2023 |
If truely she really loves,you can abide by her decision.being a first son doesn't mean you can travel out.but if there is another excuse apart from this.or you give her the suggestion that after having a child you people could travel |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Relationship ? by adaperry25: 11:15am On Oct 28, 2023 |
Mhizzard:It's a personal and family decision.. I want to stay in naija 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Relationship ? by Mhizzard(m): 11:26am On Oct 28, 2023 |
adaperry25:then free her if she can understand your decision. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Relationship ? by Mhizzard(m): 11:26am On Oct 28, 2023 |
adaperry25:then free her if she can't understand your decision. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Relationship ? by adaperry25: 11:35am On Oct 28, 2023 |
Adeoye11:I don't understand |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Relationship ? by SavageResponse(m): 12:13pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
So na man get this account sef, I used to think it's a female  |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Relationship ? by skj1377(m): 12:27pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
Love is a scam. Love can't sustain a relationship or marriage. |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Relationship ? by WeirdAlien: 12:31pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
A bird and a fish can fall in love . The great question is "where would they build their nest?" You guys want different things. Love sometimes means you let go of that person so they can find the happiness they won't have with you. You have a family decision not to travel, what if it's the universe speaking to you that you could be in better position to help your siblings abroad? With her family abroad, sooner or later, she will travel. If she is smart, she knows it's unwise to stay back in naija because of a man who could dump her at any time. Not that you're the kind of person, but bro, shit happens. The bird and the fish in love... They both know how it ends. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Relationship ? by Purvan(m): 2:54pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
I'm jejely waiting for a woman to reply to this post |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Relationship ? by adaperry25: 8:45pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
WeirdAlien:nice and aptly put |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Relationship ? by adaperry25: 12:14am On Nov 08, 2023 |
Update: after careful considerations..i ended things with us. It hurts but we move |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Relationship ? by jogsman01(m): 4:30am On Nov 08, 2023 |
adaperry25:you fit dm her number? I wan ask her something 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Relationship ? by C2Ok: 7:01am On Nov 08, 2023 |
adaperry25:If your story is true Then I sure hope you don’t regret your decision in the nearest future. Thanks for letting the girl go tho, that’s also a matured thing 👀 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Handle This Relationship ? by adaperry25: 6:32pm On Nov 08, 2023 |
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